Retarded Step Son

I hate my step son with every fiber of my being. We used to only have him every other weekend and I would just hide in my room those weekends. Now we have him 100% of the time and he is driving me INSANE. I think about divorce at least once/week just because of this f****** r*****. He did horribly in public school, so his dad decided I should homeschool him. He is ten years old, but my three year old is smarter than him. More than once, my three year old has answered a question that the little fuckwad didn't know the answer to. He can't do simple mathematics, can hardly read (and chooses to read my daughter's board books when he's forced to read), still can't spell three letter words, etc etc etc. I will present information to him in a million ways and try to make it as fun and as exciting for him as possible and he won't grasp a f****** lick of it.

He still p***** AND s**** himself. No joke, one day I kept smelling something foul and couldn't figure out where it was coming from. I thought maybe the cats and taken a dump, so I cleaned their box.... NOPE. I smelled it all through breakfast and while I did my morning chores. I took a shower and had to pass his room and realized that I smelled the stench again. STILL didn't occur to me that the idiot had s*** himself, so I went downstairs. About thirty minutes later, he was on the couch (watching f****** Thomas the Train, because he is a COMPLETE AND UTTER R*****) and I FINALLY realized that the smell was coming from him. He NEVER EVER responds when you talk to him, so I just asked if he knew he smelled. NO RESPONSE. Then it hit me - HE S*** HIS G****** PANTS. I say "Did you p*** your pants?" and he just stares at me. Eventually he says "I guess I'll go take a bath." UH DUHHHHH!!! Did you really f****** eat breakfast, play with toys, and watch tv ALL WHILE SITTING IN YOUR OWN S***? Yes, he did. And Daddy Dearest doesn't f****** care. UGH.

He p***** his pants CONSTANTLY. I find pissy underwear hidden all the time. I even found a stash of my daughter's pull ups that he'd p***** in and hidden under his desk. STILL, Daddy Dearest doesn't give a F***.

He is also ugly as F***. He has buck teeth that are brighter than the sun and I want to punch them out of his scrawny f****** face every time he stares at me when I ask a simple question.

My daughter adores him and tries to play with him, but gets so frustrated because he won't ever respond to anything she says. I eventually have to yell "RESPOND WHEN SHE TALKS TO YOU, PLEASE!" and he'll eventually say something totally f****** stupid.

He is a complete follower with no imagination or personality of his own. When he is around his significantly younger cousins, he copies everything they say and do and laughs when he has no f****** idea what is going on.

He has like three chores that he has to do every day (make his bed, empty the trash from the bathrooms, and put his laundry away). YET every single day, if you don't break it down g******* Barney style for him, he "forgets" how to do them. Seriously. The other day I told him to take care of the trash and he came down with his arms full of used toilet paper and pads and s*** because he "forgot" that he was just supposed to take the bags out and replace them. WTF? THAT IS A SPECIAL KIND OF RETARDED!!! Literally EVERY SINGLE DAY, I have to tell him how to do his chores again.

His NANA, who lives right across the street, babies him like f****** crazy. She still picks him up and carries him on her hip through stores (he is small for his age) and rocks him. HOLY F***, I cannot stand it. She thinks that he is right on track academically (nevermind that I had to purchase kindergarten curriculum instead of grade 5 after realizing that he didn't even know all of his letters) and that it is other kids who are "too advanced". She tells my husband that it is completely normal for him to pee and p*** himself and that it will just go away. SOOOO DH doesn't do s*** and just lets him run around completely uneducated and having more accidents than my potty trained three year old. Oh! And one time, my daughter had colored stuffed blocks with her and R***** said "This one is blue!" and Nana actually said "Good job!" and made a giant f****** stink about the idiot knowing what blue looks like.

I am embarrassed to take him in public because people have literally asked if something was wrong with him. So I just stay locked up in my house with the f****** r***** all day long.

Jun 17, 2013

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  • Well, I must be the absolute worst. I have 2 biological children on the autism spectrum and it has it’s challenges. I also have a stepson on the spectrum that I absolutely cannot get along with to save my life. He’s 14 and I had to toilet train him when he was 10 because I was tired of wiping the ass of someone who could tell me they s*** their pants. He cannot read at all, he chews with his mouth open and he gives me the creeps because he always wants to touch me. If I address my concerns with my husband, my husband yells at me. My husband has custody of his son, but I get the displeasure of trying to raise this child that disrespects me and my property. I have plenty of experience with autism, it’s not the autism that bothers me. It’s the fact that this particular child can get by with everything because of his diagnosis, but mine because they had me should know better. What the actual f*** is that? So, I can relate to not liking a child and I can relate to it making a marriage a living H***.

  • All of you should sit in your garage and turn the car on....

  • Why are you here then, reading all of this? Sounds to me that eliminating your genes from the pool would be a benefit to all mankind.

  • I Hate no good Satanic C***.

