I'm a 17 year old girl and even though I'm still so young, I've been hurt so much by guys and relationships. Every thing I've had with a guy has ended poorly and painfully. It's either been solely physical with a guy or I was emotionally invested and then "dumped". I had lots of random hookups (not s**) with guys that I never talked to again after. And I had this thing with a guy once where we talked for about 2 months and then he ditched me for another girl and then later got back with me and left me again. I've never had a successful, healthy relationship with a guy, just a bunch of unsatisfying hookups and guys that hurt me. I'm also in love with my best guy friend who doesn't like me back so I watch him date all these other girls and serve as his "love mentor" or whatever. It hurts so bad to watch him be with other girls but at the same time, I just want him to be happy and live a good life, whether I'm in it or not. And now after so much hurt and stress caused from my "love life", It's really hard for me to trust guys and even want emotionally involved relationships. I feel like I'm going to end up like one of those girls in the movies who's been hurt by guys so much that she can't love or be with the "right" guy that comes along. It's not fair to the good guys out there that have a******* ruin it for them by hurting all the girls. I feel like I already have commitment issues at 17 and its way too early for that


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  • Women are just as bad if not worse.

    Not to be too condescending, but anything that seems like a big deal at that age becomes laughable just five years down the line.

    Soon you will be making your way out in this massive world backed to the brim with all sorts of people. To say one dude out of billions is the only one you can love is almost laughable. One day you will find the one that gets under your skin, and after a while, you can't imagine life without them.

    Just knowing that it is almost impossible to go through your lifetime without at least a few good relationships makes it better to me at least.

  • Humans in general suck... But men are the worst.

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