Should I run?
I met a man named James. He's an 'older' man to me but quite attractive.
He owns two companies; an accounting one and a financial planning one. He works out and stays fit- amazing body.
On our first date, I met him at a hotel/bar. I thought we were going to have dinner there, and I was a little early so I went to the bar for a drink. When he arrived (and we'd only met for a few seconds before this occasion) he covered my eyes from behind and then gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek.
He then suggested we sit down on the lounges and sat right next to me, thigh-to-thigh. All very comfortable and touchy-feely for someone you've only just met. He also handed me my glass a couple of times and told me to finish my drink.
He then asked if I wanted to get something to eat and led me out by the hand. He said that we'd take his car- turns out we're eating at his place.
He did try to sleep with me, but I declined. He was very insistent, but at the same time took it well when I asked him to take me back to my car.
I did let him kiss me. I noticed he was very rough and dominating. Far too confident and dominating for a woman you've only just met. At the same time, he was genuinely a nice person. Just... He seems controlling.
So what's the deal? Should I run?