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Retarded Step Son
I hate my step son with every fiber of my being. We used to only have him every other weekend and I would just hide in my room those weekends. Now we have him 100% of the time and he is driving me INSANE. I think about divorce at least once/week just because of this ** **. He did horribly in public school, so his dad decided I should homeschool him. He is ten years old, but my three year old is smarter than him. More than once, my three year old has answered a question that the little fuckwad didn't know the answer to. He can't do simple mathematics, can hardly read (and chooses to read my daughter's board books when he's forced to read), still can't spell three letter words, etc etc etc. I will present information to him in a million ways and try to make it as fun and as exciting for him as possible and he won't grasp a ** lick of it.
He still ** AND ** himself. No joke, one day I kept smelling something foul and couldn't figure out where it was coming from. I thought maybe the cats and taken a dump, so I cleaned their box.... NOPE. I smelled it all through breakfast and while I did my morning chores. I took a shower and had to pass his room and realized that I smelled the stench again. STILL didn't occur to me that the idiot had ** himself, so I went downstairs. About thirty minutes later, he was on the couch (watching ** Thomas the Train, because he is a COMPLETE AND UTTER **) and I FINALLY realized that the smell was coming from him. He NEVER EVER responds when you talk to him, so I just asked if he knew he smelled. NO RESPONSE. Then it hit me - HE ** HIS ** PANTS. I say "Did you ** your pants?" and he just stares at me. Eventually he says "I guess I'll go take a bath." UH DUHHHHH!!! Did you really ** eat breakfast, play with toys, and watch tv ALL WHILE SITTING IN YOUR OWN **? Yes, he did. And Daddy Dearest doesn't ** care. UGH.
He ** his pants CONSTANTLY. I find pissy underwear hidden all the time. I even found a stash of my daughter's pull ups that he'd ** in and hidden under his desk. STILL, Daddy Dearest doesn't give a **.
He is also ugly as **. He has buck teeth that are brighter than the sun and I want to punch them out of his scrawny ** face every time he stares at me when I ask a simple question.
My daughter adores him and tries to play with him, but gets so frustrated because he won't ever respond to anything she says. I eventually have to yell "RESPOND WHEN SHE TALKS TO YOU, PLEASE!" and he'll eventually say something totally ** stupid.
He is a complete follower with no imagination or personality of his own. When he is around his significantly younger cousins, he copies everything they say and do and laughs when he has no ** idea what is going on.
He has like three chores that he has to do every day (make his bed, empty the trash from the bathrooms, and put his laundry away). YET every single day, if you don't break it down ** Barney style for him, he "forgets" how to do them. Seriously. The other day I told him to take care of the trash and he came down with his arms full of used toilet paper and pads and ** because he "forgot" that he was just supposed to take the bags out and replace them. WTF? THAT IS A SPECIAL KIND OF RETARDED!!! Literally EVERY SINGLE DAY, I have to tell him how to do his chores again.
His NANA, who lives right across the street, babies him like ** crazy. She still picks him up and carries him on her hip through stores (he is small for his age) and rocks him. HOLY **, I cannot stand it. She thinks that he is right on track academically (nevermind that I had to purchase kindergarten curriculum instead of grade 5 after realizing that he didn't even know all of his letters) and that it is other kids who are "too advanced". She tells my husband that it is completely normal for him to pee and ** himself and that it will just go away. SOOOO DH doesn't do ** and just lets him run around completely uneducated and having more accidents than my potty trained three year old. Oh! And one time, my daughter had colored stuffed blocks with her and ** said "This one is blue!" and Nana actually said "Good job!" and made a giant ** stink about the idiot knowing what blue looks like.
I am embarrassed to take him in public because people have literally asked if something was wrong with him. So I just stay locked up in my house with the ** ** all day long.
It's because of pieces of ** like you that people with developmental disabilities are so reviled and mistreated. They deserve the same basic level of human respect as anyone else.