  • I am sooo with you. We have my stepson every weekend and he is 9. He still sh*** himself because he can't be bothered to pull himself away from his videos or iPad. He can't answer a question, he just repeats what you say. I hate every weekend. My daughter, who is four, is so much smarter and I interesting. I feel bad that I don't love him, but honestly, his only conversations consist of reenacting videos, even ones where rooms at the Holiday Inn are being showcased. It's hard to love someone with whom you can't even talk or have a conversation.

  • Sounds like you are an a******. Jesus Christ, it's pretty obvious that this kid has developmental problems that he can't help and he requires extra care and a structured household. And here you are comparing normal kids to him acting like he's lazy and wants to s*** himself. Seriously, lady you need to grow up and maybe your husband would be better off not dealing with an insensitive moron like you.

  • If even half of this is true, he has major developmental problems, and/or emotional/psychological issues, and needs professional diagnosis and treatment.

  • Just a f****** thought. Instead of being a s******* about him online, see if he can be diagnosed with a mental ilness, and get him therapy. You are neglectful, and if i knew where ypu lived, i would call cps. Little b****, you cant brimg yourself to take any responsibility. Not everyone is lucky like us. To not have these problems. Be grateful, little c***

  • You are a r***** yourself and should be euthanized

  • I’m sooo happy I found this place with you people. Knowing people feel the same way as I do really makes me feel better. Anyway my sd has Down syndrome and I’m not sure how close that is to Autism but I hate her. I don’t love and never have, but the only reason I’m still here is cause my partner and I had our own child who I love more than anything. I would love to get out but I’m afraid she may hurt my child especially since she hit or pushes him when he cries.

    My sd hates loud noises but she’s the loud noise in our house 24/7! It’s ok when she’s loud af! But anything else that is half as loud as she is upset her! I got in an arugument with my partner over her cause she especially everything to be her way and just makes excuses for her all the time.

    I dread the times she comes home from school and here for the weekends she’s gone to her fathers. It’s just constant noise when she’s home and (not like normal kids noise), just constant screaming jibberish and repeating the same word over and over. There even times she s*** herself and takes her clothes off and just plays with her s***!

    Anyway I’m hanging around cause my child, but I think when my child start school then I’ll just have to pack it in and leave. My life’s too important to put up with this kid and dirty dippers for rest of my life.

  • Don't wait do it now. Who the f*** needs a no good b**** like u for a step mum anyway

  • You should have been aborted you dumb f*** shut up

  • ? how old is she and a spanking may help..

  • We know, pedo... yada yada "reddened bare bottom" etc. stupid perv

  • Stupid r***** boy is triggered. People hate you and your parents are embarrassed by you

  • You probably are a pedo. Sick f***.

  • You people are sick and going to h***. I can't tolerate my 13yo stepson..but I'm not online calling him a r*****, and ever other disgusting name your uneducated sorry self continues to call him. Homeschooling? from someone like you?.lol. Youre an immature liberal. You should slit your wrists now and avoid the real problems that children bring when they get older. Hope your three yo daughter doesn't literally become an online w**** when she's seventeen for your family and friends to see. Yeeeeeah, you see....THATS a problem. S******* in his unxies is an easy fix and actually not specific to autism - happens often with young kids in grade school because they have an issue with public toilets. Have him clean his own undies. It will cease, but you're probably too liberal and lazy to make that happen. All parents with a sole 3 yo, think they're the best and know everything. Sounds like your children are Children of Children.

  • No, you dumbfuck, s******* in pants at age ten is not at all normal or ok. The kid is a r***** like you

  • Sorry, all I'm reading here is some mentally scarred fool who keeps using the word "liberal" like it applies to this topic. Have you recently sustained a head injury?

  • I copied this from a reply I posted way down near the bottom of this page: Until you are in our position you have no idea what life is like for us. NONE of us here ever wanted to feel the way we do, and I'm certain we all fight it. But sometimes the circumstances are far too overwhelming and the only way to keep our sanity is to vent... and this is just one of the places we can do so. You think we don't already feel like pieces of s*** because we harbor these ugly feelings inside? It's a daily STRUGGLE, which causes anxiety, remorse, depression, self-loathing... it even interferes with my relationship with God. I work at it; I try to fix it... but it's so DAMN HARD, living with a person you just cannot stand to be near. How would you like to be in this situation? Until you've stood in our shoes and experienced what we have; take your judgmental attitude elsewhere.

  • I can totally relate

  • Couldmt have said it better myself

  • On my very best days, I can barely tolerate my autistic stepson, who is actually low on the spectrum. And those days are very few and far between. On my worst days which are most of the time I'm cussing him out under my breath and wishing for the day to come that I never have to see or deal with him ever again. The truly scary thing is knowing that that day probably won't ever come. All other days are only slightly better than my worst. My theory is that living with this kid is my punishment for all the things I've screwed up. I miss my life before this kid ever came into it. I'm a bitter shell of who I used to be. I can't even pray because the hatred I hold inside makes me feel unworthy to. Some days I don't even want to go on living. Thanks to him.

