My boyfriend hits me and i like it

I ve been with this guy for a few months, for me he is the perfect man , he is, cute, smart brillant and very funny ,and many girls would die for him, he has nice cars and he is so rich but anyways it is not for his money that am dating him i have money too, we are in love,he is 18 and am 17 . he would never cheat on me or anyting, he always says that i am giving me everything, each time we have s** i feel alive so evryting seems to be perfect . But recently he became abusive , he hit me three times , he slapped me and punched me ,and threatned me , i had bruises all over my body , if we r having s** he would hurt so bad , so violent. am not scared of him or anything but i am starting to like the fact that he hits me , the pain makes me feel alive and that i actualy exist, during s** i ask him to be more agressive and painful. am so screwed and confused i dont get what s happening to me .

Jul 14, 2012

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  • Does your boyfriend have a brother?

  • Lol. I like it too. I need therapy. When they grabbed my hair and whispered abusive s*** in my ear, my panties got wet.

  • I don't like when he slaps me or gets mad at me but I have to admit I do love the make up s** lol

  • My boy started being aggressive towards me too I feel so depressed I don’t want to present him to my family no more I just don’t trust him no more how you gonna like that that’s not life

  • You sound stupid and young‼️

  • We girls exist to serve our men. When they dish out a few smacks, nothing wrong in taking it quietly. Bruises don't matter. Just make sure there's no permanent or lasting injury

  • Hahahahahahah are you retarded or straight up brain dead

  • Agreed

  • Sorry, with WTF not agreeing with hitting you.

  • Lies

  • Wtf...

  • Hold on-

  • You are a child. You don't even know what love and a steady relationship means yet. Rough s**...yes. amazing. I love it. But being abused is not okay. Period. End of story.

  • I think it’s ok if he beats you because my boyfriend does to so it’s normal the girlfriend should always be obedient to their boyfriend

  • Unnm nooo

  • What the f**? No girl should be treated like a pet to their boyfriend, wtf you should get help

  • No it is not normal. Please get help this abuse is not okay, I hope you're doing well and staying safe

  • I can't believe this😀 do you have no f****** self respect?

  • You’re a child and have no idea what you’re getting into! I’m a retired police officer and have seen too many abusive husbands/boyfriends beat their wives / girlfriends and broken arms, legs, busted up faces, broken ribs, knocked out teeth, broken noses, one woman lost an eye because he hit her so hard it fractured her cheek and eye socket, faces swollen so bad they were unrecognizable, bursted spleens and some to the point of near death. You do not want to live the rest of your life like this.
    The men are controlling and it gets to the point the woman is not allowed to leave the house or talk to anyone including family or parents. One woman lived w a separated shoulder for so long she lost the use of her arm because she wasn’t allowed to go to the hospital or even talk to anyone for help because the husband was crazy.
    You’re playing with fire and if you continue you will regret it.

  • My boyfriend beat me up for two days when I was to move in with him. I have never seen this side. I am glad it happened when it did. He strangled me, smothered me with his hands as he had me on the ground, need me in the stomach, slapped me, dragged me around the room, tried to throw me down stairs, robbed me, took my phone, so I couldn't call anyone. He is a -known musician, and then he said no one would believe me because I am on zoloft for depression. And publicly his image is that of someone involved in the community, fighting for womens rights. I still can't believe what happened. After torturing me for two days and keeping a lot of my stuff, he called me an Uber. I had to call a locksmith because he threw my keys. I never said anything because I believed him. I changed my number and had my locks changed.

  • Awesome me too

  • You should let him beat you just make sure its consented enough and make sure it doesn't do any long term damage to you. other than that hes allowed to beat you because hes your boyfriend

  • You should get help

  • Wtf! This is so wrong!!!

  • Love it

  • Hes allowed to beat u bc hes ur boyfriend.. okay this is the the most bullshit statement anyone can say.. lol laughable I must add... ok so if u like rough s** and get hit absolutely its enjoyable but when hes just being abusive not while having s** there's an issue

  • Nonsense!no one is allowed to hit you! Not even your mother and father. Get out whilst you still can life is too precious 😢

  • No one is allowed to hit you! Not even your own parents should hit you stop being so ridiculous and playing with fire! Life is too short one hit too hard or in the wrong place and that’s it it’s over! I am speaking as a survivor of such abuse you are headed down a dangerous path. People who love you don’t hurt you! Erotic s** and abuse are two different things. Get out now or you will regret it! Please! God bless you

  • Ur not alone. I can't even enjoy s** without being hit anymore!