The poor kid can't help being disabled. If you don't like your situation just ** leave. Don't victimise a disabled CHILD because you can't just be a ** grown up and accept he has additional needs. Nobody said looking after a disabled child is a bed of roses, but your language and attitude towards this child is disgusting and hateful. Hopefully your vile attitude doesn't rub off on your daughter.
What and evil bunch of ** to say about an innocent child. He obviously has a disability and you're tearing down everything about him, using disgusting, hate-crime-level language to describe him. You are his trusted caregiver, his safe space and that is what you think of him?! If you think these things about him I dread to think how you speak to and treat the poor boy. I hope your husband finds out and kicks your sorry ** to the curb. I hope the boys mother finds out and gives you what for. I hope your nurses say the same things about you one day in the nurses home. Hating you for being confused and incontinent. You abhorrent excuse for a human.
You don't know what it's like, living with children like this. We give them the basic human respec,t but it's never returned, by them. Ever. Just give give give, me me me. 24-7-365. Until you've been in our shoes you have no concept of how miserable this life can be and have no legs to stand on as far as criticism goes.
I have 2 kids with additional needs actually. One "severe", so I know first hand what it's like. If anyone ever spoke about/to or treated either of my children that way they wouldn't know what hit them.
I completely understand where ur coming from. I'm in same positions
Well, I must be the absolute worst. I have 2 biological children on the autism spectrum and it has it’s challenges. I also have a stepson on the spectrum that I absolutely cannot get along with to save my life. He’s 14 and I had to toilet train him when he was 10 because I was tired of wiping the ** of someone who could tell me they ** their pants. He cannot read at all, he chews with his mouth open and he gives me the creeps because he always wants to touch me. If I address my concerns with my husband, my husband yells at me. My husband has custody of his son, but I get the displeasure of trying to raise this child that disrespects me and my property. I have plenty of experience with autism, it’s not the autism that bothers me. It’s the fact that this particular child can get by with everything because of his diagnosis, but mine because they had me should know better. What the actual ** is that? So, I can relate to not liking a child and I can relate to it making a marriage a living **.
All of you should sit in your garage and turn the car on....
Why are you here then, reading all of this? Sounds to me that eliminating your genes from the pool would be a benefit to all mankind.
You mean lock all the retarded kids in the garage and turn the car on. The fact that you think people are suppose to walk around.with fake smiles and force themselves to pretend to like someone or something they dont is absurd. Love is earned. Like respect. You can not force it on someone and if something angers and annoys a human enough it is impossible to like what it is that's annoying you. Feels are not controllable moron!!! If you dont love someone you dont love them! You are not required to either. It also doesn't in any way mean these people cant love or be jn a relation ship with the kids parents that they dislike. They fell in love with the parent. Not the child. The child is a seperate being responsible for their own actions and words. You're a dumb ** and should go huff paint until you pass out
Pretending to like a kid or anyone isn't healthy or any different than expressing your hatred for them. You keep hiding yours and we will continue telling you about ours and feeling better dumb **. Maybe you should go play tag with cars on the highway
You clearly haven't been in this horrible position. It sounds bad and none of us want to feel this way but kids that CHOOSE to act retarded because the parents baby the ** out of them makes u feel hatred you never would have expected
Stfu ** shouldve aborted your smelly kid instead of dumping it on stepmom and daddy you useless ugly mutt
I Hate no good Satanic **.
I am sooo with you. We have my stepson every weekend and he is 9. He still sh*** himself because he can't be bothered to pull himself away from his videos or iPad. He can't answer a question, he just repeats what you say. I hate every weekend. My daughter, who is four, is so much smarter and I interesting. I feel bad that I don't love him, but honestly, his only conversations consist of reenacting videos, even ones where rooms at the Holiday Inn are being showcased. It's hard to love someone with whom you can't even talk or have a conversation.
