Regret, I guess

I've been living with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I was 14 and he was 19 when I moved in with him. (No,we don't have kids.) Thing is I don't feel the same about him anymore. I moved in with him because I felt like I loved him but also because I wanted to have some liberty from my grandparents who were really strict. I feel like I rushed things into my life. I was immature and still am. I don't know how to tell him I want us to go our separate ways. I'm very confused...

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  • Go and watch the Music Video of Big Girls Don't Cry by fergie.

  • Unless we meet the love of our life young, we as humans will develop feelings that go in several different directions. Your brain is still developing and it is okay to want to be adventerous. But someone's feelings are going to get hurt.

    You need to come up with a plan on where to go and how you are going to support yourself when you break up.Because continuing to live together and being broken up has many bad directions the situation could go in. But if you feel like he wouldn't kick you out and that you guys can be civil until you get grounded, the best way to do it is to talk about things immediately.

  • leave him. he wants to bang other girls too.

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