The spark is long gone
I've been in a very committed relationship for 3 years now, none of that on-again off-again stuff, this has been 3 years straight, good and bad, ups and downs, we've been through a lot. But the problem is that the spark is long gone. When we see each other its not exciting anymore, when I talk to him on the phone at work its not special or anything, its just routine. "Hey, what are you up to? Did you eat yet?" We never have anything to talk about unless its worrying about money or disagreeing on something.
He tries bless his heart, he spent more than $400 for a nice night on Valentines Day, we got the honeymoon suite at a nice hotel, he took me to a really nice restaurant for dinner, got me flowers, and the nice ones too, not walmart stuff. Champagne, rose petals, and all night I was preoccupied with work. The night itself was somehow not exciting enough to make me forget about it. Its not that I didn't appreciate the trouble he went through, I did. But I just didn't feel romantic at all that night.
I'm not sure what I can do to fix this. I want it to be like other couples', this is something that usually happens to married couples, and we're not even engaged.