I am a 16 year old girl and I want to have s** I want to be penetrated... So there's this guy I've been flirting with and I'm afraid that if we get any closer that we'll end up having s** but the thing is is at I'm technically a virgin.. And I don't really want to let him take my card... I'd have intercourse if I wasn't a virgin.. The only thing that would stop me would be the fact that I want my "first" to be with someone I care about but at the same time I just wanna get it over with...

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  • Hey, It is like anything new... Once you dent it, scratch it or loose it... you eventually will abuse it.

    Most guys will be fine with oral s** with a virgin. If he is not, tell him to move on. Once you have intercourse... and go through the phases of shame... you will want it again, cause the first time with a young guy is not all the fireworks everyone says it is. Lots of stumbling, you're uncomfortable, he has the "Macho" Thing going on...

    Stick to you and him giving each other hand jobs or oral s**... past that, there is no turning back. At that age, c****** is c******. If he does not respect that... move on, and enjoy your self in the shower alone. You know what you like.

  • This is a dilemma faced by all girls. After you "get it over with", you will find that you want to do it with every guy you go out with, and probably will. So go shesd snd do it. Most guys don't expect their wives to be virgins anyway, and you will enjoy the experience. Stay protected...

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