My boyfriend and I have been together for many years already. I am 16 and he is 17, we are both virgins but started having A*** s** not to long ago. He has alwats been the demanding type but recently since he started doing this, I think he feels he can boss me around. Tell me what to do, what to wear, etc. I love him with all my heart, and I am scared to loose him. We have been apart before (my fault) and I couldn't take it. I don't want to be without him, and I feel like I can't leave him. Like if I leave him, everything in the world is wrong. He makes me so happy but at time I feel as if I am not my own person but that I am his b**** basically. We're so young and I know I am blinding my self by "love" but I just don't know what to do. I feel like we're meant to be, like we are connected... :'( what should I do?