I am in love with my fiance', we have basically had 2 relationships. Our "last" relationship and "this one". In the "last" one I got pregnant with his son, he cheated on me several times, we broke up every five min, we lived together at my parents, and it ended when my sister accused him of making passes at her(she is only 15) and my parents kicked him out.
this time around has been amazing though, He stays at home and watches our son in the apartment that is a couple floors above my office.
well the other day we had a big blow out fight where (i realize i was wrong) had lied to him about something and he had continued to question me and i would add details and the last time i had told him the whole truth, but he was questioning me once again and wasnt believing me. so i made up that more had happened thaan what had. well at the end of the fight we made up and was crying and stuff.
the next moring i went through his phone for the first time in about 6 months. I found a conversation in there of him and this girl, he has a conversation with a girl, thats no big deal, but what is the big deal is that:
1-He asked her to watch our son-I dont know this girl and we had agreed that opur son would never be around someone unless we both gave permission.
2-he was talking to her about how he used to have a crush on her- no big deal if he hadnt then also said that he still wonders what s** would be like with her and asked her if she would be will ing to have s** with her if he were single
3- when he went to pick up his w-2 from his old work he picked her up and hung out with her- would have ben ok but he kept it from me, took really long time at his work, and had her around my son.
4-he told her about how he does not want a family and he still wants to be young and blah blah blah-I have asked him many times in the last few days if he is sure that he wants to be with me and if he is sure that he wants to be with me and he says he is
This whole thing happened about 2 weeks before the fight btw.
I dont know what to do? help?