  • Divorce. You arent its mom so walk away. Change your name, find your better life without the burden that you never wanted

  • Part two
    This kid is always holding in his s***, always crying over absolutely nothing and he attacks our animals. He f****** laughs and gets happy when other people get hurt or cry.... the little f*** literally asks people to hurt more because he enjoys it. Its literally the only thing that can make him f****** laugh except for when he just randomly starts laughing at absolutely f****** nothing.
    He refuses to play or do anything and when he does all he will do is line s*** up. Hes about 3 and literally chooses to stand and f****** stare at me or whatever than play with toys.
    I wish he was just gone... im terrified to actually marry my fiance because his "son" is such a f****** burden. Really thinking about getting out before im trapped.

  • Nooo don’t get married!! It will get so much worse. No sense in staying in a life-long situation that will tear you apart. Run!!!!

  • Don't do it, do not get married. It only gets worse. Although the child is young enough that you could be the steady hand in raising him, making sure he learns to do for himself and can function as close to a normal person as possible. You just have to ask yourself if that is what you want. To raise an autistic child that isn't your own. No way in h*** would I do it. I live with one but he is older, and his mother pretty much did everything for him his entire life (and still does for that matter), so I stay as uninvolved in his life as possible. But it's infuriating seeing her do everything for and wait on his lazy ass. And he never shows any appreciation whatsoever. Mostly criticism about how she's doing things wrong. Can't wait for the day he grows up and moves out. If that will ever happen. Eventually, some day, it's going to be either him or me.

  • I hate my autistic step son and im so happy im not the only one. His dad and i got together when he was 18 m the kid literally spent all his f****** time crying... literally for hours, all day nonstop or repeating the word apple over and over again. My fiance and his useless c*** mother thought this s*** was f****** normal. I took him out and started looking into that s***. Now hes finally talking but all he does is say the same f****** s*** over and over again. Hes almost 3. Hes terrified of everything, hes violent, he will literally sit fot f****** hours and just stare at me and wont talk. It took ne almost 6 gd weeks to teach him how to put something in the f****** garbage. Hes so f****** stupid. I have my own kid so i know that it shouldnt take kids 6 months to learn how to f****** just stand up and walk away when you are done playing with a toy. You dont need to be f****** told to do everything, he just stands there repeating all done over and over again because hes completely incapable of independant thinking.
    The kid isnt even biologically my fiances which makes it worse. His w**** of a mother tricked him and now im stuck with parenting him. This stupid c*** has two other r****** kids at home undiagnosed and shes trying to bring more into the f****** world!

  • I've been recently experiencing higher anxiety, bordering on panic attacks, just being in the same house as my mildly autistic step son. After more than 5 years of waiting for him to progress mentally and physically from teenager to adult and I've reached my tipping point. At age 20 it's obvious he'll never grow beyond the mentality of an 11 year old. If that. I hate my life, with him in it. Mom just babies him and expects nothing of him, responsibility wise. And it seems she never will. Except for maybe when we're 80 years old and she's too frail to continue to wait on his lazy ass and cater to his every need. She's hurting him far more than helping him, not to mention ruining our marriage at the same time. And some people criticize us for our harsh feelings. I'd gladly trade places with them and wait to see how well they'd deal with these situations.

  • Your not Dead yet? Then die now. Ur not welcome. Here but in h*** u r most welcome. Hurry they're waiting for u.

  • Man I’m p*****! I got my ass HANDED to me for posting on a separate thread about wishing my special needs stepchild didn’t exist, that I just wish the child and the custodial parent were out of our lives. And from THAT, people were praying for my soul and saying God was the only one who could help me. How did this thread manage to escape that?! I’m feeling supremely jilted over here!

  • People who are not in our situation just dont and cant understand. And never will.

  • Ur Dead Wrong. You sound just like my Mum. And I hate her Guts. I wish nothing good for her. She wishes I was Dead. Nothing but Aduse from and my Dad and siblings. Thank God for Adoption.

  • That sucks.

  • Part 1 of dumb stepdaughter vent:
    My husband to be has 3 children by / different mums. The first mum is fine and a nice lady, the second one is dumb as brick.

    He has 2 children with that woman. A boy and a girl. The girl is 3 and a half and her speech is severely delayed. Like, the worst I have ever seen in a child her age.

    They suspect she has autism, I don’t know what really goes on with her. Her mum eats like a pig, eating NcDonalds at least twice a week and is a fat cow. Her body is disgusting with her t*** down to her bellybutton, an ass so flat it almost goes inside her body and a tummy that hangs over her underwear. She makes me want to barf looking at her, and I am a bi woman that has no problem admiring when a woman is pretty. I even point out attractive women to my partner, so this isn’t our if jealousy at all.

    That woman is just disgusting in both long oks and manners, nasty, pushy and dumb. And her daughter is turning out just the same, or worse.

