Retarded Step Son

I hate my step son with every fiber of my being. We used to only have him every other weekend and I would just hide in my room those weekends. Now we have him 100% of the time and he is driving me INSANE. I think about divorce at least once/week just because of this f****** r*****. He did horribly in public school, so his dad decided I should homeschool him. He is ten years old, but my three year old is smarter than him. More than once, my three year old has answered a question that the little fuckwad didn't know the answer to. He can't do simple mathematics, can hardly read (and chooses to read my daughter's board books when he's forced to read), still can't spell three letter words, etc etc etc. I will present information to him in a million ways and try to make it as fun and as exciting for him as possible and he won't grasp a f****** lick of it.

He still p***** AND s**** himself. No joke, one day I kept smelling something foul and couldn't figure out where it was coming from. I thought maybe the cats and taken a dump, so I cleaned their box.... NOPE. I smelled it all through breakfast and while I did my morning chores. I took a shower and had to pass his room and realized that I smelled the stench again. STILL didn't occur to me that the idiot had s*** himself, so I went downstairs. About thirty minutes later, he was on the couch (watching f****** Thomas the Train, because he is a COMPLETE AND UTTER R*****) and I FINALLY realized that the smell was coming from him. He NEVER EVER responds when you talk to him, so I just asked if he knew he smelled. NO RESPONSE. Then it hit me - HE S*** HIS G****** PANTS. I say "Did you p*** your pants?" and he just stares at me. Eventually he says "I guess I'll go take a bath." UH DUHHHHH!!! Did you really f****** eat breakfast, play with toys, and watch tv ALL WHILE SITTING IN YOUR OWN S***? Yes, he did. And Daddy Dearest doesn't f****** care. UGH.

He p***** his pants CONSTANTLY. I find pissy underwear hidden all the time. I even found a stash of my daughter's pull ups that he'd p***** in and hidden under his desk. STILL, Daddy Dearest doesn't give a F***.

He is also ugly as F***. He has buck teeth that are brighter than the sun and I want to punch them out of his scrawny f****** face every time he stares at me when I ask a simple question.

My daughter adores him and tries to play with him, but gets so frustrated because he won't ever respond to anything she says. I eventually have to yell "RESPOND WHEN SHE TALKS TO YOU, PLEASE!" and he'll eventually say something totally f****** stupid.

He is a complete follower with no imagination or personality of his own. When he is around his significantly younger cousins, he copies everything they say and do and laughs when he has no f****** idea what is going on.

He has like three chores that he has to do every day (make his bed, empty the trash from the bathrooms, and put his laundry away). YET every single day, if you don't break it down g******* Barney style for him, he "forgets" how to do them. Seriously. The other day I told him to take care of the trash and he came down with his arms full of used toilet paper and pads and s*** because he "forgot" that he was just supposed to take the bags out and replace them. WTF? THAT IS A SPECIAL KIND OF RETARDED!!! Literally EVERY SINGLE DAY, I have to tell him how to do his chores again.

His NANA, who lives right across the street, babies him like f****** crazy. She still picks him up and carries him on her hip through stores (he is small for his age) and rocks him. HOLY F***, I cannot stand it. She thinks that he is right on track academically (nevermind that I had to purchase kindergarten curriculum instead of grade 5 after realizing that he didn't even know all of his letters) and that it is other kids who are "too advanced". She tells my husband that it is completely normal for him to pee and p*** himself and that it will just go away. SOOOO DH doesn't do s*** and just lets him run around completely uneducated and having more accidents than my potty trained three year old. Oh! And one time, my daughter had colored stuffed blocks with her and R***** said "This one is blue!" and Nana actually said "Good job!" and made a giant f****** stink about the idiot knowing what blue looks like.

I am embarrassed to take him in public because people have literally asked if something was wrong with him. So I just stay locked up in my house with the f****** r***** all day long.


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  • All of you should sit in your garage and turn the car on....

  • Why are you here then, reading all of this? Sounds to me that eliminating your genes from the pool would be a benefit to all mankind.

  • I Hate no good Satanic C***.

  • I am sooo with you. We have my stepson every weekend and he is 9. He still sh*** himself because he can't be bothered to pull himself away from his videos or iPad. He can't answer a question, he just repeats what you say. I hate every weekend. My daughter, who is four, is so much smarter and I interesting. I feel bad that I don't love him, but honestly, his only conversations consist of reenacting videos, even ones where rooms at the Holiday Inn are being showcased. It's hard to love someone with whom you can't even talk or have a conversation.

  • Sounds like you are an a******. Jesus Christ, it's pretty obvious that this kid has developmental problems that he can't help and he requires extra care and a structured household. And here you are comparing normal kids to him acting like he's lazy and wants to s*** himself. Seriously, lady you need to grow up and maybe your husband would be better off not dealing with an insensitive moron like you.

  • If even half of this is true, he has major developmental problems, and/or emotional/psychological issues, and needs professional diagnosis and treatment.

  • Just a f****** thought. Instead of being a s******* about him online, see if he can be diagnosed with a mental ilness, and get him therapy. You are neglectful, and if i knew where ypu lived, i would call cps. Little b****, you cant brimg yourself to take any responsibility. Not everyone is lucky like us. To not have these problems. Be grateful, little c***

  • I’m sooo happy I found this place with you people. Knowing people feel the same way as I do really makes me feel better. Anyway my sd has Down syndrome and I’m not sure how close that is to Autism but I hate her. I don’t love and never have, but the only reason I’m still here is cause my partner and I had our own child who I love more than anything. I would love to get out but I’m afraid she may hurt my child especially since she hit or pushes him when he cries.

    My sd hates loud noises but she’s the loud noise in our house 24/7! It’s ok when she’s loud af! But anything else that is half as loud as she is upset her! I got in an arugument with my partner over her cause she especially everything to be her way and just makes excuses for her all the time.

    I dread the times she comes home from school and here for the weekends she’s gone to her fathers. It’s just constant noise when she’s home and (not like normal kids noise), just constant screaming jibberish and repeating the same word over and over. There even times she s*** herself and takes her clothes off and just plays with her s***!

    Anyway I’m hanging around cause my child, but I think when my child start school then I’ll just have to pack it in and leave. My life’s too important to put up with this kid and dirty dippers for rest of my life.

  • Don't wait do it now. Who the f*** needs a no good b**** like u for a step mum anyway

  • ? how old is she and a spanking may help..

  • You people are sick and going to h***. I can't tolerate my 13yo stepson..but I'm not online calling him a r*****, and ever other disgusting name your uneducated sorry self continues to call him. Homeschooling? from someone like you?.lol. Youre an immature liberal. You should slit your wrists now and avoid the real problems that children bring when they get older. Hope your three yo daughter doesn't literally become an online w**** when she's seventeen for your family and friends to see. Yeeeeeah, you see....THATS a problem. S******* in his unxies is an easy fix and actually not specific to autism - happens often with young kids in grade school because they have an issue with public toilets. Have him clean his own undies. It will cease, but you're probably too liberal and lazy to make that happen. All parents with a sole 3 yo, think they're the best and know everything. Sounds like your children are Children of Children.

  • I copied this from a reply I posted way down near the bottom of this page: Until you are in our position you have no idea what life is like for us. NONE of us here ever wanted to feel the way we do, and I'm certain we all fight it. But sometimes the circumstances are far too overwhelming and the only way to keep our sanity is to vent... and this is just one of the places we can do so. You think we don't already feel like pieces of s*** because we harbor these ugly feelings inside? It's a daily STRUGGLE, which causes anxiety, remorse, depression, self-loathing... it even interferes with my relationship with God. I work at it; I try to fix it... but it's so DAMN HARD, living with a person you just cannot stand to be near. How would you like to be in this situation? Until you've stood in our shoes and experienced what we have; take your judgmental attitude elsewhere.

  • Couldmt have said it better myself

  • On my very best days, I can barely tolerate my autistic stepson, who is actually low on the spectrum. And those days are very few and far between. On my worst days which are most of the time I'm cussing him out under my breath and wishing for the day to come that I never have to see or deal with him ever again. The truly scary thing is knowing that that day probably won't ever come. All other days are only slightly better than my worst. My theory is that living with this kid is my punishment for all the things I've screwed up. I miss my life before this kid ever came into it. I'm a bitter shell of who I used to be. I can't even pray because the hatred I hold inside makes me feel unworthy to. Some days I don't even want to go on living. Thanks to him.

  • Part two
    This kid is always holding in his s***, always crying over absolutely nothing and he attacks our animals. He f****** laughs and gets happy when other people get hurt or cry.... the little f*** literally asks people to hurt more because he enjoys it. Its literally the only thing that can make him f****** laugh except for when he just randomly starts laughing at absolutely f****** nothing.
    He refuses to play or do anything and when he does all he will do is line s*** up. Hes about 3 and literally chooses to stand and f****** stare at me or whatever than play with toys.
    I wish he was just gone... im terrified to actually marry my fiance because his "son" is such a f****** burden. Really thinking about getting out before im trapped.

  • Nooo don’t get married!! It will get so much worse. No sense in staying in a life-long situation that will tear you apart. Run!!!!

  • Don't do it, do not get married. It only gets worse. Although the child is young enough that you could be the steady hand in raising him, making sure he learns to do for himself and can function as close to a normal person as possible. You just have to ask yourself if that is what you want. To raise an autistic child that isn't your own. No way in h*** would I do it. I live with one but he is older, and his mother pretty much did everything for him his entire life (and still does for that matter), so I stay as uninvolved in his life as possible. But it's infuriating seeing her do everything for and wait on his lazy ass. And he never shows any appreciation whatsoever. Mostly criticism about how she's doing things wrong. Can't wait for the day he grows up and moves out. If that will ever happen. Eventually, some day, it's going to be either him or me.

  • I hate my autistic step son and im so happy im not the only one. His dad and i got together when he was 18 m the kid literally spent all his f****** time crying... literally for hours, all day nonstop or repeating the word apple over and over again. My fiance and his useless c*** mother thought this s*** was f****** normal. I took him out and started looking into that s***. Now hes finally talking but all he does is say the same f****** s*** over and over again. Hes almost 3. Hes terrified of everything, hes violent, he will literally sit fot f****** hours and just stare at me and wont talk. It took ne almost 6 gd weeks to teach him how to put something in the f****** garbage. Hes so f****** stupid. I have my own kid so i know that it shouldnt take kids 6 months to learn how to f****** just stand up and walk away when you are done playing with a toy. You dont need to be f****** told to do everything, he just stands there repeating all done over and over again because hes completely incapable of independant thinking.
    The kid isnt even biologically my fiances which makes it worse. His w**** of a mother tricked him and now im stuck with parenting him. This stupid c*** has two other r****** kids at home undiagnosed and shes trying to bring more into the f****** world!

  • Your not Dead yet? Then die now. Ur not welcome. Here but in h*** u r most welcome. Hurry they're waiting for u.

  • Man I’m p*****! I got my ass HANDED to me for posting on a separate thread about wishing my special needs stepchild didn’t exist, that I just wish the child and the custodial parent were out of our lives. And from THAT, people were praying for my soul and saying God was the only one who could help me. How did this thread manage to escape that?! I’m feeling supremely jilted over here!

  • People who are not in our situation just dont and cant understand. And never will.

