I love more than one person.

I love more than one person. Is that even possible? I have a boyfriend of nine months and he is amazing. I would never wanna do anything to hurt him. But there's someone else. Well, two someone else's. One, who I have known for 3 years and has been one of my best friends since then. We have never shared anything intimate, but we have always shared similar feelings toward each other. And the other I haven't talked to in a few months, who was also a good friend of mine. We spent one amazing summer together and then drifted apart. I want to be with my boyfriend but I can't stop fantasizing being with the other two. Is this wrong? Love is confusing.

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  • No, it is certainly not wrong. Enjoy your life. Enjoy your men. Stop beating yourself up and make love instead.

  • Don't listen to the sad little boy who makes himself feel better by calling women whores. It is possible to love more than one person at the same time. You might be poly-amorous!

    Or you might just be confused and not really in love with any of the above. The summer guy - that sounds like nostalgia. The boyfriend - sounds like convenience. The selfish thing would be to stay with him... the right thing to do would be to break it off and figure things out with the friend. I may be wrong, but it sounds like that is what you really want to do.

  • F*** canada.

  • DITTO!!!

  • W****,s***,s****,that is what you are.that is what you will always be.just a user of anybody you can s****,and make them heartbroken.

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