    People baby her and compliment her on achieving the stupidest of tasks like she actually accomplished something. Wow, she can say her name and her hair colour. Wow.

  • What have you achieved, you evil POS excuse for a human being?

  • Part 2 of dumb stepdaughter vent:

    She repeats her name all the f****** time and things like mummy’s house at the randomnest of times, because that is basically all she f****** knows how to say.

    The two boys are clever. Especially the eldest. And got their father’s good metabolism, even though they all eat like fat people. The girl got her mother’s body and was set up for failure from the get go.

    Her mother would go to Mc Donald’s whilst pregnant and eat two freaking Big Macs. “One for me, one fo baby”. She mother also smoked weed and cigs throughout her pregnancy and aside from being slow and her severe speech problems, she also has bladder problems.

  • Part 3 of dumb stepdaughter vent:

    The mother was with a violent man after she broke up with my partner (she broke up with him), that hit her and called her fat and etc in front of the kids. And a lot of nasty things, which led to her son starting to call other people fat as he heard it so often.

    The girl is terrible though. Violent and spiked and throws tantrums whenever she doesn’t get whatever she wants straight away. Nobody has patience to deal with her or her mum so they end up getting what they want to shut the f up.

    My partner and I are probably expected ngm right now, I just need confirmation. If we aren’t yet, we will keep on trying. I don’t have any kids and want just one. To raise it the best I can with time and to be able to provide as well. I am mich better off financially than my partner and his exes, so I will be the one financially supporting a child we have.

    It just worries me about this violent dumb girl being left alone a kid of mine. I will never leave her alone in a room with my kid. Ever. But even with me being there, it worries me. That my kid will look up to their big sister and try to copy her. She is not an example to be followed, and I don’t know what to do.

  • You know all this , and yet still want to be with this loser of a man!!! He is a loser, and I guess you are a retarded b**** your self too!!! So , you deserve everything!! Go a head make kids with this man and ENJOY the rest of your miserable life!!!

  • Part 4 of dumb stepdaughter vent:
    I will never be rude to her, ever. I love kids and I am really patient with them, everybody tells me I am the most patient person around kids they have ever seen, but this girl really tests me. I will never cross a line, but we th a child of mine in the picture now or in the near future, it worries me.

    Her mum is envious of everybody and tries to pretend to be something she isn’t and to live above her means just to show off on social media as a good parent. She really isn’t.

    Her son has told her a few tones how I am prettier than her and how much he loves me and wishes he lived with me and his dad. I love that kid and wish I could save him from living with that woman.

    I am just afraid that if I have a daughter things will get worse than if it is a boy. This girl will already lose her place as her daddy’s baby when my child is born, if it is a girl it will be even worse as there are always comparisons made between sisters more than to a brother-sister.

  • Part 5 of dumb stepdaughter vent:

    I will be able to provide a better life financially and emotionally to my kid. I will prioritize my kid. I am just afraid about how this violent little girl might have a negative impact on my child. The boys are fine and great big brothers and we talked to them before starting to try to conceive and they are fine with the idea of a new baby.

    It is just her that worries me.

    She has hurt me in the past during tantrums. I will not let her harm my baby.

    Any advice on what to do? Her dad and basically everybody else try to pretend the problem isn’t really there and that she will catch up eventually. I don’t think she will thoug.

    I have babysat plenty of little cousins and been around friends’ kids throughout my life, I never saw a child as problematic or dumb as her.

    She also has very manly frautures and looks like a boy wearing a wig.

    I will love a kid of mine no matter what, boy or girl, beautiful or ugly. It will be my child, after all.

    But it worries me that if I do have a pretty baby (I am a model and so was my mum, so not unlikely), and that baby is a girl, that jealousy over that might set it eventually. She is already a very jealous child as it is, getting everything she possibly can by either force or crying until she gets on people’s nerves and they just give up so she will shut up.

    She is potty trained, so not as bad as it could be, but I just dread the negative influence and drama she will bring into my life. I didn’t know how bad it was when her father and I first got together. If I had know I might never have started the relationship.

  • Part 6 of dumb stepdaughter vent:
    Now I love him and his other two kids and we will get married soon and either have a baby on the way already or will soon. And I don’t wish she was never born, I agreed to be wmyself th a man with 3 kids, I chose that. I just wish she wasn’t how she is. I don’t love her like I love the boys. Not because she is a girl or any of that cr*p, but because she is a hard pill to swallow most of the time.

    She can be sweet at times, but in a way a kid half her age would be. She is just so slow and delayed, I fear a kid of mine even 4 or 5 years younger than her, would surpass her capabilities in no time at all.

    I feel guilty for saying all that here, but I have no one to turn to.

    Like I said, I will never be rude to her, and I will keep on trying my best even though it kills me inside seeing no results. But, by God, I needed to vent!!!

