My boyfriend and I have been dating for

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. Whenever I'm with him I feel that I am still in love but every time he is away I feel as though I need someone else. He is wonderful and everything I ever wished for, but I just feel as though he isn't right. Its so confusing because I love him and then I don't. I'm afraid I'm not doing enough in our relationship and thats why I feel this way. I don't want to make a huge mistake and leave him, any advice?

Jul 8, 2010

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  • Cheat on him with a woman or introduce one to the bedroom, you get to be intimate with someone else, he gets to see the most awesome thing ever, everyone wins. It could only help if you're getting bored.

  • Thank you all so much for your advice, I really appreciate it!


  • Thank you all so much for your advice, I really appreciate it!

  • I agree, I went through the same thing, around the same time as you. I forced myself to spend time with him, hang out and do things together, but also to spend enough time apart so I could miss him. It's done wonders, and we're doing great. I hope everything turns out well for you.

  • I agree with the other comment. And if it doesn't work, may be this will: find your self a challenge, something you want to be able to do or something you want to become (like a profession), and go for it. That way you have lots of things to do when he's away and lots of things to talk about when he is with you. And if he's supportive: you have a very good guy!
    Good luck!

  • Honestly, I think that you need to talk these things out with him. The 2 year mark is usually a landmark in the relationsjip. Maybe you are just getting bored? Plan date nights try doing new things together. Try going to places that you haven't been before. I know traveing is expensive but try something cheap like a road trip. As humans we tend to get bored once the chase is over, but I guarantee you that if you guys love eachother and are willing to put in the work to get things on track it will be worthwhile. I hope my advice helps at least a little bit :)

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