Stay or go?
About 2 years ago, I was really fat and depressed. My boyfriend was also very depressed. I was trying to fight my way out of it, but his comments and constant low moods kept bringing me down. I ended up breaking up with him.
I slimmed down, I dated other guys, and a year later, was really missing my ex, and he was missing me, so we got back together.
My look has changed, obviously. And my personality has gotten a little stronger. Feeling better about yourself seems to do that for a person.
But now that I'm with my ex again- all he sees are the physical changes and he doesn't like them.
I want to be beautiful to someone who only wants the past: Fatter, timid, and self-conscious.
I brought it up with him and all he talks about is my personality.
I'm not this shallow, but is it wrong to want to be attractive/ beautiful to the one you love?
I'm torn in two about this mess.