    I will never let my child alone with her, as I am afraid she might actually seriously harm my baby. Even when my kid is older. I would have no problem with baby bezing alone with the two other kids, but not with her.

    I just wish she was different and her cow of a mother was different, because she seems to want mother of the freaking year award for doing the bare minimum and doing terribly in certain areas. So entitled, and the girl is going the same way.

  • Part 7 (and last! Haha) of dumb stepdaughter vent:
    Her mother has actually admitted she is jealous of me for having more money than she does, having travelled more and be able to do more things in the future and provide better things for my future child. I could see the resentment on her eyes when she told me her son tells everybody how pretty I am and that I am prettier than her as well. He tells me all the time I am his favourite girl in the world and how much he loves me. He also tells me his mum is nasty and mean.

    Again, sorry for the vent. I would love advice and comments from people that went through similar things in the past, as I have nobody to turn to and would actually be willing to do whatever it takes to make this better for me and my baby in the long run.

    Ps: I tried posting this by itself before I found this confession and figured I should share it here too. Reading the comments made me feel like I am not alone.

  • Last last comment. I just realized there are a lot of typos as I didn’t proof read before submitting the comments, as I was happy to finally be able to get all of that out of my chest. Lol

    Forgive the typos and I hope somebody has the patience to read through it all and reply

  • So what exactly stopped you from posting this as your own confession, rather than comment-jacking someone else's?

    Vent away, but *7* separate textwall comments just comes off looking narcissistic and unintelligent. All the "sorry"s and "haha"s in the world doesn't offset that. Join the adult world!

  • Wooooooooow hahaha

  • I feel similarly about my Autistic stepson I wish he was never born on a daily basis His mother isn’t really in his life is his father his grandmother and I that take care of him together but lately the burden has been on me his father has a drug attic and I don’t know what else to do the little boy needs to be on medication he’s wide open 24 f****** seven hitting me slapping me that one fits in public today we tried to take him to Carowinds and he threw such a fit I don’t understand why my partner thinks he would enjoy stuff like this when really he’s just too retarded to f****** know

  • Also beware that the 'sensory' issues can morph into knicker stealing cross dressing etc. My autistic stepson was caught prancing around my bedroom wearing my lacy basque and high heels. I would laugh but it makes me want to puke. He has stolen so many of my things, makes himself outfits out of plastic bags complete with holes at the backside. He had a whole bag of his trash heap mother's underwear to play with. She doesn't have him over there anymore and expects us to sort out his 'problems' like it can be fixed. He's a f****** perv. Our room is locked all the time now. And as he is only on the light end of the spectrum he can get a job when he finishes school and get the f*** out of our home. Psychiatrist said this perving is common in autism. Great.

  • So you're saying knicker stealing and cross dressing ARE mental illnesses. Ha, like THAT hasn't been obvious!

  • Holy S*** F***, that's so true.

  • Op, why did you agree to have him living with you and home school him? You say it like you had no choice. It's hard bringing up someone else's child and even harder when that child has autism. I am an sm of an autism so I know. I leave his father to deal with him. It's his son after all. I just try to be polite and neutral with him. It's all I can do. You need to get out of this situation as it is a disaster for all Concerned.

  • I hate your guts and hope you get ran over by a car and be paralyzed for the rest of eternity you f****** devil eat dirt burn in h***.

  • She makes a good point you r*****.

  • U f****** b**** he is your son dum ass and to him u are a b**** f*** u w****

  • Are you really that stupid? I take that as a yes. There are SOME people in this world that put pressure on OTHERS. You are probably one of those people, because you wouldn't get mad. You seem to understand or grasp what SOME people have to go through with around people who don't know how to ACT normal. Everyone in this world is now f***** in the head... so I guess someone with Autism is the least of your problems. But everything you say to people like you just goes straight through your f****** heads, p***** us all off.

  • Not her son. He is her husbands son and he is failing in parenting and leaving her with the problem. A step kid is Not legally her responsibility

  • Ahh another r***** sticking up for fellow r*****. Why the f*** not be honnest seems like she is dealing with an autistic kid who is undiagnosed because dear daddy dobt want to own it. Well like it or not kids f*****.

  • Autism speaks. ^^^^^^^

  • Holy s***. This page has got to be one of the best ones on the whole f****** internet. I had no idea this is such a common thing. I've got 2 stepsons, 12 and 10, and they're the biggest shitpile human beings I've ever encountered. Just tonight, the 12 year old tried to heat up some food in the microwave with his fork still in the plate. Not once or even twice. Three f****** times! I've been with their mom now for 7 years and I'm on the verge of dipping out. Only thing that's stopped me thus far is our 3 year old we've had together. Both step kids diagnosed with ADD and ODD. They won't officially get diagnosed with conduct disorder because these "specialists" are worried it'll stick with them. Idk if you know this, but that's some s*** serial killers end up having.
    The 10 year old spent 6 months in an out of state inpatient psych ward because he had steak knives in his pillow and was planning on stabbing me in my sleep. This was after he told staff at his school that I beat him with a studded belt (which hadn't happened), got CPS and military CID involved, stopped my pending promotion, and sent me into a nervous f****** breakdown. And all that time inpatient didn't do s***.
    The 12 year old is another f****** class act. Goes out of his way to do the exact opposite of what he's told. Doesn't f****** matter what it is. Steals cash from my wife's purse, steals cash from my room. Had to put a lock on my f****** bedroom door cuz all my s*** ends up either broken or missing.
    I'm just sooooooo f****** done with this s***.

