When my wife and I got married in 2004, her sister wasn't in the country and made no effort to return. I'd never even met her nor so much as spoken with her by phone. Now she's moved back, and is divorcing her husband and leaving her children, and she asked my wife to let her live in our guest room until she could get on her feet and my wife said yes, without even asking me. When she told me, I said it was okay............but then I met her sister. The woman is utterly insufferable, and I cannot stand being around her, much less having her living under the same roof. I'm trying to be kind, for my wife's sake, but the sister grates on me and brings out strangling, murderous impulses in me (which I'll never act on, of course), and it's rapidly reaching the point where I would be willing to go get a second job, or a third, just to be able to afford an apartment rent for this nightmare-in-law. I want her out of our house, and out of my life. I know it's wrong, and intolerant, and unkind, but it's how it is.