I can't win
So a long time ago ( and by that I mean 5 years ago) I was a member of a n***/white superiority group. My whole family was involved but after I moved out of state I saw the errors of my ways and stopped contacting the group and lost all connection to family. Recently I've started dating a beautiful Asian girl. She knows of my past, but now that we're engaged she refuses to get married without my family present (she says I need to confront them and let them know and all that stuff). However I'm terrified of how they will react and I don't know what to do.