  • I want to warn you guys that many women with special needs kids look for a sucker to babby sit. If YOU are home while she is out imo good chance she is a loveless cheater. Confront her about anything.._._.Violent RAGE on her part? Well there is your cluster B confirmation. Dont be the nice beta male putz, get out.

  • Am I allowed to feel this way even when my ss isn't autistic?

  • I feel this way about my step son I hate hi m

  • Sure, why not, so long as he's an a******.

  • All disabled/retarded children should have been aborted (or euthanized after birth). To all you ladies out there putting up with this bullshit on a daily basis, just stop. Get a divorce, get the f*** away from the retards that are ruining your lives, including the ungrateful men who think you're just supposed to deal with their retarded offspring messes. No man is worth having to deal with this type of f***** up nonsense. Idiotic holy rollers and ignornant b****** will preach god and bible and tell you you're evil, but f*** them all. Take care of yourselves first and foremost. I sympathize with all of you in this situation and hope you will make the right decision to run screaming the f*** away and never looking back. Sending rays of hope and light for you all to extricate yourselves from your horrendous situations and to gain a peaceful r***** monster free life! Take charge and get the h*** away!

  • Not just women putting up with this kind of bullshit. As a man i should have sainthood bestowed on me for living with my autistic a****** stepson.

  • My stepson is a worthless little s***. Won't eat real food, every time he comes over it's "pizza" in his stupid baby voice. makes me want to kill myself. He jumps around screaming, and plays on his dad's phone or our tablet, That's it. Try takin him to the park, and he STILL sits on the phone. Anytime you tell him no, he starts hitting and screaming, he's g****** 10 years old. My two year old is smarter than him. He never shuts the f*** up, comes into our room at 4 in the morning to grab my husbands phone and continues to go in and out , and when we go to take him back to where he sleeps, he starts whining/screaming and wakes up my newborn. We have him one day a week, but as soon as he leaves I dread the day he comes back. I think about it all week. Forget taking him to the store, he embarrasses us by throwing tantrums because we won't let him get all the junk food he wants. He screams and attacks whenever we tell him to take a shower, sits on the couch chewing his toe nails, and eating his boogers like the disgusting idiot he is. And, because every time he does something bad, his father coddles him, so he KNOWS he's going to get away with whatever he wants. I try to talk to my husband about him, and he says "he has autism!" We have a newborn together and I'm terrified she will have autism. I think of it daily, and I wouldn't know what to do. I love her so much. I love my husband; but his fat, buck toothed, little b**** of a son is ruining our relationship. I have fantasies about punching him in the face, or pushing him down the stairs. I'd never do it, because I'm not a violent person, but,it feel good to knock those buck teeth back into place. I hate this child. He has a deathly peanut allergy and I pray for the day that he eats peanuts so I'll never have to see his ugly face again. He pretends to be dumber than he is to get whatever he wants. Thanks for listening, and for sharing your stories. It's so relieving knowing I'm not alone in this.

  • Take some comfort in knowing you are not alone (though my SS is several years older than yours; which I might add it doesn't get any better as they get older, as much as you'd think it would). I have many of the same thoughts as you do. It's a terrible situation to be in. I want to leave in the worst way but it's not economically feasible. If I could afford to be; I'd have been gone by now, all because of "him." Spoiled, coddled, demanding, ungrateful, lazy, obese, no potential for a career or caring for himself... yeah, just a fine example of a human being. What the h*** was I thinking for getting into this mess.

  • Thank you

  • Try having a violent r***** AND a borderline sociopath cheating wife.._

  • My husband and I have been fighting for two weeks about this child. Two f****** weeks. And every time all he says is "he's not normal! He's autistic! He can't help it!"
    Are you kidding me?! He knows what he's doing, and you're allowing it! It's to the point that my husband is suggesting we live in separate houses, and when I agree, he changes his mind because he was expecting me to be heart broken and beg him for us to live together. I love this man. I love him so much, but all I can think about is what have I done? Why didn't I run from the get go?
    When my daughter was 15 months old, I went to go attend to her because she was crying, and this piece of s*** r***** was punching her in the head! Wanna know what DH did? He said his son was doing it because she was loud and he can't stand loud noises! How the f*** are you going to stick up for a 10 year old who is physically abusing a baby?! That just shows what this little brat can get away with! I sure would like to punch him in the head, and knock whatever brain he has out of it. My anxiety is through the roof, I can barely sleep, and I wish daily that his son didn't exist. It's honestly so difficult and exhausting. Thanks for listening, it means the world to me.

