Fat or curvy?

I've always been a lot... bigger than most of my friends. I hate looking in the mirror everyday and seeing that this person is me. I hate wearing shorts and swim suits. My friends say that i'm overreacting, but they've never had this problem. Guys only look at me because my b**** are about twice the size as other girls and it makes me feel horrible. All of my friends are out sharing clothes while I sit in the corner pretending to be happy. I would cry because they could wear things I could only dream about wearing. Should I be happy that i have more "curves" (i use this term loosely) than other girls?? Or should I go on a diet and get a flat stomach?

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  • I love full figure women. I love a big butt. I want to bury my face in it.

  • Oh god its so funny how bullying never mattered until a poorling darling assed British royal got bullied, but they don't tell you how they bullied people to get everything they wanted hey? funny that. only a royal can be bullied, others don't know bullying. yeh, right. you mean the rest of us just know how to grow up and take it and be told to get over it and they want to nappy changed at 30-70 and wet nursed and potty trained into their 40s unlike the rest of us common sense get on with the job mob. f*** I hate royals. please abolish them. they should be separate to state figure heads and just do what they do best and be sexual clothes hoists and celebrities and fade away ! they have no morals and integrity. they don't like you or commoners. they are the real beggars for mercy from commoners to keep them going and commoners don't want to anymore. Chelsea and Cressida ran from harry because he is a bully and stupid. enough said. they had sense. the royals are an embarrassment on the times and place and people and memory and occasion of the human condition in all times. bejeweled bespoke over poked criminals is all the royals in the UK are. rant over.

  • Big curvy girls are hot. who cares if you can't share clothes with your stick figure friends.

  • Hi, ok look I have the same issue with my wife, shes very confy with her "curves" too, but when it comes to go to the beach or a pool party she's stars getting upset and feels fat all of a sudden. My point is that she knows she's a lil bit over wait and why not been honest to ur sefl. I'll say you eat healthier,work out and watch what you eat if u really want to loos weight. Some girls already have a thik body so make sure you don't go to the extreme. And good luck girl I hope u do feel and look better.

  • If you want to loose wight do exercise and eat healthy its more efficient than dieting also it might be muscle that makes you look a bit bigger

  • i actually forgot to mention
    that i work out three times a week and am very muscular because i do mixed martial arts
    - Poster of confession

  • go on diet, not because it will make you look better but because it will make you feel better. you won't feel better becuase you weill become thinner , but becuase you will be healthier. LOOK SWEETI your health is above everything else. YES go for diet, but not just any diet you have to choose a balance between ur healthy food and excercise. it's better to seek a doctor help or a nutrition advicer. dont u ever reduce ur food intake with no excercise coz then u will have excess skin which would look real bad.

    then you will look pretty, share cloths with ur friends , and be healthy.

    good luck :)

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