Resentment of a step son
Ok...here is the truth..This is what it boils down to. I married the one person that I have always wanted. He has a son who is 4. His mother was caught cheating and videoing it while doing it. My husband was warned and ended it getting this girl pregnant. No matter how you slice it..the son was a mistake. Thankfully they never married. She deployed and he came to live with us full time. I love him, but find resentment in him because he is a reminder (although not his fault) that the entire relationship was based on lies and cheating..in my eyes that is what he represents. Now that she is home...he does no wrong. So now because of the favoritism towards him...it has caused strain on our marriage. He is the result and son of a dirty, nasty, w****. I do the best I can...but thats what I see when I look at him. But I do great at pretending...Will it last probably not. Boils down to the woman feeling less important.. No matter what you anyone says....When you take a vow of marriage....no one is before your wife, you become one. There is not a bond on the face of this earth that you put before your spouse. Your child is a part of the relationship,,,but should never ever ever be put before a Godly vow.