  • “My anxiety is through the roof, I can barely sleep, and I wish daily that his son didn't exist. It's honestly so difficult and exhausting.”

    I’m in the same boat. More or less made up my mind to leave my wife because of her son. I’ve tried, for too many years. But seeing absolutely no progress or development or any motivation on his part to do ANYTHING with his life, including the most basic of life skills (beyond s*******, bathing, and using a microwave), has me at my rope’s end. This man-child will never work or never live on his own. Mostly because mom has coddled him beyond belief his entire life. He does nothing but sits on a video game. All day, every day. And not in his room, either. That wouldn’t be so bad because then I wouldn’t have to see and hear him every single day.

  • Omg. You have excellent control! I would have beat the little b****** senseless!! Your husband's reaction is sickening! Your baby could have died! That would be the absolute final straw for me. You're lucky your baby is ok. What if he grabs a weapon next time? If you can't leave the man, take your baby and try staying somewhere else while he's there. Something. I wouldn't chance it, hun. I have a stepson I hate. I don't even want to refer to him as that because that little piece of s*** is nothing to me. Idk what he has but he's dumb as h***. He gives evil ass looks, his Mom's a r***** who always sends him to us nasty looking, he barely speaks, he's the ugliest little r*****. My husband doesn't want him. We only have him one night a week. We're hoping he isn't his. I don't want that kid or his fat b**** Mom in our lives. I worry so much that he's going to hurt our son one day. There's more. He's really f***** up in the head. He's a sneaky f***. Always looking to make sure no one's looking at him so he can sneak around and take s*** from my son. Last weekend my husband bought him a bug juice. The kid just sat there and let it drip all over him. I had to go in the store with him being wet and dirty. I was so embarrassed. I don't want people assuming I'm that things mother.

  • Your a saint i would have beat the little abomination. There is a very good reason humans killed off "special" people its human nature to stay away from the weak.

  • Run from violence._._.Antisocial pd will ruin your soul

  • Autism is not an excuse, and if it is autism show me the DNA proof. Far too many of our young ones are being diagnosed, statemented with being on the autistic spectrum, but only a DNA test will really ever prove it.
    And if they were not born autistic (for the last 30 years every baby has a blood test at birth) then the autism is caused by viral mutation. wonder what vaccination did that to the little sods then.
    https://www.ted.com/talks/james_watson_on_how_he_discovered_dna
    A.N.D.I. Rhesus monkey
    son of A.N.D.I
    If you watch the video and search for the other 2 you will find the horror of what the vaccination program is really for!

  • That stupid f****** baby voice thing is the WORST! YOU'RE A 9 YEAR OLD BOY NOT A G****** TODDLER AND THAT DOESN'T CHANGE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOUR INFANTILIZING, POS MOTHER CALLS YOU DUMB PET NAMES!!! Ugh. It grates my nerves so much. With the tard in my life, though, it's constant chicken nuggets. Nothing else, because "sensory disorder". No, that's total bullshit. He always gets his way and at this point he's just an obstinate picky eater. And Thomas the f****** Train. YOU'RE 9!!! At least try something age appropriate.

    In my case, at least, his father sees through the BS. He's just not in a position to change anything because his ex is a psycho who, through her laziness and wishes for her "precious baby" to remain a baby forever is ruining any shot this kid may have of developing somewhat more normally. I feel bad for him in many respects. But g****** if he isn't a loud, rude, demanding, obstinate little obese s***. He gets away with A LOT though by playing up the autism and acting stupid when he does know what's going on. His smile when he's being obstinate is some sort of duping delight and a dead give away for the BS games he plays to get his way in matters of food and constant media designed for toddlers.

  • Amen we are living the same life. Mother f****** chicken nugget nightmare. S*** your pants one more time and ill beat you with the f****** tablet. This world is so p**** these gb kids are worshipped for being f*** tarded does anyone think 40 years ago these kids inly ate chicken nuggets with chocolate milk and tablet s**** oh h*** f****** no. It was off the the asylum with that s***. I dont want the kid locked up but how bout a nice ass beating everytime he does his fucksd up s***. I am not encouraging any child to be the "best autistic you can be" h*** no its put up or shut the f*** up. Worst part for me is kids dad thinks its just him being different cause his mama left l**** but the kids 9 yo older brother does the same s*** at his dad s**** pants p****** the bed. I see both of these kids are f***** undiagnosed autistic brats and the mom dont even pay her court order child support on top of no social security. Why the f*** am i here. Oh my dumb ass got knocked up by dear dad and all i can think is dead god please no retarded kid.