  • It is ok .for a boyfriend to beat her girlfriend as long it is not some permanent damage to body organs

  • Life is life when you're with someone that you love without any obstacles coming in your way. I thought I was going to lose my lover for good as he was no longer treating me the same way as before.Thanks godness I met Dr olokun ,a very powerful caster love spell who promised to bring my ex lover back. As a man of his own words,it is with great experience to share this to you that I am now happily with my boyfriend no fights , no unreasonable break ups and also no cheatings all because of Dr olokun. He is a warrior, a man that helps mend voids of love.I am so glad to meet with him I was thinking that my ex boyfriend is going to fade away just like that leaving me heart broken but today he is back asking for forgiveness, regretting why he has been treating me like I am no living object but I met Doctor olokun and everything is back to normal and I cannot stop thanking him for bringing back my lover .I am so proud to say this ,with his love spell everything is possible.He works miracles and I will always thank him .Contact info: Email :drolokuntemple@gmail.com or
    Whatsapp number : +2348132537313

  • What the f*** is wrong with people! As if this actually has so many likes. I am fed up of this world this is utter bullshit!!! It is not ok for anyone to beat someone. Especially not your boyfriend wtf!!!

  • Yes i think every boyfriend needs to bit his girlfriend especially during sexuality wether she is obedient or disobedient and to keep her in pleasure so he can beat her every day and it is duty of woman to accept his beating and love him during that time when he beats her if he beats her gently

  • You are f****** twisted wtf

  • I love to see women with black eyes. A woman should always be submissive and subservient to men. In fact, any man who wants her should have the right to do whatever he wants to her. Even more, a man should be constantly beat his woman to keep her down. This is good for her and it is what they need. A man is always in charge. A woman has no right to refuse their punishments. So learn to take it and accept it. I do.

  • My husband beats me as well and afterwards make love . I did not like it at first but I enjoy it now. He sometimes beat me with his hands or belt. I take it quietly and thank him afterwards. Is all done behind close doors .

  • You need professional help your not well! May God bless and heal you, I feel sick!!!

  • Its so weird but I feel the same way. I never admitted this to anyone. My boyfriend hits me and beats me down. I think it's normal now

  • Because it becomes the norm but it is far from normal or ok! God help you!

  • If you love your man then yeah its fine for him to bruise you and stuff, & plus were woman & we should always listen & respect our men and favor them thats our job

  • Your mind is heavily manipulated may God bless and heal you! You are not an object or a child it’s a 50/50 partnership! The world is just a mess!

  • Amen

  • If you like it, you like it. Just let him do whatever he wants and see where that goes.

  • Nothing is wrong with you i love when my boyfriend beats me during s** im talking about throwing me into walls slapping in my face spiting in my face calling me a dirty b**** i love that

  • Anything regarding teenagers and "he would never cheat on me or anything" involves children who haven't learned enough about life yet. Come back in ten years and you will be embarrassed at all the s*** you just wrote.

  • This cracked me up so bad 😂😂😂😂😂

  • It’s not funny at all. It’s deeply disturbing😢

  • When I was a senior in high school I lost a girlfriend because I wouldn't beat her up. Instead she married the abuser. Then she divorced him because he broke her arm. Go figure? Live and learn, I guess.....

  • This comment is old, but It’s one of the craziest things I’ve read.

  • Well i was in an abusive relationship before so i know what it's all about and i find myself like when he slap me he love me but eventually i was wrong so if he slap you one or two times for no good byreason at all then you need to go before it's too late i can tell u that he will try to kill you i have been there already but if it's the first time you can just look on how and why he did it don't let he continued to do it to you he will get worst

  • How is the relationship now

  • I like it rough too having him punch my in the stomach sometimes, smack me, spank me, but I ask him to and he does it to make me happy I guess it's just a little more exciting cause he's normally really affectionate but honestly you two should have safeties put up like a word or gesture.

  • Keep going out with him. But before you do, write your will, fill out an organ donor card and tell someone what you want on your gravestone.

  • It sounds like a form of self harm to me. What ur describing, the pain making you feel alive etc, is the kind of description that a lot of self harmers use to describe what they go through.

  • thanks a lot realy helps. maybe i have a problem too after all

  • U f***** run away from him or he'll kill you

  • Some people like to be a little aggressive during s** but what you are describing has passed that. I agree with the others, get out now. You will find someone who can give you that aggressive sexual pleasure without physically abusing you.

  • Get out. And get out NOW.

  • don't cross that line any longer. its one thing to play rough and another but this abuse can lead to other things

  • Life is life when you're with someone that you love without any obstacles coming in your way. I thought I was going to lose my lover for good as he was no longer treating me the same way as before.Thanks godness I met Dr olokun ,a very powerful caster love spell who promised to bring my ex lover back. As a man of his own words,it is with great experience to share this to you that I am now happily with my boyfriend no fights , no unreasonable break ups and also no cheatings all because of Dr olokun. He is a warrior, a man that helps mend voids of love.I am so glad to meet with him I was thinking that my ex boyfriend is going to fade away just like that leaving me heart broken but today he is back asking for forgiveness, regretting why he has been treating me like I am no living object but I met Doctor olokun and everything is back to normal and I cannot stop thanking him for bringing back my lover .I am so proud to say this ,with his love spell everything is possible.He works miracles and I will always thank him .Contact info: Email :drolokuntemple@gmail.com or
    Whatsapp number : +2348132537313

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