  • Ur Dead Wrong. You sound just like my Mum. And I hate her Guts. I wish nothing good for her. She wishes I was Dead. Nothing but Aduse from and my Dad and siblings. Thank God for Adoption.

  • That sucks.

  • Part 1 of dumb stepdaughter vent:
    My husband to be has 3 children by / different mums. The first mum is fine and a nice lady, the second one is dumb as brick.

    He has 2 children with that woman. A boy and a girl. The girl is 3 and a half and her speech is severely delayed. Like, the worst I have ever seen in a child her age.

    They suspect she has autism, I don’t know what really goes on with her. Her mum eats like a pig, eating NcDonalds at least twice a week and is a fat cow. Her body is disgusting with her t*** down to her bellybutton, an ass so flat it almost goes inside her body and a tummy that hangs over her underwear. She makes me want to barf looking at her, and I am a bi woman that has no problem admiring when a woman is pretty. I even point out attractive women to my partner, so this isn’t our if jealousy at all.

    That woman is just disgusting in both long oks and manners, nasty, pushy and dumb. And her daughter is turning out just the same, or worse.

    People baby her and compliment her on achieving the stupidest of tasks like she actually accomplished something. Wow, she can say her name and her hair colour. Wow.

  • Part 2 of dumb stepdaughter vent:

    She repeats her name all the f****** time and things like mummy’s house at the randomnest of times, because that is basically all she f****** knows how to say.

    The two boys are clever. Especially the eldest. And got their father’s good metabolism, even though they all eat like fat people. The girl got her mother’s body and was set up for failure from the get go.

    Her mother would go to Mc Donald’s whilst pregnant and eat two freaking Big Macs. “One for me, one fo baby”. She mother also smoked weed and cigs throughout her pregnancy and aside from being slow and her severe speech problems, she also has bladder problems.

  • Part 3 of dumb stepdaughter vent:

    The mother was with a violent man after she broke up with my partner (she broke up with him), that hit her and called her fat and etc in front of the kids. And a lot of nasty things, which led to her son starting to call other people fat as he heard it so often.

    The girl is terrible though. Violent and spiked and throws tantrums whenever she doesn’t get whatever she wants straight away. Nobody has patience to deal with her or her mum so they end up getting what they want to shut the f up.

    My partner and I are probably expected ngm right now, I just need confirmation. If we aren’t yet, we will keep on trying. I don’t have any kids and want just one. To raise it the best I can with time and to be able to provide as well. I am mich better off financially than my partner and his exes, so I will be the one financially supporting a child we have.

    It just worries me about this violent dumb girl being left alone a kid of mine. I will never leave her alone in a room with my kid. Ever. But even with me being there, it worries me. That my kid will look up to their big sister and try to copy her. She is not an example to be followed, and I don’t know what to do.

  • Part 4 of dumb stepdaughter vent:
    I will never be rude to her, ever. I love kids and I am really patient with them, everybody tells me I am the most patient person around kids they have ever seen, but this girl really tests me. I will never cross a line, but we th a child of mine in the picture now or in the near future, it worries me.

    Her mum is envious of everybody and tries to pretend to be something she isn’t and to live above her means just to show off on social media as a good parent. She really isn’t.

    Her son has told her a few tones how I am prettier than her and how much he loves me and wishes he lived with me and his dad. I love that kid and wish I could save him from living with that woman.

    I am just afraid that if I have a daughter things will get worse than if it is a boy. This girl will already lose her place as her daddy’s baby when my child is born, if it is a girl it will be even worse as there are always comparisons made between sisters more than to a brother-sister.

  • Part 5 of dumb stepdaughter vent:

    I will be able to provide a better life financially and emotionally to my kid. I will prioritize my kid. I am just afraid about how this violent little girl might have a negative impact on my child. The boys are fine and great big brothers and we talked to them before starting to try to conceive and they are fine with the idea of a new baby.

    It is just her that worries me.

    She has hurt me in the past during tantrums. I will not let her harm my baby.

    Any advice on what to do? Her dad and basically everybody else try to pretend the problem isn’t really there and that she will catch up eventually. I don’t think she will thoug.

    I have babysat plenty of little cousins and been around friends’ kids throughout my life, I never saw a child as problematic or dumb as her.

    She also has very manly frautures and looks like a boy wearing a wig.

    I will love a kid of mine no matter what, boy or girl, beautiful or ugly. It will be my child, after all.

    But it worries me that if I do have a pretty baby (I am a model and so was my mum, so not unlikely), and that baby is a girl, that jealousy over that might set it eventually. She is already a very jealous child as it is, getting everything she possibly can by either force or crying until she gets on people’s nerves and they just give up so she will shut up.

    She is potty trained, so not as bad as it could be, but I just dread the negative influence and drama she will bring into my life. I didn’t know how bad it was when her father and I first got together. If I had know I might never have started the relationship.

  • Part 6 of dumb stepdaughter vent:
    Now I love him and his other two kids and we will get married soon and either have a baby on the way already or will soon. And I don’t wish she was never born, I agreed to be wmyself th a man with 3 kids, I chose that. I just wish she wasn’t how she is. I don’t love her like I love the boys. Not because she is a girl or any of that cr*p, but because she is a hard pill to swallow most of the time.

    She can be sweet at times, but in a way a kid half her age would be. She is just so slow and delayed, I fear a kid of mine even 4 or 5 years younger than her, would surpass her capabilities in no time at all.

    I feel guilty for saying all that here, but I have no one to turn to.

    Like I said, I will never be rude to her, and I will keep on trying my best even though it kills me inside seeing no results. But, by God, I needed to vent!!!

    I will never let my child alone with her, as I am afraid she might actually seriously harm my baby. Even when my kid is older. I would have no problem with baby bezing alone with the two other kids, but not with her.

    I just wish she was different and her cow of a mother was different, because she seems to want mother of the freaking year award for doing the bare minimum and doing terribly in certain areas. So entitled, and the girl is going the same way.

  • Part 7 (and last! Haha) of dumb stepdaughter vent:
    Her mother has actually admitted she is jealous of me for having more money than she does, having travelled more and be able to do more things in the future and provide better things for my future child. I could see the resentment on her eyes when she told me her son tells everybody how pretty I am and that I am prettier than her as well. He tells me all the time I am his favourite girl in the world and how much he loves me. He also tells me his mum is nasty and mean.

    Again, sorry for the vent. I would love advice and comments from people that went through similar things in the past, as I have nobody to turn to and would actually be willing to do whatever it takes to make this better for me and my baby in the long run.

    Ps: I tried posting this by itself before I found this confession and figured I should share it here too. Reading the comments made me feel like I am not alone.

  • Last last comment. I just realized there are a lot of typos as I didn’t proof read before submitting the comments, as I was happy to finally be able to get all of that out of my chest. Lol

    Forgive the typos and I hope somebody has the patience to read through it all and reply

  • So what exactly stopped you from posting this as your own confession, rather than comment-jacking someone else's?

    Vent away, but *7* separate textwall comments just comes off looking narcissistic and unintelligent. All the "sorry"s and "haha"s in the world doesn't offset that. Join the adult world!

  • Wooooooooow hahaha

  • I feel similarly about my Autistic stepson I wish he was never born on a daily basis His mother isn’t really in his life is his father his grandmother and I that take care of him together but lately the burden has been on me his father has a drug attic and I don’t know what else to do the little boy needs to be on medication he’s wide open 24 f****** seven hitting me slapping me that one fits in public today we tried to take him to Carowinds and he threw such a fit I don’t understand why my partner thinks he would enjoy stuff like this when really he’s just too retarded to f****** know

  • Also beware that the 'sensory' issues can morph into knicker stealing cross dressing etc. My autistic stepson was caught prancing around my bedroom wearing my lacy basque and high heels. I would laugh but it makes me want to puke. He has stolen so many of my things, makes himself outfits out of plastic bags complete with holes at the backside. He had a whole bag of his trash heap mother's underwear to play with. She doesn't have him over there anymore and expects us to sort out his 'problems' like it can be fixed. He's a f****** perv. Our room is locked all the time now. And as he is only on the light end of the spectrum he can get a job when he finishes school and get the f*** out of our home. Psychiatrist said this perving is common in autism. Great.

  • Holy S*** F***, that's so true.

  • Op, why did you agree to have him living with you and home school him? You say it like you had no choice. It's hard bringing up someone else's child and even harder when that child has autism. I am an sm of an autism so I know. I leave his father to deal with him. It's his son after all. I just try to be polite and neutral with him. It's all I can do. You need to get out of this situation as it is a disaster for all Concerned.

  • I hate your guts and hope you get ran over by a car and be paralyzed for the rest of eternity you f****** devil eat dirt burn in h***.

  • She makes a good point you r*****.

  • U f****** b**** he is your son dum ass and to him u are a b**** f*** u w****

  • Are you really that stupid? I take that as a yes. There are SOME people in this world that put pressure on OTHERS. You are probably one of those people, because you wouldn't get mad. You seem to understand or grasp what SOME people have to go through with around people who don't know how to ACT normal. Everyone in this world is now f***** in the head... so I guess someone with Autism is the least of your problems. But everything you say to people like you just goes straight through your f****** heads, p***** us all off.

  • Not her son. He is her husbands son and he is failing in parenting and leaving her with the problem. A step kid is Not legally her responsibility

  • Ahh another r***** sticking up for fellow r*****. Why the f*** not be honnest seems like she is dealing with an autistic kid who is undiagnosed because dear daddy dobt want to own it. Well like it or not kids f*****.

  • Autism speaks. ^^^^^^^

  • Holy s***. This page has got to be one of the best ones on the whole f****** internet. I had no idea this is such a common thing. I've got 2 stepsons, 12 and 10, and they're the biggest shitpile human beings I've ever encountered. Just tonight, the 12 year old tried to heat up some food in the microwave with his fork still in the plate. Not once or even twice. Three f****** times! I've been with their mom now for 7 years and I'm on the verge of dipping out. Only thing that's stopped me thus far is our 3 year old we've had together. Both step kids diagnosed with ADD and ODD. They won't officially get diagnosed with conduct disorder because these "specialists" are worried it'll stick with them. Idk if you know this, but that's some s*** serial killers end up having.
    The 10 year old spent 6 months in an out of state inpatient psych ward because he had steak knives in his pillow and was planning on stabbing me in my sleep. This was after he told staff at his school that I beat him with a studded belt (which hadn't happened), got CPS and military CID involved, stopped my pending promotion, and sent me into a nervous f****** breakdown. And all that time inpatient didn't do s***.
    The 12 year old is another f****** class act. Goes out of his way to do the exact opposite of what he's told. Doesn't f****** matter what it is. Steals cash from my wife's purse, steals cash from my room. Had to put a lock on my f****** bedroom door cuz all my s*** ends up either broken or missing.
    I'm just sooooooo f****** done with this s***.

  • I want to warn you guys that many women with special needs kids look for a sucker to babby sit. If YOU are home while she is out imo good chance she is a loveless cheater. Confront her about anything.._._.Violent RAGE on her part? Well there is your cluster B confirmation. Dont be the nice beta male putz, get out.

  • Am I allowed to feel this way even when my ss isn't autistic?

  • I feel this way about my step son I hate hi m

  • Sure, why not, so long as he's an a******.

