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Bully-victim relationship
I recently started dating a guy from my highschool, thing is he doesn't remember me, more to the point he doesn't remember bullying me. We've been dating for around 4 months now and still has no idea. He's nothing like I remember him and he genuinely has feelings for me, I just don't know how or if I should tell him. What do you guys think
My advice is to see how he treats others, classmates, servers etc. This is telling if he really changed. Also, if he is always putting others down , even to you , it shows a high level of insecurity and psychological issues. Good luck.
Maybe he does and he's embarrassed by his past actions. If it's going to cause problems in your relationship with him, it may be best to clear the air. Bring it up and say..do you remember when we were little you used to bully me. Give him an example. If he says he doesn't remember at some point you have to let it go, or let him go.