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I LOVE SOMEONE WHO'S ALREADY TAKEN
I ruined their relationship. i know i should never do such thing but im sorry, i just fell in love with him.. those times when he was crying, so vulnerable i was the one comforting him .. i was the one comforting him when he and his girlfriend had a fight. i too, was vulnerable for falling in love with him, i should have known my limits. and i learned my lessons coz i know whatever happens he would still go back to his girl. and not me.
Find your own man. Leave the poor girl's relationship alone, homewrecker.
Um, maybe this isn't my place, but...
Well, Last night I had a similar thing happen. A girl came to my place last night. I like her, I really, really like her. Its kind of frustrating...I barely know her, shes 19 and I'm 23, we're in college and thats like a minefield for relationships. She admitted that "look" she'd been giving me meant something but....I have a girlfriend.
So we left it at that. I'm pretty upset about it today, because I have NO IDEA where things are going with my current gf who I also love very much but its been really bad lately...
The point is, if you want my opinion, tell him. The honest conversation I had last night felt very liberating even if its still frustrating today, its much less than it would be if I was still wondering. If I were him I'd want to know. Just make sure your feelings extend past the shoulder to cry on and into something deeper and more meaningful. A supportive friend isnt necessarily a good match for a girlfriend and you might not see it in the moment.