  • All disabled/retarded children should have been aborted (or euthanized after birth). To all you ladies out there putting up with this bullshit on a daily basis, just stop. Get a divorce, get the f*** away from the retards that are ruining your lives, including the ungrateful men who think you're just supposed to deal with their retarded offspring messes. No man is worth having to deal with this type of f***** up nonsense. Idiotic holy rollers and ignornant b****** will preach god and bible and tell you you're evil, but f*** them all. Take care of yourselves first and foremost. I sympathize with all of you in this situation and hope you will make the right decision to run screaming the f*** away and never looking back. Sending rays of hope and light for you all to extricate yourselves from your horrendous situations and to gain a peaceful r***** monster free life! Take charge and get the h*** away!

  • Not just women putting up with this kind of bullshit. As a man i should have sainthood bestowed on me for living with my autistic a****** stepson.

  • We live in Scotland and my fiancés ex and their son stay in Ireland. Literally the only reason I haven't left the relationship because of this child is because we never see him. Fiancé was unemployed for over a year and insisted I keep paying his child support instead of stopping it. All anyone's concerned about is his f****** ex and that little drain and whether they get their money. Never mind that I've run myself into a mentally unstable hole because of the pressure, never mind that some nights were starving because we've got no money to buy food. No, as long as that c*** gets her money it's fine. The kids done nothing wrong really (though he is extremely impolite - never says please or thank you, lies and makes s*** up all the time, extremely demanding- wants s*** all the time and shows it off which I can't stand...tbh he could be the best behaved kid in the world and I'd hate him, I find all kids abhorrent). I just can't handle the rage. If he was living in the same country as us there is no way this relationship would still be going- every time he visits I'm uncomfortable in my own home, I just want to leave and go back to my mum and dads where at least I'm a priority. God. I f****** hate him.

  • Also just to add the disgusting little s*** doesn't flush the toilet in our house. It's fuckig disgusting.

  • My stepson is a worthless little s***. Won't eat real food, every time he comes over it's "pizza" in his stupid baby voice. makes me want to kill myself. He jumps around screaming, and plays on his dad's phone or our tablet, That's it. Try takin him to the park, and he STILL sits on the phone. Anytime you tell him no, he starts hitting and screaming, he's g****** 10 years old. My two year old is smarter than him. He never shuts the f*** up, comes into our room at 4 in the morning to grab my husbands phone and continues to go in and out , and when we go to take him back to where he sleeps, he starts whining/screaming and wakes up my newborn. We have him one day a week, but as soon as he leaves I dread the day he comes back. I think about it all week. Forget taking him to the store, he embarrasses us by throwing tantrums because we won't let him get all the junk food he wants. He screams and attacks whenever we tell him to take a shower, sits on the couch chewing his toe nails, and eating his boogers like the disgusting idiot he is. And, because every time he does something bad, his father coddles him, so he KNOWS he's going to get away with whatever he wants. I try to talk to my husband about him, and he says "he has autism!" We have a newborn together and I'm terrified she will have autism. I think of it daily, and I wouldn't know what to do. I love her so much. I love my husband; but his fat, buck toothed, little b**** of a son is ruining our relationship. I have fantasies about punching him in the face, or pushing him down the stairs. I'd never do it, because I'm not a violent person, but,it feel good to knock those buck teeth back into place. I hate this child. He has a deathly peanut allergy and I pray for the day that he eats peanuts so I'll never have to see his ugly face again. He pretends to be dumber than he is to get whatever he wants. Thanks for listening, and for sharing your stories. It's so relieving knowing I'm not alone in this.

  • Take some comfort in knowing you are not alone (though my SS is several years older than yours; which I might add it doesn't get any better as they get older, as much as you'd think it would). I have many of the same thoughts as you do. It's a terrible situation to be in. I want to leave in the worst way but it's not economically feasible. If I could afford to be; I'd have been gone by now, all because of "him." Spoiled, coddled, demanding, ungrateful, lazy, obese, no potential for a career or caring for himself... yeah, just a fine example of a human being. What the h*** was I thinking for getting into this mess.

  • Thank you

  • Try having a violent r***** AND a borderline sociopath cheating wife.._

  • My husband and I have been fighting for two weeks about this child. Two f****** weeks. And every time all he says is "he's not normal! He's autistic! He can't help it!"
    Are you kidding me?! He knows what he's doing, and you're allowing it! It's to the point that my husband is suggesting we live in separate houses, and when I agree, he changes his mind because he was expecting me to be heart broken and beg him for us to live together. I love this man. I love him so much, but all I can think about is what have I done? Why didn't I run from the get go?
    When my daughter was 15 months old, I went to go attend to her because she was crying, and this piece of s*** r***** was punching her in the head! Wanna know what DH did? He said his son was doing it because she was loud and he can't stand loud noises! How the f*** are you going to stick up for a 10 year old who is physically abusing a baby?! That just shows what this little brat can get away with! I sure would like to punch him in the head, and knock whatever brain he has out of it. My anxiety is through the roof, I can barely sleep, and I wish daily that his son didn't exist. It's honestly so difficult and exhausting. Thanks for listening, it means the world to me.

  • Omg. You have excellent control! I would have beat the little b****** senseless!! Your husband's reaction is sickening! Your baby could have died! That would be the absolute final straw for me. You're lucky your baby is ok. What if he grabs a weapon next time? If you can't leave the man, take your baby and try staying somewhere else while he's there. Something. I wouldn't chance it, hun. I have a stepson I hate. I don't even want to refer to him as that because that little piece of s*** is nothing to me. Idk what he has but he's dumb as h***. He gives evil ass looks, his Mom's a r***** who always sends him to us nasty looking, he barely speaks, he's the ugliest little r*****. My husband doesn't want him. We only have him one night a week. We're hoping he isn't his. I don't want that kid or his fat b**** Mom in our lives. I worry so much that he's going to hurt our son one day. There's more. He's really f***** up in the head. He's a sneaky f***. Always looking to make sure no one's looking at him so he can sneak around and take s*** from my son. Last weekend my husband bought him a bug juice. The kid just sat there and let it drip all over him. I had to go in the store with him being wet and dirty. I was so embarrassed. I don't want people assuming I'm that things mother.

  • Your a saint i would have beat the little abomination. There is a very good reason humans killed off "special" people its human nature to stay away from the weak.

  • Run from violence._._.Antisocial pd will ruin your soul

  • Autism is not an excuse, and if it is autism show me the DNA proof. Far too many of our young ones are being diagnosed, statemented with being on the autistic spectrum, but only a DNA test will really ever prove it.
    And if they were not born autistic (for the last 30 years every baby has a blood test at birth) then the autism is caused by viral mutation. wonder what vaccination did that to the little sods then.
    A.N.D.I. Rhesus monkey
    son of A.N.D.I
    If you watch the video and search for the other 2 you will find the horror of what the vaccination program is really for!

  • That stupid f****** baby voice thing is the WORST! YOU'RE A 9 YEAR OLD BOY NOT A G****** TODDLER AND THAT DOESN'T CHANGE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOUR INFANTILIZING, POS MOTHER CALLS YOU DUMB PET NAMES!!! Ugh. It grates my nerves so much. With the tard in my life, though, it's constant chicken nuggets. Nothing else, because "sensory disorder". No, that's total bullshit. He always gets his way and at this point he's just an obstinate picky eater. And Thomas the f****** Train. YOU'RE 9!!! At least try something age appropriate.

    In my case, at least, his father sees through the BS. He's just not in a position to change anything because his ex is a psycho who, through her laziness and wishes for her "precious baby" to remain a baby forever is ruining any shot this kid may have of developing somewhat more normally. I feel bad for him in many respects. But g****** if he isn't a loud, rude, demanding, obstinate little obese s***. He gets away with A LOT though by playing up the autism and acting stupid when he does know what's going on. His smile when he's being obstinate is some sort of duping delight and a dead give away for the BS games he plays to get his way in matters of food and constant media designed for toddlers.

  • Amen we are living the same life. Mother f****** chicken nugget nightmare. S*** your pants one more time and ill beat you with the f****** tablet. This world is so p**** these gb kids are worshipped for being f*** tarded does anyone think 40 years ago these kids inly ate chicken nuggets with chocolate milk and tablet s**** oh h*** f****** no. It was off the the asylum with that s***. I dont want the kid locked up but how bout a nice ass beating everytime he does his fucksd up s***. I am not encouraging any child to be the "best autistic you can be" h*** no its put up or shut the f*** up. Worst part for me is kids dad thinks its just him being different cause his mama left l**** but the kids 9 yo older brother does the same s*** at his dad s**** pants p****** the bed. I see both of these kids are f***** undiagnosed autistic brats and the mom dont even pay her court order child support on top of no social security. Why the f*** am i here. Oh my dumb ass got knocked up by dear dad and all i can think is dead god please no retarded kid.

  • Oh god, the f****** chicken nuggets. Same thing with my retarded, worthless SS. I just mentioned pizza because the way he says it. It's strictly pizza, McDonalds chicken nuggets and cookies/candy. Nothing else. Oh yeah, and Sprite. Because you know that fat piece of garbage won't eat anything else. I made a delicious steak dinner couple weeks ago, and the little idiot didn't eat ANY OF IT. His father went out and bought him a pizza instead, AND HE ATE THE WHOLE F****** THING. There are times I catch him pretending to be stupid. And he looks me dead in the eye with this angry look as if he wants to kill me. I'm waiting for the day that he hits me, cause I'm going to unleash an ass whooping like he wouldn't believe. When he hits my husband, he does nothing about it. Just asks him to stop. We're in the middle of the store and he is screaming and kicking and throwing punches, and of course DH does nothing. Everyone is looking at us, and this buck toothed, ugly little r***** just keeps going. God. I hate him.

  • I left my ex because I couldn’t handle his 2 ASD children anymore. His ex wife is crazy and uses the children to make him do things for her. He is spineless and does everything she asks. His kids gross me out. They were rude, mean, horrible to my children (hitting, spitting on, screaming) and I found them embarrassing and ugly. Fat and useless and I can’t stand the way that their father cheers for them and we have to applaud if they go to the toilet or eat their whole plate of disgusting junk food. I am still friendly with my ex but he insists on sending pictures of his kids to me all the time. He’s so proud of his son for winning awards at school a lot. It’s a f****** special school! They hand out awards to everyone just for f****** existing! I don’t miss being with him because it’s like a holiday to be away from those retards, their vile white trash mother and the dread I felt when I had to see them on weekends. My kids were treated well until those children showed up to stay. Then suddenly everything was blamed on my kids and the autistics were allowed to get away with everything, even though they were the ones antagonising. I tried really hard for ages. I was never mean to them even though I couldn’t stand them. I like kids and I’ve met spectrum children who are great kids. I don’t understand why nothing is done to address their obesity or behaviour when it’s just going to make everyone’s lives miserable in the long run. I miss my ex but I’m happy I got out when I did.

  • I hear what you're saying. It makes me kind of sad to see pictures of other kids on Facebook or what not, who are playing sports or achieving goals and starting college or good careers and yet here's my SO applauding her AS son online or just in general for just accomplishing the most basic things in life or what he could have or should have been doing at age 8 instead of 18. He's on the low end of the autism spectrum, he's not retarded. Yet SO babies and coddles him as if he is. Living with that kid, who barely does anything for himself out of sheer laziness, just brings me down. Every single day. Not sure how much longer I can take it.

