Surrounded by people but alone?

I live with my fiancé and see people at work everyday who all say they care yet I've been cutting for over a month and nobody's noticed, or cared enough to say anything. I don't know if this is because I hide the scars and cuts as much as I can but I've been in the kitchen at work where I can't wear jewellery and the only person who noticed was the "class clown" of work and he jokingly asked if I was a slasher. This makes me sad as much as I don't want him digging deeper, asking me questions or telling my bosses, I feel like he doesn't care enough to figure out if I actually am or at least try to get a decent excuse out of me.

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  • You're only cutting yourself because you're looking for attention (help) and want people to ask you what's wrong and for them to sympathize.

    I don't understand why can't you just tell someone DIRECTLY what's up instead of all this indirect crap?

    I'm not surprised that no one has noticed because you're not the centre of their lives. They have their own problems to deal with. I'm sure they care about you and are willing to help but you can't expect people to know what's wrong with you if you don't tell them!
    Seek help seriously. Go see a counsellor or something. They will listen. Or tell someone close to you.

    There's so much to live for it's unbelievable.

  • i did the same before. cutting myself. and i'm not sure if i'll do it again.
    i'm also around people, and felt alone. but sometimes, it's just you didn't see it.
    they just don't know. and i'm sure they care about you and want to help you. just like me. i thought no one care about me but then something happen, then i know i've got so many people around.
    i'm sure they care about you too.
    and i care about you too

  • try EFT it

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