Don't know what to do
I take a train to work in the morning and I would always notice this unbelievably gorgeous woman who gets on at my stop. She is looks like she is half Japanese and half Spanish. Dark skin, AMAZING body and the most beautiful face I have ever seen. A few months ago she happened to sit next to me and I instinctively his my wedding ring. I love my wife but it was just instinct. We started talking and sitting together every morning. We get pretty flirty but it has been innocent. The other day I went out to dinner with my wife and our 4 year old. I had no idea, but the next morning on the train she told me that she was also having dinner there and saw me with my family. She asked me why I never mentioned that I was married. I said I didn't know, that I figured we were friends and it was not big deal. She said I looked like a wonderful father and was impressed with how beautiful my wife was. Then she said that seeing that made her so attracted to me. I had no idea how to respond so I didn't. Every day since she has been coming up with all these different plans about how we could discreetly have s** after or early before work. I am not the cheating type but I don't know if I can keep resisting this woman. I see her every day and she is the sexiest thing I have ever seen. She knows I am into her because sometimes when she describes the scenarios she sees me getting hard. I don't know what to do. Help!