  • Congratulations on getting out! I wish I could... it's a long story but just can't extricate myself from the situation. I am convinced that the happiest day of my life will be the last day that I ever have to see, hear, or smell my AS step son.

  • Not to worry those "Spaz-autistics" will have a s***** adult life. Usually they clash with people later in life and end up being s****** on. They may be monsters now, but just you wait and see. They cross and wrong person and BANG! That's them f***** for life, there are some really nasty people in this world, and they don't take to lightly to the retarded.

  • The gd nuggets. Do you day dream of a chicken nugget choke to death scenario then realise life is not so simple and the dad would be sad.

  • Not really choking on the damn chicken nuggets but I see the appeal of such a fantasy. What ticks me off the most is how no one in this kid's life, barring his father, seems to have any expectations or even hopes or even the desire to see him improve. "Oh well he's just autistic and he can't help it." Bullshit. Yeah, he's autistic. No, that doesn't mean you continuously baby him.

    I do genuinely feel bad for him that life handed him the autism. I do. But F*** that's no reason to sit back and let him be a perpetual toddler. Yes, he has more hurdles to overcome - so push him and encourage him! Don't just accept that there's no hope and let him become a video-game playing basement dweller. F***.

    And he f****** knows more than he lets on. He's fairly smart and he knows how to play the tard thing up to get away with whatever. I'm not abusive towards him nor do I condon such behavior but f*** if I don't want to slap his eye-rolling, game-playing little a****** buckteeth face sometimes.

    Why are all autists cursed with the most repulsive teeth?

    This little r***** would rather go hungry than eat toast or a grilled cheese sandwich. It drives me insane. Pure obstinance. "My mommy lets me eat the kinds of foods I want." Well, your mother is a lazy w**** (not just an insult - she literally is in the "adult industry") who relishes in her identity as Super Autism Mommy™ and never wants you to grow up. Forget ever having any kind of normal life. As long as Mommy calls you [insert very specific and revolting pet name here], everything's fine, right? Let's see how long that lasts. Maybe it'll be fine post-puberty provided they at least grace him with chemical castration so he can forever be his mommy's precious baby boy.

    G****** I cannot wait until the kid is in his 20's and no one praises her any longer. They'll all just be mildly repulsed and maybe pity her for having a huge (both obese and tall) r***** hanging on her back.

  • Exact same situation with my wife and her AS son (except she's not in the adult film industry!). It's sickening.

  • It really helps to know that there are other people in this world who are going through the same s*** I am. That there are people who feel the same way about the little r***** in their life as I feel about the one in mine. I have tried to talk to people I am very close to about my thoughts. They don't understand.

  • And they never will, unless some day they have to live under these circumstances. I feel like an awful person for feeling the way I do about my stepson, and I know everyone else would think I am too. But I defy anyone to live with the a-hole I do and not end up hating on him in a month, flat.

  • I'm writing this to tell everyone that has a mentally disabled child in their life to get that child into therapy and/or special school before it they get completely out of control. I know a small child with mental retardation.

  • There's just too many of them. If I ever have a mentally disabled child in my life I'm shipping them off to a home. Buh-bye burden!!!!

  • I would have had my mentally retarded sister, shipped off to a home if I could have but she eventually died from a heart attack - several years later. Buh-bye sista, hardly miss ya!

  • I wish it was that easy. I wish he could be sent to a place for special people. I wish he could be sent away forever. I hate him. I hate him so much. Even hearing his name fills me with rage.

  • We all know the feeling... It's not out of the ordinary. Nobody likes a misbehaved child... Nobody except for the parent. If we are not the actual parent, then we see children for what they are and not through a veil of pride.

  • Makes perfect sense. I feel bad for him sometimes. I mean, I'm with the kid's father so I suppose I'm some kind of step-parent. I'm not obligated to care about him, I just have to tolerate him. The thing is, his own mother doesn't really care about him. If no one else in life ever really cares about you, your Mom is supposed to. His parents never really loved each other. So he's kinda just tolerated by everyone. I know his Dad cares. But he wasn't really a planned child. He already has so many problems. I just worry about the future. He seems to have the same problems his Mother has. She's a complete c***. I imagine without proper discipline, he'll be just like her.

  • I found this on Google, I've read some of the comments and it made me feel better about my situation. My wife has a 7 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. They're both kinda f***** up. The 12 year old is all social anxiety and takes pills. I think her laziness outweighs her anxiety and she leverages it to her advantage to get out of chores and social responsibilities by crying. She's not the issue though and I think the pills are actually helping her not to be such a sour c*** sometimes. The 7 year old boy has been a giant wet sloppy v***** since the day I've met him, though. I don't hate him, per se. I just can't stand being around him when he acts like such a p****. Startles ridiculously easily, cries about s*** no human should be bothered by, openly confesses about how f***** scared everything makes him. I wouldn't be surprised if he had a bunch of posts on this website about the s*** he's afraid of. He gets great grades but he's a f****** moron. You tell him to perform a simple task and he just looks at you with this f****** autistic look on his face. Unlike most of you guys, he and I are capable of getting along great sometimes. He calls Dad, he's handsome as f***, (even though he's often mistaken for a girl as we both have long hair), and he can be pretty polite. I just have never had any tolerance for kids and all of a sudden, God was like "here you go. Boot camp training." So here we are 3 years later, 90% of the fights with my wife are about this disobedient 50 lb f****** pile of ADHD and I don't really see the light at the end of the tunnel. BUT, as the good Lord has stated, it's not about what we see, it's about standing on his promises.

  • I'm so glad I'm not the only person with a stupid retarded slow ass stepchild !
    But outsiders wouldn't understand because they don't have to deal with this BS every f***** day !!!!

  • For those of you who come across this page to vent, gain insight, support each other, because the love of your life came with some unfairly annoying baggage, I offer you these words as solace... God has promised you a prosperous marriage. He keeps his promises and not even an annoying little s*** attached at the umbilical cord can prevent God from keeping his word. Hold onto the promise of a good marriage and don't focus on what your eyes see, focus on his promises. Kids eventually move out and move on... It's our jobs as parents to prepare them for life, within the confines of their learning capacity, of course. NOW. Something practical for you.
    It's OKAY to dislike your stepkid(s). There are no laws stating that you have to love or even like them, but try your damnedest to make sure they don't know that they're disliked or even hated. This is the hardest part of my advice but the most important because a person of any age can NOT mature or develop AT ALL in a constant state of defense. If they know they're hated, they will seek comfort and the bio parent or grandparent will baby them, worsening the situation. INSTEAD, lead by example. Teach them something that interests you, make yourself a role model they want to emulate in some fashion. Show them how to build something with Legos, make cinnamon toast, or how to check the oil in your car, ANYTHING. Learning is exciting outside of the context of school. It's a start. If they were more like you and less like them, they'd be less irritating, right? Plus, the spouse will appreciate the effort to no end, whether successful or not. (It may take a few tries to get right).

  • RFLMFAO tried it been there got the t-shirt and video evidence. he is a lazy fat lump that every time you try your wrong in both his and my partner's eyes. Tag teamed over and over again I just can't win even when I've proved the pair of them wrong, mistaken and factually incorrect. I try not to talk to them anymore it avoids the conflict. time is short I feel.

  • I came into a relationship with a 20 year old step son, at that time, had shaken baby syndrome as an infant, bipolar, anxiety and PTSD, but was living on his own,since then he was diagnosed with schizophrenia, won't stay at any place for more than a month, lies and steals and wants nothing more than to live with his dad. I can't do it. When he did stay with us, I found a steak knife under his bed and he was telling his sister he was going to break me and his dad up and hated me. I tried nothing but to support him and get him on the right track and it p***** him off that I expected responsibility and ownership and to get his life on track . A few years later the saga continues, but now we are dealing with legal and drug issues and he's back here again and we are trying to find assisted living because he can't function as an adult at 25.. He won't take his meds and he rolls everyone who helps him, screws them over, talks s*** about them and leaves in the middle of the night. This s*** should have been taken care of long before I came into the picture. He's always had behavior issues but no one ever to deal with him., but me because I am sick of it. His entire family treated him like a victim, rather than empowering him and now he is not functioning well at all as an adult and is creating more problems and is a constant burden. Hate to say it, but I didn't do it and I don't know how to help, but damn sure can't deal with it.

  • Seldom see an old schizophrenic, usually it is the drugs that do them in. those that do live a fairly normal life usually have a person they trust who monitor and care for them, understand their cycles and their meds.

  • He's your step-son not your real son, so cut him off. He's a grown ass man, time so say bye to his ass. If you want to be walked all over, feel free because he ain't gonna change. If I were you, I would leave the area and not tell the creep where I was going.

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    Next bit of practical advice is make sure you get some alone time without them from time to time. Find a babysitter the spouse can trust (obviously we'll take the first person willing if it were up to us) because if they aren't comfortable with the one watching over their little shitheads then they won't be able to enjoy themselves alone with you and may even cut things short...

    Hang in there. I will pray for those in this post. Ignore the childworshipping dumbasses who ask you to kill yourself simply for venting frustration. They don't know what it's like, so ignore it. You aren't evil based on your thoughts, only your actions. Even Jesus Christ was tempted. The urge to smack your stepkid as hard as you can out of frustration is natural in my opinion and only harmful when acted on. But if you're invested to the point of that degree of frustration, you might as well go the extra mile and try to have a positive effect on things. God gave you your spouse and the means to make it work. You owe it to yourself to see it through. There you have it from the perspective of a devout Christian stepdad realist... Certainly not a highly populated segment of the world, but I hope these words help you whether you're a believer or not. God bless and farewell

  • Hilarious, I had a similar situation with a total r*****, I had to tell the tard to f*** off.

  • Omfg. I am SO glad there are people just like me out here. I've googled "I hate my bf's son" and things like that for awhile and have found nothing so relatable until now. I'm in the same situation.

    Let me start off by saying I didn't always hate his son nor have I ever hated someone who was or apparently was mentally disabled before now. I hate this little b****** with every ounce of my being. He's now 2. My bf and the retards mother were married for a short time before we got together. She is a fat, worthless piece of s***. She's dumb as h***, too. My bf is my best friend. We only ever argue about his 2 year old. When we got together, the kid was 1. I got pregnant shortly after. I have a baby boy with this man. He's one reason why I don't leave. I don't want that f****** r***** around my son. My bf's son doesn't talk, he babbles. Whenever he's at my house, he follows my bf everywhere. I hate everything about him. He's the ugliest little fat b****** I've ever seen. My bf has called him a mistake. Idk why he insists on ever picking him up. HE STANDS AND STARES. He. Just. Stares. I tell him to stop. He doesn't. He's like a stupid fat dog. He always stares at people with food. Even if he just f****** ate. He has a retarded half brother. They get in fights. I worry about him hurting my son. My bf makes excuses for him. I feel so much hatred for that little b****** that I shake with rage. He doesn't respond to s***. Just stands and stares. He's even uglier when he smiles. My life would be so much better if he was gone. He's just a waste of space. He shouldn't even f****** exist. Seriously, though, I buy food mainly for me and my children. I share with my bf. He needs to buy food for his own kid. I'm not providing food and drinks to a fat little b****** I don't want. He eats more than I do. I love my bf dearly. I just wish he'd pay child support and just drop the kid from his life.