Sounds like you are an **. Jesus Christ, it's pretty obvious that this kid has developmental problems that he can't help and he requires extra care and a structured household. And here you are comparing normal kids to him acting like he's lazy and wants to ** himself. Seriously, lady you need to grow up and maybe your husband would be better off not dealing with an insensitive moron like you.
No. Feelings are not controllable and the feelings for some smart ** dumb kid have nothing to do with the feelings for their mother or father. These kids are seperate beings responsible for their own actions and words in life. People are allowed to hate or dislike other people. This idea that we all have to love everyone is complete horse ** and unrealistic.
Sounds like you're just a ** sympathizer. The kid is a total loser and she has evey right to express her anger and hatred for such a dumb **. Pretending to like the ** ** is worse.
Maybe his mom should teach him manners I bet you're a leftist
If even half of this is true, he has major developmental problems, and/or emotional/psychological issues, and needs professional diagnosis and treatment.
Just a ** thought. Instead of being a ** about him online, see if he can be diagnosed with a mental ilness, and get him therapy. You are neglectful, and if i knew where ypu lived, i would call cps. Little **, you cant brimg yourself to take any responsibility. Not everyone is lucky like us. To not have these problems. Be grateful, little **
You are a ** yourself and should be euthanized
No. Just no. It's the dads responsibility to do that not hers. If he really needs help it's his responsibility and should have done it already so he isnt leaving his retarded son to be dealt with people that dont love them and wont because that how the body responds to things that affect it negatively. If you hear an annoying sound repeatedly you hate it right? Well an annoying person is no different. If a punk kid annoys you daily it will be impossible for you to like them. That's just how it is.
IITS NOT HER KID
Not her kid ,not her responsibility
You mom's think u can ** out kids only for others to fix their problems after you couldn't even be a proper parent you should have aborted that kid
I’m sooo happy I found this place with you people. Knowing people feel the same way as I do really makes me feel better. Anyway my sd has Down syndrome and I’m not sure how close that is to Autism but I hate her. I don’t love and never have, but the only reason I’m still here is cause my partner and I had our own child who I love more than anything. I would love to get out but I’m afraid she may hurt my child especially since she hit or pushes him when he cries.
My sd hates loud noises but she’s the loud noise in our house 24/7! It’s ok when she’s loud af! But anything else that is half as loud as she is upset her! I got in an arugument with my partner over her cause she especially everything to be her way and just makes excuses for her all the time.
I dread the times she comes home from school and here for the weekends she’s gone to her fathers. It’s just constant noise when she’s home and (not like normal kids noise), just constant screaming jibberish and repeating the same word over and over. There even times she ** herself and takes her clothes off and just plays with her **!
Anyway I’m hanging around cause my child, but I think when my child start school then I’ll just have to pack it in and leave. My life’s too important to put up with this kid and dirty dippers for rest of my life.
? how old is she and a spanking may help..
We know, pedo... yada yada "reddened bare bottom" etc. stupid perv
You probably are a pedo. Sick **.
Don't wait do it now. Who the ** needs a no good ** like u for a step mum anyway
You should have been aborted you dumb ** shut up
Hahaha not liking someone doesnt make them a **. If we are gonna be honest here at least she has the ** to tell the truth and isnt going to pretend to like this kid and put up fake smiles. Why should she have to sacrifice her personal happiness for another person for the rest of her life. It's not good for her health and it's not good for her relationship. The kids is problem. Not her. Not the retards parents. Its the kid. Fix the problem
Did something hurt your poor feelings? Can't handle truth? Boohoo. It's okay to hate people. It's a normal emotion just like your tears
Bet that kid her mom is a junkie who likes sending her kid off to daddy just to mess with his new family I hate incompetent crappy mom's like you
You people are sick and going to **. I can't tolerate my 13yo stepson..but I'm not online calling him a **, and ever other disgusting name your uneducated sorry self continues to call him. Homeschooling? from someone like you?.lol. Youre an immature liberal. You should slit your wrists now and avoid the real problems that children bring when they get older. Hope your three yo daughter doesn't literally become an online ** when she's seventeen for your family and friends to see. Yeeeeeah, you see....THATS a problem. ** in his unxies is an easy fix and actually not specific to autism - happens often with young kids in grade school because they have an issue with public toilets. Have him clean his own undies. It will cease, but you're probably too liberal and lazy to make that happen. All parents with a sole 3 yo, think they're the best and know everything. Sounds like your children are Children of Children.
