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Wife wants to start swinging
My wife Karen , out of the blue says she wants to start swinging. She tends to be very driven, and usually gets what she wants. I asked her why she wants to do that. She tells me she feels it will spice up our relationship, she thought our marriage was getting stale. If I didn’t agree to swinging, then she wants an open marriage. “If you don’t say yes to swinging I have someone I want to date on Friday, “
Karen has changed a lot over the last few years, she is a big time executive at her job, and makes a boat load of money. I am not sure how I even got her to date me let alone marry me. She works out almost everyday, which gives her a killer body, she still has big ** too, Go figure!
An open marriage wouldn’t work for me, not the lady-killer. While the way she is, and the way she looks, I am sure she would be ** every weekend.
I asked, “How is this going to work?”
Karen, “I have looked on ** sites, and I will pick out who we should **.” I am looking at a black man with a white wife right now. Karen :“I have always wanted a black man.” “I also might want to try the wife too! Since I have been Bi-curious for awhile now.”
I love her very much, not certain I am cut out this though. I also can’t afford to divorce her since my hours have been cut back at work. Should I try it for now, or let her have her open marriage?
Run. your relation is over
My wife is 20 years younger than me, We are both considered attractive and jointly went down the ** route before we began a serious relationship. We began as friends and ** buddies as we each had just come through painful divorces. we went to clubs and from meeting people there got introduced to a home party group. We soon found that we each enjoyed the other being taken to great sexual highs. That was seventeen years ago. We are still together and now become married. We still swing, we love the exciting naughty atmosphere of parties, We both like watching the other getting a good **. We are same room, separate rooms which drives my imagine wild, group **, almost any thing goes except **.
The parties gives us a reason to keep in shape, meet people, make friends and of course a lot of **. I feel very proud of my wife when she has been **. We both will enjoy several partners at a party night. when driving home from a party we are both so high on the ** my wife will often use a ** and I drive with an **. We cannot wait to ** each other once home. Some time we have stopped in a layby. We cannot wait until home. The following days we have ** every day sometimes twice a day as we talk and relive the party. For us the swinging life is beyond fantastic. The couples we have got to know have introduced us to holidays all over Europe in Villas, on boats and private holiday homes .
I say to you, enjoy swinging together, if you are honest and trust each other it will open up to you a new and exhilarating life without jealousy.
R and J
False you guys just don't love each other
She went the swinging route to try to trick you with the, but you can ** other women too line. It’s the same as open marriage lie. Hard truth, men loose big times in these relationships. Unless you’re a cuckold then hey enjoy. If you don’t want to be a pathetic looser who holds her purse while she ** other men move out right now and go file for divorce. She absolutely is cheating and has been doing it enough that she’s scared she is going to get caught and lose everything in a divorce. Sorry buddy but this never ends well for the husband. She will lose all respect she has for you if you let her do this and you are getting a divorce sooner or later. Only thing you can do is divorce her now. In the very rare event she isn’t cheating you may be able to salvage this but most likely she already is. She isn’t going to just risk her marriage like this unless she already knows this is what she wants to do. She knows because she is already cheating. Women can get laid when ever they want, even fat ugly women can. But men can get married when ever they want, even fat ugly ones. Leave her and find someone new. Chances are you will get one even hotter than her. Men get better with age and women just get old.
Yep - what this guy says!
As he says, she put an ultimatum to you with no room for negotiation, so your marriage is already finished. Get a lawyer and divorce her. Or be her cuckold doormat and suffer living with her and her conditions since those are the only choices she left you.
Loose your job before you start divorce and go for spousal support too... This ** works both ways and she knows it.... You could also ask her for a post-up before she starts her so called revamp of your marriage which will not work...
This spice ups the marriage is how women recruit other women into swinging and open marriages it does not work... its a one way ticket to divorce one day down the line
She wants out but does not want to loose her cash in a divorce. Man up say no to all and get a PI she will cheat and you can go 30/70 split
Agree - she wants to have her cake and eat it too. You will be the dumb ** left paying all the bills, looking after the house and kids, and getting Nothing in return while she is out getting railed by Chad and Tyrone. Men are conditioned to believe the happy wife happy life lie to the point where this ** happens. Don't do it
My wife and I have been with one couple we know for many years and it is wonderful. We started soft swap fun and the progressed to full swap fun in a mater of one month we were swapped. It was good for all four of us, we all enjoyed it totally. When we found out our friends had a couple they were with before us we were asked if we would like a 6some during along weekend to try the second couple they knew. We said ok. It was a wonderful long weekend started late Friday afternoon like at 7 PM and we all met at a mountain cabin to get it all on. The new couple was black, and YOUNG like 8 years younger then my wife and I am our original friends. The evening started out with a BBQ in the mountains, and quickly progressed to all 6 of us in bed a separate room. I was with the black lady and my wife was with the black male. Our original friends were like butter flies. They would go from room to room just playing some and feeling up one of us and then enjoy some attention from me or the black lady and it got so heated on one of the room visits we all either ** or orgasmed. Well it was like a new awakening. My wife loved the extra, and I loved the wonderful strong legs my partner used very wonderfully in bed. She was tight also. We see them in 4some now and love it we still do long weekends with our original friends also. It is a wonderful way to enjoy a marriage sharing and swapping openly. We meet others and do soft ** like self masturbation and mutual masturbation when we meet others that are beginners. Usually we use ** on the tv to set the mood to get ** with beginners. It lets them feel the rush, and have a new beginning for there ** life also. It is all wonderful to enjoy and be open to doing, ** is so pleasurable, it is for sharing and being open with.
She has already been ** around behind your back dude. She is just trying to cover her tracks.
My older wife met a young african guy called Nic at work she kept saying to me i think he wants to take me to bed so i said i dare you thats all she needed to hear one friday night she went for a drink after work with friends Nic turned up and i got a text from Jan my wife saying she was staying over night with her friend. Next evening as we were in bed she told me she stayed at Nics. I was shocked then she went into great detail of how he ** her no condom she said he creampied her 4 times then stuck his ** up her ** shes been meeting him once a week comes home full with his ** she loves it
And what do you get out of this? Sloppy seconds? Are you banging a tight 21 yo yoga teacher? No. You are no longer the number one in her life - you're way down the ladder - she has no respect for you anymore. Your now her pet.
You are truly a ** loser.
My 55 year old wife got creampied by young kenyan guy she loved it
I think you should encourage her to ** more men if that is what she wants.
No!
Ultimatums are **. Send the ** on her way.
Yes! Bet you she is already doing it with him.
Any1 who wants 2 fukc n1ggers is an ape themselves
My wife likes to ** black men and it is really hot.
Go for it
Any1 who wants to fukc n1ggers is an ape 2
We have discussed this, the ** ** thing is a myth.
in fact they mostly don't get rockhard like Caucasians. there is a relationship between erections and a relaxed mental state. you can be real relaxed when you have a relaxed lifestyle due to a welfare lifestyle.....we both think some women like to make "spite babies" due to some sort of psychological faily problem... apology for being white, rich etc.
Thankfully,it's a self-correcting problem. Burn the coal,pay the toll.
Any1 who wants to fukc n1ggers is an ape too
Any1 who ** n1ggers is an ape themselves