  • I hate to break it to you ass-hat your bf ain't dropping the little t***.

  • My bf has literally said that if the kid's mother signed her rights away, he would put him up for adoption. I honestly don't know why she doesn't. She seems to hate him even more than I do.

  • I want to add that my bf has said that he'd give the kid up for adoption if the Mom would sign her rights away. The mother doesn't want him but insists on keeping her rights. I honestly wish they'd disappear. I hate him so much that I've actually thought about killing him. I want him to cease his existence altogether. I would never do that. I just hate him that much.

  • Killing him? Err... that's going a little too far, you'll end up spending your life behind bars and for what a r*****? I've dealt with a mentally ill r***** most recently so I should know it doesn't end good... LEAVE if you are unhappy.

  • As I stated earlier, I would never do that. I just hate him a lot. What was your situation like?

  • Worst of all the idiot won't take her meds... She's ten times worse without them - like bat-s*** insane.

  • Long story short - crazy b**** who is off her head. Hard to handle, can hear noises, any noise makes her angry, smashes things goes on rampage in home. Had to get her support to shut her the h*** up. I want to get away from this moron, but can't I'm stuck with them for who knows how long? But I am planning to leave, haha! Then they can do all that bull-s*** to their hearts desire. You see nobody helps or takes away these "ADULT" mentally ill people. They allow them to be "free". I want the freak, locked up. I've secretly complained behind their back, but it does nothing... probably because they do all the mental retardation from inside their home...

  • That's something I worry about. What if he is never on his own? What if my bf insists on having him live with us? What if he has crazy fits when he's older? I can't stand the f***** now. I can't even begin to imagine what he's like when he's older. I imagine he'll be a manipulative piece of s*** like his r***** mother.

  • I feel exacly the same

  • I totally understand you!!!!
    No one says the truth and lie "these children are gods gifts ect" bananas no!!
    They strain life, waste food, money spent, cannot do a basic thing like grocery shop
    So much effort put into them and they talk back, lie treat you like S*** and are very dirty I lost count on how many times I sweeped the floor and clean!!! And if you are a angry/emotional and tired from this and try to vent to your spouse that their child is too much "your a horrible person" I feel like a maid then a wife or so called "parent" bananas no they see you as a maid that parent! Even the other normal child who's 7!
    This is what I feel on daily basis when it's too much; 1. Hurt 2. Sad 3. Angry 4 misunderstood 5. Shamed cause they assume I don't know how to parent when I do 6 judged from my husband cause he thinks I'm too stern when I only ask for respect and understanding when I want to explode and cry. . . Every step parent needs an award for how much s*** we take!!!
    :'( and you stay because you love your spouse

  • Your an ass! You definitely do not understand individuals with special needs. This child and his mother would be better off without you.

  • Your an ass, regards shou l be placed on an island and let them try to survive! They should be used as prey for hunting.

  • Retards should be aborted at birth

  • Haha, "aborted at birth"? You mean before birth dear....speaking of retards lol

  • Haha! Shut the f*** up you fucktard. P.S there is supposed to be a space between the ".....".

  • I Hate my stepson more than anyone in this whole world he is an ungrateful little s*** and mentally retarded he cries all day and never listens and has buck teeth and looks and sounds like a little girl and I'm seriously considering divorce because I can't handle it at all anymore , I am becoming a person I'm not because of it and it drives me nuts, about to just give up and go back to my old life I was much happier and I would never allow my husband to stop seeing his son either it's just not my problem also he knows how I feel and continues to leave him with me in my house and the ungrateful brat is wasting my food time and energy , time to file for divorce i need my peace

  • Good for you! I hope your divorce is finalized soon! I'd rather live with a serial killer than with a retarded kid.

  • I understand completely. I am becoming a totally different person as well, because of a spoiled, coddled, and generally disgusting AS stepchild. I have none of the joy I used to have in life. Just fleeting moments of contentment until I have to see or hear (or even smell) that lazy POS. I can barely stand to be in the same house as him, let alone the same room. These feelings go against everything I ever was or felt or believed about myself; yet I cannot stop experiencing them. I try, but nothing ever helps, except being out of his sight and presence. I fantasize about leaving and living by myself and my own kids all the time. I really do think that time will come. And my wife will have only herself and her son to blame. No adult child (who is supposedly "high-functioning") should be babied as he is; it's sickening. The prospect of living with this situation for the rest of my life causes me daily anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts. Just wish he'd go live on his own or with his father but I know that will never happen. Pray for me.

  • I understand how you feel as I am in a similar position however I don't hate him but I am finding it hard to cope and would prefer not having him around. I have a 2yr old and a newborn and sometimes in the middle of the night he p*** himself and always has a wet diaper. He is ruining my marriage as I get little time with my husband because he wants him to be in the bed with him, I love my husband very much but I don't think I can stay in this marriage because I refuse to spend my years changing diapers​ of a soon to be teenager. It's not fair to me or him and I have no help from his family members and it's unfair for me to take on full responsibility of this special needs child I can't love him like a mother and it's not fair for him to get a cold shoulder but I just can't stand him anymore

  • I think your just a b****

  • U are saying what many other people feel, but would not dare say. The people who responded harshly are either lying to themselves or never cared for anyone retarded, now called intelligently disabled. I feel they are a strain on families and society. They serve no real purpose and are not productive citizens, just burdens. My boyfriends daughter is a retarded adult. She cannot read, write, tie shoes, style her own hair nor cook. She works at a meaningless job, which gives a stipend. The stipend is very small. People like her is costing tax payers a lot of money for funded programs. I feel it''s a waste. I don't know what the answer is, but I wish they all would go away.

  • Honestly shoot your self in the f****** face you dumb . b**** I would s*** my pants too if I knew you hated it . your completely the reason what's wrong with world. People like you ruin people's lives. Take your missable daughter to foster care and kill your self

  • You sound like you're a special person who has stumbled across us non-tards revealing how we really feel about your s***** antics. Just f*** off and deal with the fact that most people aren't interested in putting up with your bullshit.

  • Someones mad their child s**** their pants

  • You are messed up, you don't deserve kids, help yourself before you try and go near him, get serious brain help did it not occur to you that he might have a learning disability, fml some people don't deserve kids and you are the prime example of why smh

  • I'm in the same boat. I got with a younger woman and wasnt thinking at all. I was just out of a bad situation and was a single father, wish i' d kept it that way. But we now have a baby. I feel like a fool shes only here to lay o. Her f***** but whats worse is her kids are both brain dead. I can't believe it. They are 10 and almost 13.
    The boy can now read 3 letter words because ive made him i f****** hate his guts and hers for allowing this s***. The girl 10 is brain f****** dead cant remember her abc's cant spell cat it do is just they have never been taught. I had a nice home its gone to h*** because no one gives a f*** anymore i got her a nice ride it smells like a f****** trash can it is a trash can. Food wrappers junk dirty mess. I am so p***** at her i hate her f***** how could she not care her kids cant even read. Tbey cant even talk normal. They know zero plurals its always i do not i should not go outside. Or about the baby her crying she want bottle. I hate tbem the boy was trying to f*** his sister on the trampoline and tbe mother does nothing he tben ask to suck a neighbors d*** and tbe mother does nothing. I just know he will molest my daughter if i divorce her and im not there. But like above poster yes ive tried to help the stupid f*** learn how to to read and he ingores me. I wish he would move in with his gma. His dads a convicted repeat child molester. Hes gonna be the same. I really worry about him i wish hed go play on the train tracks but he wont leave his video games and f****** cartoons to go play tbe girl is just brain dead 10 years old nearly 11 and cant read s*** not a f****** tbing. Why did her mother let it get this far wtf. Will my daughter be retarded like them. I hope not. My life is f****** over have to baby sit slobs and retards forever so he doesn't molest my baby.

  • Hahahahahahahhahaha! That's funny... STEP UP YOU STUPID MAN! Your the dad right? TAKE YOUR DAUGHTER AND LEAVE!!! GET CUSTODY!!!! DUUUUUUUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhh!

  • Kill your self

  • You kill yourself b****!

  • Never tell someone to kill themself you a******. we have it easy here compared to kids starving in ethiopia. nobody has to kill themselves.

  • You are a piece of s***. Never tell someone to kill his or herself! Kids are not perfect angels. A lot of them are a******* and special needs children are no exception. This is called "confessionpost." She was venting. F*** you and your self-righteous bullshit, you evil son-of-b****!

  • About time someone says the truth. F*** this s***. Every day I look at my autistic 4 year old stepson I want to strangle his manipulative a****** neck. He knows damn well he's an a****** and because he's autistic it makes it OK? Don't judge if you don't have one, you have zero room. When I get woken at 1, 2, 3, 4 in the morning because he's losing his s*** when his socks aren't sitting right on his feet, or he lost his stuffed animal that's sittning on his god damned pillow, I hold back punching his petty ass face. It's like living with a dog you hate that never does what you say, s**** on the floor and doesn't acknowledge you unless it wants something or benefits him. I hope he never reproduces and makes anyone suffer ever again.

  • MMR autism, just because they are autistic doesn't make them thick, in fact, autistic children can be extremely intelligent bit like a human computer, but without a keyboard and monitor screen, there is no way to communicate with the computer, if you catch my drift.

  • Lol... If ya'll can't handle these kids have them sent to a children's home somewhere where they'll get the help they need, the help you can't give.

  • Yesssss!!!!! Thank you!!!!!

  • Have you thought about leavinh

  • My soon to be stepson is autistic and he p***** and s**** himself all the time! He's almost 9! It's f****** disgusting! He grates on all of our nerves even his father though he won't admit it. He's a pain in the f****** ass, and the truth is life would be easier without him! That being said, I do my best to work with him, bond with him which is near if impossible, and he is never treated badly. But it perfectly okay to vent true feelings and frustrations when dealing with these kind of kids!

  • I afraid of getting married to my man....because of his son. I'm so angry I ever started dating this guy. I'm uncomfortable in my own house when he has him only 2 days a month. I see my future completely destroyed. And I wanted to have my last chance at having a kid,this stupid kid ruins that for me.

  • I would do cartwheels of joy if I only had to see my AS step-son two days a month. I would probably actually care about him and his well-being, if I rarely had to see or deal with him. As it is, I avoid him like the plague, which isn't easy when you live day-to-day in the same house.

  • Don't get married, it will only get worse with a f****** r***** in the house.

  • Well that's what happens...

  • My stepson is Aspergers and its so hard

  • Man, I feel the same way. I am with a woman (not married) that has a child with autisim and when I met him he was 10 and he was not bad at all, But now he is 13 and he is WAY worse now. He says the stupidest things, he makes me ashamed to take him out in public because of his odd behavior, he has a habit of touching his self no matter where we are and that is my biggest concern because I have a 6 year old daughter and if he try anything on her he will have a rude awakening. Me and the woman I am with have a child together (boy) but I also have children that live with me. I am thinking about taking my kids and getting my own place because I feel like things with the autistic child will only get worse and honestly I don't like the kid, he is more then I want to deal with, if he was my own child I would have to learn to deal with him.... but he is not my child and not any of my children have these issues. I am near bailing point.