Couldmt have said it better myself
I copied this from a reply I posted way down near the bottom of this page: Until you are in our position you have no idea what life is like for us. NONE of us here ever wanted to feel the way we do, and I'm certain we all fight it. But sometimes the circumstances are far too overwhelming and the only way to keep our sanity is to vent... and this is just one of the places we can do so. You think we don't already feel like pieces of s*** because we harbor these ugly feelings inside? It's a daily STRUGGLE, which causes anxiety, remorse, depression, self-loathing... it even interferes with my relationship with God. I work at it; I try to fix it... but it's so ** HARD, living with a person you just cannot stand to be near. How would you like to be in this situation? Until you've stood in our shoes and experienced what we have; take your judgmental attitude elsewhere.
I can totally relate
Exactly. Kids although young are their own being and responsible for their own actions and words. If they act like stupid ** idiots then they 100 percent deserve to be treated as so.
Sorry, all I'm reading here is some mentally scarred fool who keeps using the word "liberal" like it applies to this topic. Have you recently sustained a head injury?
No, you dumbfuck, ** in pants at age ten is not at all normal or ok. The kid is a ** like you
Agreed
So you just hide your hatred and feelings instead. That's not healthy. You do not have to love someone or like them. That's not how life works. Calling a ** a ** isn't mean either. It's a factual statement.
On my very best days, I can barely tolerate my autistic stepson, who is actually low on the spectrum. And those days are very few and far between. On my worst days which are most of the time I'm cussing him out under my breath and wishing for the day to come that I never have to see or deal with him ever again. The truly scary thing is knowing that that day probably won't ever come. All other days are only slightly better than my worst. My theory is that living with this kid is my punishment for all the things I've screwed up. I miss my life before this kid ever came into it. I'm a bitter shell of who I used to be. I can't even pray because the hatred I hold inside makes me feel unworthy to. Some days I don't even want to go on living. Thanks to him.
Divorce. You arent its mom so walk away. Change your name, find your better life without the burden that you never wanted
Yeah agreed
Part two
This kid is always holding in his **, always crying over absolutely nothing and he attacks our animals. He f****** laughs and gets happy when other people get hurt or cry.... the little f*** literally asks people to hurt more because he enjoys it. Its literally the only thing that can make him f****** laugh except for when he just randomly starts laughing at absolutely f****** nothing.
He refuses to play or do anything and when he does all he will do is line s*** up. Hes about 3 and literally chooses to stand and f****** stare at me or whatever than play with toys.
I wish he was just gone... im terrified to actually marry my fiance because his "son" is such a f****** burden. Really thinking about getting out before im trapped.
Don't do it, do not get married. It only gets worse. Although the child is young enough that you could be the steady hand in raising him, making sure he learns to do for himself and can function as close to a normal person as possible. You just have to ask yourself if that is what you want. To raise an autistic child that isn't your own. No way in ** would I do it. I live with one but he is older, and his mother pretty much did everything for him his entire life (and still does for that matter), so I stay as uninvolved in his life as possible. But it's infuriating seeing her do everything for and wait on his lazy **. And he never shows any appreciation whatsoever. Mostly criticism about how she's doing things wrong. Can't wait for the day he grows up and moves out. If that will ever happen. Eventually, some day, it's going to be either him or me.
Nooo don’t get married!! It will get so much worse. No sense in staying in a life-long situation that will tear you apart. Run!!!!
I'd hit his stupid ** no one toucches my animals