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I am a married man who fell deeply and passionately in love with a co-worker. She was engaged before we started seeing each other. We spent an amazing two months together. She was the love of my life! Two years ago today we had our first official date. To this very day my soul grieves for her, my heart longs for her, and I can't seem to get over her. She went ahead and married the guy she was engaged to 7 months after we stopped seeing each other. I am miserable without her and have been for this entire past two years. I can't stop thinking about her, the connection we had, and the memories of the times we were together. The most amazing times I have ever spent with a woman. I didn't know what my marriage was missing until I met this woman. She ended up choosing her fiancee over me because she said had already made a big commitment to him, even though she saw a perfect life for us she still couldn't see her life without him, and God wasn't telling her to leave him. I am depressed and don't know how I am ever going to get over her!!!!!
Well, I almost fell for a romance scam, until she asked for a 300$ Ebay card...said she was in the USAF, well I WAS AND SHE COULDN'T answer easy questions> boot camp is at Lackland AFB Texas. She said she was in Syria and could only text. She moved us form Girls Ask Guys to Google chat where she told me she loved me in 3 days and wanted to come to my town and make me happy. You can look up military personnel. I called the USAF to find out how. If it is too good to be true it is, I am 62 married but lonely, she claimed to be 33 and sent photos of a beautiful blue eyed blonde with big **.... when I asked simple questions, she said she was being monitored and had to go until she asked for money than time frame and monitoring vanished. don't let loneliness make you stupid .
Well, she's sucking somebody else's ** now.
Thank you for the advice. It has been two years for me right now and I am still really struggling. I can't believe I still feel so strongly about her after all this time. This has never happened to me before and it makes me angry and depressed. I will try to take your advice to look for and not back! Hopefully one day I will be completely at peace with what happened.
The same thing basically happened to me a few years ago. It took a couple of years, but I'm over it. Try not to obsess about it, look forward in life, not backwards, and one day you will wake up completely in peace with the situation. Kind regards.