  • Dude, for the love of God, do NOT get married. I wish I hadn't. Just like you said, my autistic SS was "not so bad" at the beginning. Now I cannot stand to be in the same house, let alone same room, as him. It's like they know to hold back the 'tard, until you're so involved with the parent that it's hard to get out. I wouldn't care how poor I'd be and what kind of s***** place I'd have to live in; I'd take divorce over living with the spoiled, lazy, inconsiderate, ungrateful, overweight, unsanitary, mouth-breathing weirdo that I have to.

  • I wonder why most of them seem to be overweight. At least the ones I've met/seen. In my situation, the boy is really young. He's gotten so much worse in a year. Almost like his retardation is progressing. Like he's getting more and more retarded as he ages. I just hope special school helps him. If it doesn't, he'll be so much worse.

  • It's because their mothers (most of the time, the ones with primary custody) put them on psychoactive drugs that cause weight gain and also stuff them full of crap processed foods because they can't be bothered to put in the difficult work to get them to progress as they're content to have giant retarded children and pretend they're sweet little angels. They're not. Everyone else sees them as overgrown retards with coddling, delusional, lazy mothers.

  • I know right, retards... can't live without 'em can't grind 'em into chalk dust.

  • My SS was a normal weight- his mom is a fat pig. He's lazy- his IEP says in PE he choses the elliptical...but never works hard enough to get his heart-rate going. He's now 21 and won't be going back go school...his mom does not have him in any activities and I've noticed this summer he has been putting on weight especially around the stomach. My husband's family has a history of heart issues and I'm holding out for the s***-head to have a heart attack and the sooner the better.

  • Somehow I don't think a heart attack will happen, unless you hook the fucktard on energy drinks.

  • I understand. Same here. But I took on two of them. Cartoon watching morons. I hate their guts. Ive tried not to but I do and her for letting it go this far.

  • Dude your a f****** piece of s***....Spend some time with your stepson and figure out whats really going on....Maybe he takes after his stepdad u r*****....You married her kids too you know have some f****** responsibility fuckwad

  • Walk don't run to the nearest exit with your precious daughter and keep on going AWAY from the mix made in H***!!!

  • He may be autistic

  • You need help yourself!!!

  • This is completely normal to feel for a child that's not your own. Evolution dictates it. Other animals would not even allow another child that's not their own around them - they literally eat them. Not saying you should, of course! I'm just saying that these instincts are more primal than one might think. Being a step-parent is extremely difficulty, and I've done it for 10 years. The reality is, when faced with a choice between your own child and one that is not your own, you will ALWAYS favour your own. They look like you, and act like you. It's called being HUMAN. The level of hostility indicated that your situation is unsustainable, and I've been there as well. I know this is 3.4 years ago, so I may be talking to someone not listening, but here is my point anyways. It's ok to feel this way, but it's also an indicator you need to GET OUT. This can only lead to something bad happening, so please to get out, and either leave this woman or have the kid stay elsewhere. Sorry to break it to you, but no easy solution here.

  • What worries me more is the way you talk about a child like that, when there is clearly something really wrong with him. You shouldn't have gotten involved with the family in the first place if you couldn't handle things. And with a foul mouth like that, I fear for your 3 year old!

  • F*** you! What do you know, you judgmental piece of s***!

  • You're an a****** too!

  • I understand him. I fear for my baby yall will really hate me after reading my responce. I cant understand how its ok to not give a f*** if your kids can read and write. How about him humping his sister how is this ok? I hate the little dumb f*****. Tbe girl i just feel sorry for she is a pretty kid with a good personality but she is dumb as a rock. Im just at the end of my rope. I didnt know tbey were like that. Ive spent two years trying to teach them. Im tired of it. They dont want to learn. Back to back autistic children is not common i ask my doctor he said drugs

  • Keep your uppity opinion to yourself until you have lived a day in this poor step-parent's life. I am in a similar situation. Albeit not quite as severe. I totally agree with how you feel OP. I frequently daydream about curb stomping my Autistic stepdaughter American History X style

  • Yes! F*** all these judgmental people! My stepson is autistic and he's a j******! I'd love to punt his ass into the woods or some s***! Stupid ass little m***********!

  • I shouldn't laugh, but I am at this part: He is also ugly as f***. He has buck teeth that are brighter than the sun and I want to punch them out of his scrawny f****** face every time he stares at me when I ask a simple question.

  • Public School, that'll sort him out... well the other kids will make his buck teeth that shine brighter than the sun a living nightmare...

  • This kid really must be retarded. You need to put him back in public school and get him in a special ed program, stat!

  • I don't have any children

  • Omg. Have you been stalking me and actually wrote this about my life? And I really f****** hate my step tards gramma. My step tard is also very small for his age so she carries him around and just treats him like an infant in general. Every summer when he goes with his dad who just dumps him off on gramma she puts him back in diapers and un-potty trains him. She also dresses him, holds his fork to feed him, and spoils him beyond belief. After every summer when he gets home he has lost so much muscle that he can barely walk on his own. And when I don't baby him like she does he goes to school and tells them that I hit and choke him. I f****** hate him and can't wait until he is old enough to enter a f****** group home.

  • Lol... that was the solution to begin with dumb ass.

  • Steptard!!!! Love it! Gonna use that one!

  • I completely understand your post. I'm there with my AS stepson. Those who don't live this situation, just can't possibly understand it. I appreciate your post... I'm looking on the web now after giving myself permission to feel the way I do, and looking to see if I was the only one with those feelings (glad to see I am not).

    The boy in question has completely destroyed my career, finances (we lost our house), my relationship with the mother, and frankly... my sanity. There's not a minute I don't think about divorcing his mother, but don't for the sake of our other child.

    I might add, he has also utterly destroyed his mum in the process. She used to be a goddess, now she is a bitter, depressed and broken person. Every few hours, the little b****** does something that drives her nuts, and she gets angry, then turns that anger on the rest of the family and herself because she feels bad taking it out on the him.

    For those who can't understand how this feels, just imagine a child who takes everything from everyone, from his mum, sister, me, and the school and his biological father and his new family (oh they suffer just as much as we do btw, although not financially), without giving anything back, without a SINGLE SINCERE WORD OF THANKS ever.

    I sometimes look at the boy and wonder... how can anyone be 10yo and not have ever given a hug or kind word to anyone else FOR THAT PERSON not themselves in their whole life?

    An child like that... is not a person... it is a huge sucking void in people's lives.

  • I dont give a s*** who hates me for saying this, but trying to get pregnant and I swear to God I would either abort it or give it up entirely rather than deal with Autism, Down's, or a all out ducking r*****. I have been reading experiences like these just to reinforce that harder in my head if I am ever presented with any of that. Thank you step parents for being honest. I would probably smother one. I cannot and will not deal with it. Sorry, not sorry.

  • I'd take a Down Syndrome child over Asperger's any day. At least they're happy, loving, and seem generally motivated to DO SOMETHING WITH THEIR LIVES. Aspies are lazy POS's that have zero motivation except for eating and playing video games. Seriously, my step-"son" (I hate even using the word; the kid is NOT mine, has no blood of mine whatsoever, so even thinking in terms of "son" makes me cringe) does NOTHING but eat and sit on XBox and his computer. Over 300 pounds, since probably around age 12-13 (18 now). Granted a lot of that has to do with the biological parents and their lack of trying to make some kind of productive citizen out of this sponge of a human being. Aspies may be special needs, but from my experience (and I know more than one) they aren't THAT special; needs wise. They CAN grow and learn and adapt; they just choose NOT to. I think they're just smart enough to know they can manipulate parents and family and the system to enable their own damn selfish laziness. But more to your point; I don't agree with aborting an abnormal child and certainly not infanticide. But I can understand the thinking behind the aborting notion. I pray for patience in dealing with this SS, and my situation isn't as bad as some of the other people's who are posting here, but damn it is difficult. I also contemplate divorce and/or leaving to get my own place just because of this lazy ungrateful unsanitary weird-ass man-child I have to live with for possibly the rest of my life.

  • You think that is worse... you should see them as ADULTS - ten times f****** worse!!!

  • I have a stepson w autism, wow i hate that little boy, im terrified for his teenage years. They are no good to society just a waste of money time and peace

  • All people with mental issues and disabilities don't make it in the world they just FART merrily along, p****** all over everyone in their path.

  • I have to reply to my own comment; not all Aspies are lazy POS's. They vary, of course, as do any of us, in their interests and motivations. But obesity does seem to be a real problem (with the several that I know). One of them wants to do college, another was a coworker of mine who was very high-functioning and intelligent; he just made it a point to remind us DAILY that he's autistic (after the third or fourth time, I did want to just yell, "OKAY, WE GET IT, NOW JUST STOP SAYING IT."). Another has had a part-time job but doesn't have any real kind of ambition for anything (except eating). I know too that far too many non-autistic people are the same way. But again, if they want treated with respect and acceptance, they need to be respectful and act in acceptable ways themselves.

  • Me again.... just to point out that my SS is seriously considering just going on SSI/Disability because working will cause him too much anxiety. So in other words he wants society to pay him to sit on his fat ass all day every day doing nothing but eating and playing video games. And mom seems OK with the idea. If that actually happens I think I'm gone, because then he will never live on his own or know how to fend for himself and we will be STUCK caring for the 300 pound leech.

  • Smothering a kid because it isn't perfect? Really? Don't bother getting pregnant, get professional help instead before you hurt someone.

    That you "cannot and will not" accept your potential child's difficulties in life speaks volumes about your immaturity.

  • You are too funny. I agree with her, actually. I aborted my Downs baby and my husband and I agree that our lives are SO much happier and more fulfilled. Just because someone else's Truth does not coincide with your opinion of what you think it should be doesn't mean a thing. It is their life, not yours.

  • It's called autism. Look it up. The word is self explanatory. Auto = self. It's about ones self. Always. They can't relate. Not a choice.

  • My son is on the autistic spectrum and he is very sincere and grateful. He's an honor roll student and enjoys reading about ancient history. But he's distractable and clumsy and a slow talker.

    My partner's daughter, however, is incredibly spoiled. She has a "meltdown" whenever someone mentions that she isn't perfect ("Please don't walk around the house naked") "de-escalates" the meltdown by telling her over and over what a beautiful princess she is (she looks like a gorilla) and she holds us hostage for her twice-daily xanax by following us around the house bothering us with circular conversation.

    Autism expresses itself differently in different people.

  • AutismzzzzzZ.

  • Doesn't mean they should be allowed to be a*******!

  • Exactly. I'm sick to death of the "well he has aspergers" free-pass that is given to these a*****e kids. Be a real parent and teach these kids, drill it into their heads, that there are certain societal rules and norms that they HAVE to follow if they ever wish to be "accepted" and be "treated like everyone else." I love those stupid posts on facebook... "special needs kids just want to be treated like everyone else." Sure, that's all well and good, but what I just said applies there. Funny though, I don't see my SS as an asperger kid, I just see him as an a*****e. So I do treat him no different than I would any other a*****e. It's his mom and dad and family that treat him "special" but they want the whole world to treat him as if he's not... until you criticize him, then they throw out the Autism Card. It's infuriating.

  • Hugs. It sounds like you are suffering from caregiver burnout. If possible leave him with someone for a day or two, take a breath, a hot shower, doll up, and relax. After that you may need to seek counseling so you can share with your husband how you feel in a constructive manner. Look into some respite care for him. One step at a time it will get better!

