He's friends with his ex-wife. What's up with that?
It bothers me that my S.O. is friends with his ex-wife a lot more than I'd like to admit. They didn't have kids together.
My S.O. and I have been together for almost three years now, and I've never even met the ex, even though she knows about me. He told me that us meeting would be "strange." And that's why this feels so weird to me -- that he feels uncomfortable with the two of us even meeting each other. I can't think of anyone in my life I don't want him to meet.
The two of them aren't sleeping together, I do know this for sure. The dynamic between them is hard to explain. She's from a country where women expect to be treated like children by their mates. So it's almost like he's still taking care of her like he would his kid. The ex-wife has a serious boyfriend that my S.O. has never met. I can't help but to wonder what he thinks about this.
I can't even talk about this with my close friends. I know what they'd have to say about it.