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Don't know what to do
I take a train to work in the morning and I would always notice this unbelievably gorgeous woman who gets on at my stop. She is looks like she is half Japanese and half Spanish. Dark skin, AMAZING body and the most beautiful face I have ever seen. A few months ago she happened to sit next to me and I instinctively his my wedding ring. I love my wife but it was just instinct. We started talking and sitting together every morning. We get pretty flirty but it has been innocent. The other day I went out to dinner with my wife and our 4 year old. I had no idea, but the next morning on the train she told me that she was also having dinner there and saw me with my family. She asked me why I never mentioned that I was married. I said I didn't know, that I figured we were friends and it was not big deal. She said I looked like a wonderful father and was impressed with how beautiful my wife was. Then she said that seeing that made her so attracted to me. I had no idea how to respond so I didn't. Every day since she has been coming up with all these different plans about how we could discreetly have ** after or early before work. I am not the cheating type but I don't know if I can keep resisting this woman. I see her every day and she is the sexiest thing I have ever seen. She knows I am into her because sometimes when she describes the scenarios she sees me getting hard. I don't know what to do. Help!
When you cheat you not only cheat on your wife but your children too. You need to nix this thing asap. What type of woman would want to destroy a happy family.
Go have some fun, get it off your system.
Your wife probably has cheated on you with someone at some point.
Having ** with a gorgeous woman will boost your confidence and make you feel better and treat better your family.
No harm
No. Cheating hurts. I've been cheated on, and it's never been the same.
Get on a different train car.
The problem is that I see her every day on the train. We would have to intentionally avoid each other to not. This works against me in two ways. One, there is only so long I can resist her. A bad fight with my wife could send me over the edge...Two, if I wanted to end things I would still see her every day so getting out is complicated
Yes, harm. You can't assume that just because he wants to cheat means that his wife has. I would hope the man I'm going to marry wouldn't think like that.
The assumption isn't that his wife has cheated because he wants to. The assumption is based on the statistical data of more than half of all marriages have been affected by infidelity and that number is likely to be a lot higher if everyone answered honestly. In my experience, harm comes to those whom are caught. The problem with this guy's situation is that he is likely to be discovered if he does anything because he will then have to change his regular routine. He should simply coordinate a day with this mystery girl to take the day off. both go and meet up on the train as if it is a regular work day. but go to a hotel and ** each others brains out the whole day. Get it out of your system and then go back to your family and be a good dad & husband until you need your f-buddy again. Maybe you could go hungry and ** her on a lunch break from time to time. just be smart about it. Don't get caught and that includes don't take and STD's home.