  • You sound like a b****

  • Isn't there programs for this like a group home he can go to ..
    No one has the right to judge you , I am sorry you are going threw this ..

  • Are you sane. Humans judge everything and everyone. I feel terrible for the boy for the crazy sick b****'s daughter. Anybody that has ever had to be around this ugly vile disgusting person. I personally would rather die than be assick as this b****. No offense to normal b****** intended. Damn could you imagine the shame the husband must have realing he married the female version of Pol-Pot?

  • That is the funniest freakin' post ever! Definitely get out while you can. Sounds like grammy dearest can pick up where you left off. They'll all be one happy family. I'm a mom of an autistic stepson, and there are so many times I wish I could say what you just said. Hats off for being brave enough to speak your mind. Don't listen to what these other judgemental people say, no one understands til they've been thru it. And an autistic son is very different than an autistic stepson, I don't care what people say. Never hold your concerns inside, you'll end up hurting someone or yourself. Thanks for the laugh. :)

  • Get out and get hit by a f****** bus and have to sit in your s***** pants for months because noone can stand to be sround your f***** delf. F*** everyone that defends this sick b****. Please get out indeed. The young man deserves much better. Man the husband must be the dumb one in the family.

  • Yes! She's the sick person when you're saying she should go get hit by a bus. Eat a d***, you piece of s***!

  • Diaf a******

  • Omg lmao x1000!!!!!!!!!! This was INCREDIBLY HILARIOUS!!!!!!! I have a friend who is dealing with the s*** and I am well-entertained with her stories!!!! I don't have kids so I could never understand!!! I would probably throw my retarted kid away if I was his or her parent!!!!! Thank you for the laugh!!!! Bravo!!!!

  • You sound evil

  • OP here. The replies I got were pretty harsh - but totally deserved. I actually do not hate my step son, though. I know that nothing is his fault. His mother and I have never gotten along, so I feel like that carried over to him, which is totally unfair. He does have learning issues and they aren't his fault at all either - I get that. There was some bitterness about having to quit my job and homeschool him (my husband suggested it while in the same room as his entire family, so I couldn't exactly say no), but most of the time these days, I actually enjoy it. I would also like to add that I have never caused him harm and never, ever would. I have probably only even raised my voice with him five or six times in the six years I've been in his life. A few people wished death upon me for the terrible things I said - feeling this way sometimes made me wish death upon myself. When I posted this, I let all of my feelings build up and somehow came across this stupid site and decided to let it all out. Despite, at times, feeling like I hate/dislike my stepson, I have always TRIED to love him. I don't know that I am there yet, but I hope to be one day. I try my best to give him a good life and when I have these sort of feelings toward him, I feel SO guilty. It's not fair AND I KNOW IT. I know that I have to overcome all of these feelings for him AND for my own sanity.

    I am sorry about all of the ugly things I said in a fit of rage a year ago. I don't remember what all happened that day that I felt the need to vent every little thing that has ever bothered me about him, but it clearly was not a good decision on my part. Please know that I understand how s***** it was and that I am constantly trying to be a better person, even if I come across as the world's worst human being ever above.

  • Don't ever apologize for speaking the truth. Honestly, if I were you, I'd have fing killed the retarded kid as well as my husband by now. Don't try to hard to like or love anything that is normally supposed to cause revulsion. It's a worthless effort. Thank you for your honesty and I hope life has gotten better for you. You have one life to live- don't live it on behalf of some moron.

  • I wouldn't have killed any of them, I'd have killed myself so I wouldn't have to deal with them.

  • I understood you were posting during a breaking point. It's okay. I have the same thoughts run through my head.

  • Dont apologize to these f**** for feeling the way you do!

  • It's okay...I could tell how frustrated you were when you wrote this. Sometimes we all think horrid things and need to write about it "from the id." Having mean, ugly thoughts doesn't make you a bad person. If it did, there would be no good people. I've written a few mean-spirited, nasty things on websites like these. I meant them at the time, but as soon as I hit "post" and let it out there, I felt better. You probably did, too. It's better that you said those things here rather than to your stepson.

    And for what it's worth, it was s***** of your husband to railroad you like that in front of his family. I don't blame you for feeling bitter about having to quit your job and take care of a special needs kid that isn't yours.

  • Dont apologize to these a******* in how you feel.

  • I think it is healthy get it out where ppl don't know you. Vent and move forward. You sound like an amazing person to me!

  • I just laughed so hard. Please don't murder him his stupid ass wouldn't be worth the effort or the jail time. I bet you'd wanna hear the stupid sounds he mare as he gasped for air though. Divorce daddy dearest and say enjoy lil jimmy r*****. You sound competent enough to do better, have your own children and be hapoy.

  • Totally agree. Not worth jail time.

  • You should burn for this..

  • F*** you

  • Not to worry: she WILL burn. And soon.

  • And you know this how? Some entity died and made you God and now you can say whose gunna burn?

  • F---- You, I hope she leaves and finds happiness elsewhere....she WILL burn? Is that a threat?

  • Wow... i cant believe a mother could have such awful feelings toward a child. To me it sounds like you're the fuckwad. Since you cant seem to understand this yourself let me spell it out for you- he obviously has a learning disability. or hes just been through so much s*** in his short life that he doesnt know whats up from down. Your 3 year old has more emotional capabilities than you do! Have you ever took one second to put yourself in his shoes? The boy needs help. Not your hateful attitude and constant critism. Idk why you would even agree to homeschooling in the first place, for many reasons. As a mother of a12 year old step daughter with ADHD, 3 year old and one year old of my own im apalled at your story. Have a heart lady.

  • Some people should learn punctuation, spelling, amd grammar before attemptig to dress someone else down. Were YOU the failed abortion, by chance? How many lil re-res have you birthed? A special-ed classroom full? F*** off.

  • No, even with autism.. the kid can just be an a******. I've seen it before the kids that are f****** geniuses when it comes to playing games and manipulating people at whatever cost to get their f%cking way....YET it takes them 40 minutes to wipe the dust off a small coffee table because the b****** is too busy looking past you with his bulging eyes and buck teeth to see what's on the t.v. behind you. Even the people who are caregivers at heart and sacrifice thier own wants and needs for the sake of others get tired of getting s*** on by a 9 year old who would normally get reprimanded for their deplorable behavior but because they are on the autism spectrum they end up getting a free pass. I have an autistism spectrum step son who is 9 and still s***'s all over out guest bathroom carpet then without a care in the world plops his ass on the couch twirling like a windmill and I'm expected to wipe adult sized turds off the carpet, smeared s*** off the toilet handle and light switch BUT 5 minutes later this little a hole is telling me my brain says youre a bad mom and I hate you while....he is correcting me constantly about avengers etc and schooling me about when Hitler ruled and what Harriet tubman did. F*** ALL OF YOU who say this woman is evil for venting. Until you've been there yourselves you van ALL go f*** yourselves.

  • Adult sized turds, yuck kill me. I agree having one of those people with aspergers or ass-pergers as I like to call them don't understand what you have to deal with. There should be a special place for them where they can't contact anyone like a mental hospital. People are letting them run wild like dogs. Half of the time they do what they want, and are free to roam the internet. It's messed up, you wouldn't believe how many of them use social media and vent about stupid stuff that nobody cares about. Then they use the sob story; "I have Autism." When they get called out for being weirdos and expect you to bow before them, H*** NO!

  • I totally agree, they are hard to handle. You think the kids are bad, retarded adults are ten times worse. There was this UGLY adult tard who goes by the name Fredericko1996 aka Tyler Frederick a total r*****, off his f****** rocker. He looks f****** scary with his blank stares, someone who is in their 20's who likes Mr Men and Thomas the Tank Engine, f****** h*** KILL ME! People like that shouldn't be allowed online. Note to self don't let anyone who's f***** in the head use the internet, they chat s***. Those kids grow up and turn into MONSTERS, f****** h***.

  • Really? Gross!!! What a total re-tard. I looked him up online, scared the s h i t out of me. His name is Rapper1996. Blame his mother! She's like all the mothers on this forum topic. Once the re-tarded kid grows up they no longer have the burden. So that re-tard grows up and can continue on to total re-tardation and that also means scrolling the web and sharing their crazy mind with the world.

  • My names Jas - I covered it here:

    Yeah Tyler Fredericko is retarded and gross and a thief. He's also mentally challenged. He needs to get the F off the net, he's dumber than a pile of p***, oh and he's a stalker too, f****** creep.

  • His name is Tyler David Lawrence Frederick and he is mentally retarded.

  • Tyler David Lawrence Frederick is a known pedophile.

  • LOL!

  • Ew!

  • Some1 hit him wit the ugly stick.

  • Id kill it. Sorry. Yuck.

  • Lmfaoooooooo
    Sorry for laughing but your post was funny.
    I feel your pain though.
    Keep your chin up.

  • YOUR the most horrible person I have ever met or read about, this poor child has either ADD or Autism, and you being impatient and angry towards him will only make him worse, take him to a doctor and change or get the f*** out of his life. HE doesn't know what he is doing because you get angry and shout at him. Leave the dad and die in a hole, when he gets over his disabilities and has a decent job and supports his family, YOU will hopefully be dead in a ditch somewhere.

  • She had repeatedly said she isn't angry or bad to the child and that's she was just venting for the sake of and and even came back on and apologized for what she said y did you read the post if you were going to b so close minded and not even understand it's a vent and obviously you have negative thought so you should understand you just told he got die in a ditch

  • You don't understand, YOU'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND STFU!

  • Okay then YOU adopt them.

  • F*** you.

  • Hey...go f*** are dillusional and don't have any experience to know what this woman is going through. OMG, BFD!...she needs to vent ! I have an 8 yr old ASSS who still s#its in his pants at school because he was too busy during school lunch listening to his friends talk....and I had to go to his school and clean adult sized turds from his underwear while he it reprimanding me about how I spelled Grey wrong. have NO f****** idea how much we try to make our step children's lives enjoyable...usually whIle the deadbeat REALLY mom calls about once a month just to establish dominance over YOU instead of trying to connect with the poor step mom who is treated like Benson and show real consideration to her autistic childs needs. Yeah sooo ...F*** YOU....yeah I said it .....walk a mile in someone else's shoes...maybe live life a little...THEN get back to me.

  • Not until you deal with retarded do you understand. AdHD is s*** compared to retarded.

  • I met someone with ADHD and he seemed just like them, dumb as f***.

  • YOU are a piece of s*** that poor boy has some sort of learning disability and he is copying others since what he does is wrong. And all you can do is embarrass him you should take him to a doctor and be his supporter not his f****** enemy rot in h*** shitbag karma is a b****

  • You adopt him then, o saintly one.

  • F*** you too.

  • You don't know what you're taliking about. Do you want us to drop our autistic stepchildren to you and see how you do having to take care of them day aftet day with no emotional reciprocation or connection? Mind you this would be while you wipe thier assessment even though they know how to put together complex Lego sets in less than half an hour and you'd have to DAILY brush thier teeth for them, wipe their s*** off all the bathroom floors and constantly remind them of simple thing like...Your pants are on backwards again and oh let me tie tour f****** shoe because you are too busy watching ninja turtles on t.v. to concentrate for even a second

  • As said before: I'd kill it. But not before being p***** I wasted 9 mos and ruined my body to birth it.

