I self harm and I have since I was 11.
It doesn't hurt anymore because I have became numb to the pain. I am 13 years old. The triggers are always tiny, petty things like the guy I like doesn't like me back? or that I have just had a crap day? or maybe I have a bad stomach and I am listening to depressing music. That combination is the worst. I am always scared I will burst a vein but its too addictive. I am not like the usual self-harmer. My parents aren't divorced? I have a pretty normal life but I suppose I just let things get to me?
oh well, i'll probably stop soon.