Me and my girlfriend

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months. Yet known each other about 2 years. She asked me to move in with her, I'm 17 and she's 16, her mum has no problems with it and I would love nothing more than to spend as much time as possible with her.
She is still at 6th form as I am currently unemployed and looking for work. Where I live at the Monet is in town ad where she lives is in the middle of nowhere, however my girlfriends mum says there are job prospects at her work so as says she is pretty adamant she can get me some work. What do I do? My mum as dad are completely against the idea?
They say it's the biggest mistake of my life, someone help? D x

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  • From how your post sounds.. I think you know the answer to your question already.

    But I'll let you know what I think.. You are 17.. ONLY 17.. if you're lucky you have about 65 more years on this earth.. do you really think being tied down at 17 is the right choice? Stay with your parents, university, career.. when your life is in order then think about marriage or living with someone. Don't let your 50 year old self, that you will be, one day, be mad at the 17 year old boy who ruined his life with poor choices.

  • I'm 21, and I wouldn't even consider moving in with my boyfriend until after college, and we've been going out for 2 and a half years. That's a big commitment for teenagers, and you're probably not as ready for it as you think you are. I can understand your parents reasoning. If you were to break up, it would be a lot worse to deal with if you were living wit her. Think this through a lot before making any decisions. Good luck.

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