  • I get asked a lot why I'm never having children. This is why. Actually this is only one reason why. Never getting with anyone that has kids as well, male or female. Not effing happening. Sorry for your lot. I would not judge you if you left the kid's dad, he clearly doesn't understand you.

  • Well said, have a great life

  • Let him sit in his own s***! Sleep next to his s***** pants and making him hand wash his own pants maybe if he has to clean up his own mess he wont wanna make one!

  • I actually toilet trained my autistic step son when he was 10 by making HIM clean up his own crappy messes. It only took him one week to be fully toilet trained when he realized that I was not cleaning up his crap off of his body or anywhere else. Btw, I have my own biological child who is autistic and he was 18 at the time. I toilet trained him the same exact way. No one is going to tell me that I showed favoritism. For some reason it is harder with a stepchild because habits were already instilled in that child before you were in the picture. It is a struggled for any stepparent and some resentment is normal.

  • Great advice, that is what I have to resort to because I feel it's a sign of laziness why he refuse to go to the toilet but knows how to go lock up in his room and s*** and then come tell you to clean him up

  • Agree. Let him sit in his own s*** for a few days. It'll stop pdq.

  • Might have Autism, or ADD, and is developmentally delayed.

    But I think the one who wrote this post also has some patience issues.

    Please don't beat your son. This can really lead to child support services into taking action upon you,

    oh and P.S.

    Lol umad

  • Child support services? Are you f****** retarded? Also, she never said that she hits him.

  • You are a horrible person. If he has special need then that is why he asks that way. It is not his fault at all. You knew what you were getting into when you married your husband. Understanding that you are frustrated when he behaves like this but to compare him to your children states that you don't like him because he has a spot in your husband heart that you can't reach. Your antics will not go unnoticed, you will get caught. You are no type of good mother.

  • L****.... no maybe she loves the d*** that made the little monster. Where is the rule that says anyone has to actually like their step kids???

  • F*** you, ya judgemental twittwat!

  • Life is hard, then you die. you can make a change or make excuses...the boy is mentally retarted, that is clear, you are not responsible for his problem... but your mental health is on trial.You did not create the world and you can not fix it. I say give him to the proffesionals and live your short life. life comes with challenges but we can avoid some of them. Do the right thing for you without killing anyone. you are a strong and good woman. YOUR FREEDOM IS IN YOUR HANDS.

  • Hi 30 something,

    It's not funny but I had to laugh, you just inherited the product of a moron breeding with another moron. I saw s*** like this in high school, you run out and f*** the biggest moron that you can find (BECAUSE HE'S BUFF WITH A BIG WEE WEE)and then b**** later that your kids are all f***** up. in this case I know it's not your fault, but might I suggest not having kids with your idiot hubby.

  • You might want to suggest he gets an evaluation for attention deficit disorder. There are cases where people who have attention deficit disorder accidentally mess their pants because their attention is focused elsewhere. Does he have a high tolerance to pain? Does he seem like he is usually spaced out? Please get him checked.

  • Obviously the boy has mental or emotional issues. The r***** seems to be the step mother and the parents.
    He does not even know he soiled his own pants would lead any adult to realize this child is mentally handicapped and needs to be assessed not beaten.

    Home schooling from this brain dead step mother will not help much. She seems to be as challenged as the boy.

  • Assessments won't help. Beatings will.

  • yeah, beat him. beat him til he s****.

  • I know this is a terrible thing to say, but your comment made me split my sides laughing

  • What that little punk-ass b**** needs is a series of good beatings. And so does his Nana, especially her. As for you, you just need to divorce that s***-sack husband of yours, because this situation IS NOT GOING TO GET BETTER. Get out now.

  • i agree. grandma needs her ass beat. BEAT!!!!

  • yeah and then beat grandma til she s****, too.

  • This home-teacher needs a lot of schooling.I thank the lord she is not my wife and I pray that I never date or marry a hateful person like her.I have two kids with a woman who hates my other adult kids and it hurts.I will pledge $100 towards the husband's legal fees during their divorce,good riddance.As the world turns,the princes daughter could sustain an injury and end up worse than the step son(knock on wood).I am sure the poster will expect the partner to love and care for the daughter unquestionably.

  • Why the f*** did you marry his father if you hate the boy so much? Single parents, whether they live with their kids or not, ARE A PACKAGE DEAL.

    Sounds like YOU'RE the f****** r*****, lady.

  • I understand frustration but it sounds like you truly hate this child in which case he could sense that regardless of how 'retarded' you say he is. Honestly your post kind of disgusted me, not because of him, but because of how hateful you seem towards a child who clearly has learning disabilities and needs help. Have you tried making a doctors appointment for him? I certainly hope you don't act this way towards him and this is strictly a venting post because otherwise it sounds like no one truly cares enough to get him help for his own well being. Might want to try doing so for your own sanity as well

  • Totally understand the frustration. And it doesn't help that your husband is not supportive in the way you need him. But it sounds like there are other things at play here. That 10 year old is dealing with far more issues, than a normal kid his age. For one..where is his biological mother-and was this kid witness to her behavior? Thinking something is going on if she's not in the picture. Are you mean to him or is this vent strictly for this post? He's either acting out because he feels neglected from both birth parents and it doesn't sound like you two have not bonded. But some of the things you mentioned like the p***, slow learning aspects..point to something else then just acting out? Homeschool may be great alternative for a normal functioning 10 year old. But he sounds like he could be autistic - has been tested?? This child could turn around if his behavior, mental and emotional needs were being attended and met. Maybe a group home or day care center for kids with learning disabilities.. Not saying that it will be super easy, but it may give you a new perspective so that everyone can live in harmony.

  • He might be sick or he only wants attention that all you should go to the doctor with him that's all or just give him away to adoption if you don't want him

  • He sounds like a really stupid r*****, when your husband isn't home you should hit him and force him to learn. Or give him up for adoption when your husband leaves home. Or make it look like he ran away. When you actually kill him. And you should make him eat his p*** and spoil your daughter and not let her play with him. We don't want a smart child to catch his retardism.

  • There is no way this post can be for real, because no one can be this stupid. A "r*****" is nothing more than a real human being, with limited abilities(sometimes, like my own daughter, very severely limited abilities which requires her to be cared for at all times), which can be both mental and physical. They accomplish as much as they possibly can, even though to those who are ignorant these accomplishments may seem very small and insignificant. The real R***** are those who have so much ability that these people lack, and yet choose to do so little. The big difference: one cannot help their situation as far as retardation and the other makes a conscious choice to be retarded.

  • I never understood the point of parents keeping retarded children. I have a step kid that is autistic and he is nothing but an inconvenience to society. He can't ever provide value to anyone or anything. He is gonna grow up to probably clean bathrooms at Wal-Mart and that's IF someone can make him get his LAZY ASS off the couch. He is almost a teenager and still s**** and p***** himself. I can't stand when he looks at me or tries to mumble his stupid gibberish at me, I just ignore him. Survival of the fittest actually has value, it keeps retarded stupid genes out of the gene pool. All he eats is processed food, got forbid you try to get him to eat real food. I love his dad to death and wished he never knocked that dumb b**** years ago. What a nightmare. Anyone that isn't or hasn't been in this situation doesn't know jack s*** about what it's really like!!!!!!

  • What an aweful post! I am a teacher and I have a son with autism. It is all about the parenting. You can teach children with special needs how to behave appropriately! As a mother you want your child to be born "normal". It is people like you who ruin society acceptance and inclusion!

  • I have to agree with you about why anyone would choose to have retarded kids. I have 2 retarded stepsons (NOT autistic although their parents insist they are). Their IQs are in the low 70s, so... Anyway, after they had the first one she got pregnant again because she found out she could collect social security $$$. B****. Anyway, now these kids are nothing but a burden to society and to me every time they come over. I have anxiety and I'm germophobic so I get way freaked out when they are around. They are never clean and always have runny noses and they are mouth breathers and slobber a lot. Gross. Husband freaks out on me for hiding out in my room but he won't let me spend the weekend at my parents' house to avoid them. I only married him because I was in a chronic state of depression and, well, I was...stupid. And now I'm too ill and broke to get out of the relationship. Anyway, one of the kids s**** his pants all the time and it is disgusting! The boys are 15 & 16 and their disability often kills by age 18-21. I know I'm awful for hoping that happens soon, but if you've never been in this situation, I don't think you can judge. Besides, who can really feel good about the taxpayers footing the bill for a r***** just because their mom wanted the money?!? She's neglectful and abusive to the kids but if my husband were to get custody, I'd be history, so he won't do it. Nothing but a waste of space is what they are. Very sad. I'm glad the op posted this. Now I know I'm not alone.

  • Sounds exactly like my situation.

  • Well said, bravo. Yeah when they become adults they are the WORST. If they are in a special home it is fine... but if they are FREE to roam it's an all out f****** war, and if you bump into one of them be prepared for just about anything. I know someone with mental health issues and she's f****** off her nut, w/e you say means s*** to those retardos.

  • Who the kid and who the grow up f****** Dunn ass ps my son is that way my wife and I both love him and want him get off you ass and put. Yourself in their place who.s the dum one

  • Nobody cares you retarded piece of s***. Love him, hope he s**** on your head.

  • Wow

  • Duck you

  • I can't believe these absolutely SICK, INHUMANE comments, made by these dysfunctional sub-humans who call themselves "parents"!

    You're a disgrace to society at large! While you label the children as lazy;dumb,mal-ajusted, stupid, messed in the head etc. Your written statements DISPLAY all of these things about your character. If you can't stand the heat in the kitchen ... do yourself and the children a favor. Get the H*** Out! Get up off of your lazy ass; get a job to take care of yourself, and stop for the love of God - Stop tormenting the child who appears to have an apparent disability! You f...... BEAST!!!

  • Until you are in our position you have no idea what life is like for us. NONE of us here ever wanted to feel the way we do, and I'm certain we all fight it. But sometimes the circumstances are far too overwhelming and the only way to keep our sanity is to vent... and this is just one of the places we can do so. You think we don't already feel like pieces of s*** because we harbor these ugly feelings inside? It's a daily STRUGGLE, which causes anxiety, remorse, depression, self-loathing... it even interferes with my relationship with God. I work at it; I try to fix it... but it's so DAMN HARD, living with a person you just cannot stand to be near. How would you like to be in this situation? Until you've stood in our shoes and experienced what we have; take your judgmental attitude elsewhere.

  • Well said. I have horrible thoughts about my stepson. I'm smart enough to recognize what I really hate is autism. My stepson is simply the metaphor for the condition. But, I swear to God, it is so much harder being the stepparent. My poor husband's heart is broken every weekend when all his son wants to do is interact with a screen. He can't communicate anything meaningful, only what he wants. His mother pawns him off every chance she gets because she can't be bothered to correct his behavior. All she cares about is the money and the "sympathy" she gets. My child's needs are always second to her half brother's. I swear the day he turns 18, I'm done. We give up EVERY weekend for him. Her dad misses classes, weddings she's been in, etc. All because of him. He's missing her life for him. I resent that and she will, too. Her dad can't see it and her half brother will NEVER think of his sister before himself. Try that, being with someone who is only capable of thinking about themselves. I effing hate autism! And I do frequently wish bad things and then feel bad. It effing sucks!

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