Should I betray my husband

I love my husband a lot but he cannot satisfy my needs.
There is this other guy who is mad for me.He loves me and is ready to leave his wife for me.This guy drives me crazy and wants to have s** with me.
At times, I have urge to make love to him. But I love my husband so much that I am not able to take this step.I really don't know what to do.
I am in extreme confused state of mind.I am going mad because of physical needs and I see an option. But something is stopping me. I would ask for suggestion here, what should I do?

Mar 2, 2012

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  • Sounds to me like you don't love your husband as much as you think. Break up with your husband, then pursue your needs. Be honest with yourself and be honest with your husband.

    When people lie to themselves and try to suppress their desires, they suffer in silence. When people lie to those close to them, they suffer as well. Neither way can result in a good ending. Even if your husband never found out that you cheated on him, you will know for the rest of your days. Is that something you want to carry forever? How can you ever look at yourself or your family the same way again? When you cheat on your husband it's not just him you are cheating on, it's your entire family your lying to. For someone like me, that's too much of a burden to carry.

    People choose to make their lives difficult by lying. This is a form of neuroticism. You can just be honest to everyone and go get what you want. No matter how selfish or decadent, there is nothing wrong with getting what you want, as long as you don't have to carry the burden of being a hypocrite or a liar.

  • One word: W****.

  • just like u...

  • Shut up u mother f*****.She has not taken a bad step and she is a w****.I think u were born out of a w****, a b****.

  • Shut up idiots, he/she is right. If he can't satisfy her then why did she marry him? Because she's a w****. If she loves her husband I think she should tell him the truth, because that would be the right thing to do.

  • STFU, buttboy!

  • There's nothing as thrilling or as satisfying as adultery. Really just nothing. Try it and see.

  • You have physical needs. You should go out and get them satisfied. And you already know where to go. So, go.

  • Please DO NOT listen to the first commenter, that person is a NUT JOB!

    Listen to the second commenter, very good advice!

  • I think you should have an affair with the other man in your life. If you have physical needs that your husband is unable or unwilling to fulfill, then you owe it to yourself to find that fulfillment in the arms -- and the bed -- of someone who can give it to you. Life is short. You only live once. You know all the cliches, and you also know they're all true. This other man may not be "the one", but you should audition him for that job, and see where it leads. You aren't betraying your husband by doing this: he's betraying you by placing you in the situation where you need to do this. Aren't you entitled to happiness? To satisfaction, sexual and otherwise? To love? You know the answer.

  • I think you should be honest and tell your husband. He might have something else in mind as well. Maybe you should tell him what you need....

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