HELP I'm terrified of my boyfriend

I met my current boyfriend about 10 months ago. At the time I was in a long term relationship that was spiriling downhill quickly. I had cheated on my boyfriend before but this was different. When I met my current boyfriend I knew something was different. He left a couple of days after I met him to study at another school for the whole semester, just my luck. To my surprise, we talked all day every day for months while he was away and we got to be really close.. even planning on seeing eachother when he got back. He was in a long term relationship at the time as well but we were both completely open and honest with eachother(or atleast I was). He told me he cheated on almost every girlfriend he had before but for some reason I trusted him. We talked about everything and even had a "friends with benefits" arrangement all planned out. Well needless to say I fell for him.. hard. I was obsessed with him and it just got worse once he came back from his other school. Things were great, he would come over all the time during the week and on weekends we would both see our significant others. Long story short, it got to the point where we both liked eachother and broke up with our significant others and we started dating. We have been together for almost 2 months now and are completely in love. I have never been this happy or honest with anyone and he tells me the same thing but I can't help but wonder. I'm so scared he is going to cheat on me and do what we did and leave me for someone else. I want to trust him but I really don't know if I can, they say once a cheater always a cheater but if I changed can't he? Can people change? I need advice here... please!

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  • Cheating shouldn't even be a thing people need to stop treating other people like property

  • you left someone for him, you cheated too... so if he cheated on you or leave you it will be the same thing you did to someone else.

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