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Love or lost
My ex and I are trying to became friends again a year after a really bad breakup. I knew I still had some feelings for him, but I thought could handle it. I'm with a really great guy, and I thought I was starting to fall for him. But the moment my ex stepped back into my life, the commitment issues that developed after our breakup have been raging out of control. Now I'm hyperventilating just at the thought that my boyfriend might say he loves me any day. The scariest part is, I'm not sure if it is because I am in love with my ex or if he just reminds me why love isn't worth it. I'm not sure which I want it to be.
Get out of that relationship now.
Confuscious was very wise when he stated:
"you should marry the person you most admire and want to be like." From the first time I heard that I felt I had a better understanding of how to choose a partner. My first husband was abusive and an alcoholic, and if I had lived by this standard then we would have ended on our first date.
My current husband of fifteen years is an amazing man. He is a great provider, father and my very best friend. If I had to choose anyone to be like it would be him.So you should ask yourself which of these men you admire and respect. Which one would you want your children to be most like? Maybe neither one makes the cut.
Don't be so ** yourself, Stay away from the Ex. They only mess things up more.