  • Oh god, the f****** chicken nuggets. Same thing with my retarded, worthless SS. I just mentioned pizza because the way he says it. It's strictly pizza, McDonalds chicken nuggets and cookies/candy. Nothing else. Oh yeah, and Sprite. Because you know that fat piece of garbage won't eat anything else. I made a delicious steak dinner couple weeks ago, and the little idiot didn't eat ANY OF IT. His father went out and bought him a pizza instead, AND HE ATE THE WHOLE F****** THING. There are times I catch him pretending to be stupid. And he looks me dead in the eye with this angry look as if he wants to kill me. I'm waiting for the day that he hits me, cause I'm going to unleash an ass whooping like he wouldn't believe. When he hits my husband, he does nothing about it. Just asks him to stop. We're in the middle of the store and he is screaming and kicking and throwing punches, and of course DH does nothing. Everyone is looking at us, and this buck toothed, ugly little r***** just keeps going. God. I hate him.

  • I left my ex because I couldn’t handle his 2 ASD children anymore. His ex wife is crazy and uses the children to make him do things for her. He is spineless and does everything she asks. His kids gross me out. They were rude, mean, horrible to my children (hitting, spitting on, screaming) and I found them embarrassing and ugly. Fat and useless and I can’t stand the way that their father cheers for them and we have to applaud if they go to the toilet or eat their whole plate of disgusting junk food. I am still friendly with my ex but he insists on sending pictures of his kids to me all the time. He’s so proud of his son for winning awards at school a lot. It’s a f****** special school! They hand out awards to everyone just for f****** existing! I don’t miss being with him because it’s like a holiday to be away from those retards, their vile white trash mother and the dread I felt when I had to see them on weekends. My kids were treated well until those children showed up to stay. Then suddenly everything was blamed on my kids and the autistics were allowed to get away with everything, even though they were the ones antagonising. I tried really hard for ages. I was never mean to them even though I couldn’t stand them. I like kids and I’ve met spectrum children who are great kids. I don’t understand why nothing is done to address their obesity or behaviour when it’s just going to make everyone’s lives miserable in the long run. I miss my ex but I’m happy I got out when I did.

  • I hear what you're saying. It makes me kind of sad to see pictures of other kids on Facebook or what not, who are playing sports or achieving goals and starting college or good careers and yet here's my SO applauding her AS son online or just in general for just accomplishing the most basic things in life or what he could have or should have been doing at age 8 instead of 18. He's on the low end of the autism spectrum, he's not retarded. Yet SO babies and coddles him as if he is. Living with that kid, who barely does anything for himself out of sheer laziness, just brings me down. Every single day. Not sure how much longer I can take it.

  • Congratulations on getting out! I wish I could... it's a long story but just can't extricate myself from the situation. I am convinced that the happiest day of my life will be the last day that I ever have to see, hear, or smell my AS step son.

  • Not to worry those "Spaz-autistics" will have a s***** adult life. Usually they clash with people later in life and end up being s****** on. They may be monsters now, but just you wait and see. They cross and wrong person and BANG! That's them f***** for life, there are some really nasty people in this world, and they don't take to lightly to the retarded.

  • The gd nuggets. Do you day dream of a chicken nugget choke to death scenario then realise life is not so simple and the dad would be sad.

  • Not really choking on the damn chicken nuggets but I see the appeal of such a fantasy. What ticks me off the most is how no one in this kid's life, barring his father, seems to have any expectations or even hopes or even the desire to see him improve. "Oh well he's just autistic and he can't help it." Bullshit. Yeah, he's autistic. No, that doesn't mean you continuously baby him.

    I do genuinely feel bad for him that life handed him the autism. I do. But F*** that's no reason to sit back and let him be a perpetual toddler. Yes, he has more hurdles to overcome - so push him and encourage him! Don't just accept that there's no hope and let him become a video-game playing basement dweller. F***.

    And he f****** knows more than he lets on. He's fairly smart and he knows how to play the tard thing up to get away with whatever. I'm not abusive towards him nor do I condon such behavior but f*** if I don't want to slap his eye-rolling, game-playing little a****** buckteeth face sometimes.

    Why are all autists cursed with the most repulsive teeth?

    This little r***** would rather go hungry than eat toast or a grilled cheese sandwich. It drives me insane. Pure obstinance. "My mommy lets me eat the kinds of foods I want." Well, your mother is a lazy w**** (not just an insult - she literally is in the "adult industry") who relishes in her identity as Super Autism Mommy™ and never wants you to grow up. Forget ever having any kind of normal life. As long as Mommy calls you [insert very specific and revolting pet name here], everything's fine, right? Let's see how long that lasts. Maybe it'll be fine post-puberty provided they at least grace him with chemical castration so he can forever be his mommy's precious baby boy.

    G****** I cannot wait until the kid is in his 20's and no one praises her any longer. They'll all just be mildly repulsed and maybe pity her for having a huge (both obese and tall) r***** hanging on her back.

  • Exact same situation with my wife and her AS son (except she's not in the adult film industry!). It's sickening.

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