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Gay ** in a str8 world
I'm a **, attractive, 100% PASSABLE **. No BS. I'm 25, a gay Japanese-American male, 5'7", slim, totally westernized, no ethnic accent. I work as a male. I'm fashionable, trendy, and have never been read as a man in public, even during the day. Herein WAS a problem....
Gay men, on the whole, werent attracted to me. They wanted no part of my crossdressing. **, even when I tried to hook up as a man, I got the "No Asians, No Fems" bias. Some gay men would date me, but they just wanted to hang out - no interest in exploring things further. Frustrating to the max! Then I changed my strategy.
I decided one Friday to go to a drag bar. They have a DJ, may have shows, but are pick-up venues. "Trannies and their admirers". I looked hot that night, so much so that the bartender and DJ thought I was a woman. I mingled, spoke to a few guys, danced, and being Asian made me doubly appealing, but I was puzzled. The men were acting really str8!! I spoke to the DJ, who explained that these guys are ** chasers. They dont identify AT ALL as gay or bi, even tho they have intimate relationships with their ** "girlfriends". Hmmmm interesting.
By my 3rd trip to this bar, I met a nice, good looking guy. Early 30s, successful career, looking for something different. Hadnt dated for 5 months after a series of bad relationships. He was TOTALLY into me! We eventuallty went to a 24 hr diner to rab a bite and we talked. I came right out and asked if he was bi. He said no. I asked him if he ever had ** with a **. He said he hadnt, but had dated trannies before. I pointed out tht if he had ** with a **, he would be bi. He again said no, saying that with a ** it would be different. Bottom line, we were attracted to each other. We met at the club the next week, left a bit early, and went for a nice walk/talk. He told me he really wanted to date me, and was prepared to do whatever it took to do right by me. I knew he had an **.
So we did the next Friday. Had a great time, ended up at his place. We got into heavy kissing, but left it at that. I knew he needed time to work up his courage to deal with my **. If I were a woman, we'd have ** already. It was a progression to hand jobs, and finally, he gave his 1st **. It was the 1st time we got naked, tho I left my bra on to preserve some of the illusion. We've been a couple for 5 months, and it's going really well. He treats me like a lady, and even got into ** **, giving and receiving.
The only thing is he's never seen me as a male, or out of makeup. But I love socializing as a woman, and dont need an excuse to go all fem. We've gone to movies, sporting events, str8 clubs, hi end restaurants - any place str8 people go. I use the ladies room with confidence, and LOOOOOVE having a BF, even tho he only knows part of me.
I hope he knows how lucky he is to have you.
one word.
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"Str8" male39. I'm in a relationship with a Japanese ** as well. We met at a bar, and I was immediately attracted to her. She's drop dead gorgeous by any female standards. Inside of a month we were a couple. She's educated, intelligent, funny, and creative, and a wonderful companion. I got past her male ** equipment because I sincerely wanted to give her pleasure. And I quickly got used to seeing her out of makeup. We've been together for 10 years, living together for 8. She has gotten some nice small **, and takes female hormones, at a low enough level to keep her 'joy stick' sexually functional. Since we live in NY, we will be getting married in early '13.
You are one lucky man and I envy you sir.
You sound amazing. Would love to see what you look like when you're all done up.