Sordid affairs

I met a man at work who is married with 6 children. I chatted with him for a year before we decided we wanted to meet up and see where things go. Long story short we hooked up and spent an amazing few hours s******* and talking and just having fun. I saw him one other time and we just talked and made out in his car with no s**. I'm worried that I'm straying dangerously close to love with a married man who has made it clear that he has feelings for me but will not leave his family.

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  • You obviously care about him and he obviously cares about you. Isn't that enough? Does he have to be willing to leave home permanently? It should be exciting and flattering enough that he leaves the wife and kids behind occasionally so he can share a bed with you and please you. Don't get all hung up on the morality bullshit or allow society to pull you two apart. If the two of you are sexually compatible, and are hungry for each other --- and you obviously are --- then just enjoy one another and enjoy the fact that you are taking him from his wife frequently, and enjoy the fact that your relationship may grow into something more important that his marriage. Don't worry about the bullshit: just enjoy the love.

  • this girl is right. find out what his wife wont do for him (a***, public s**, watersports, etc.) and then be sure to do ALL that whenever your together. he will belong to you in no time and he wont be able to remember that b****'s name.

  • You need to fine you somebody not maried think about this you two have s** and his wife found out about you two, are you really going to stay with hm and help him pay child support for his childrens, if i was you i would stop all relationship with him.

  • Well, you've made it really difficult for your mind to save you by dallying for a year with a man who will be unavailable but has been an emotional sponge for you. As Ann Landers would say to you were she alive, "What were you thinking? Get out and smell the coffee." Take the initiaive. Grow up. Cut ties and find a single, available man. God knows, theyz're out there.

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