i always made fun of my young friends

i always made fun of my young friends who thought they were in love, and centered their lives around their significant other. I'm 18 years old, i'm in a 2 month relationship (officially), we've been together since October...for the first time in my life i think i'm in love. We don't say this to each other yet, but i want to spend the rest of my life with him. Is that stupid? Am i too young? He has so much to offer, i can't imagine my life without him.

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  • g******. it's like i wrote this myself. i feel ya chick. you just stated my exact feelings. i'm happy for you.

  • It is never stupid to feel like that, but be prepared for the worst, always, then you will never be dissappointed.

  • aw your never too young for love

  • I'm 18 years old, i'm in a 2 month relationship (officially), we've been together since October...for the first time in my life i think i'm in love.

    >> That's because you are 18 and in a 2 month relationship. After 2 months, you still haven't fallen out of the initial 'ooooh' stage, and you still don't see all their problems downsides, he's still working to impress you, you are still at the peak of your attraction to him. Give it a year or two and see how things are before you start thinking about marriage. This is coming from a guy who's had his ring given back to him.

    We don't say this to each other yet, but i want to spend the rest of my life with him. Is that stupid?

    >> It isn't stupid to think so, but it sure is stupid to act on it.

    Am i too young?

    >> Yes.

    He has so much to offer, i can't imagine my life without him.

    >> If you think he's got a lot to offer now, just wait until he has a college degree, a steady job, some maturity, and time in the relationship with you to make sure he doesn't change his mind and drop you like a ton of bricks. And yes, it could happen to you.

  • the first "a******" is right. people who marry in their early 20's have a high chance of divorce.

  • It's not stupid however don't follow your heart. You are 18 and your heart is an idiot right now. Follow logic. It's not impossible for you to be in love with this guy nor is it impossible for him to love you but the thing is you have to make sure. How about both of you go to college or learn how to support yourselves and then if after all is said and done and you still love him and he loves you then get married. I did the same thing. I met my wife at 19 fell in love at 19 but instead of rushing to the altar we waited untill we both finished college and got jobs and started making some money, then got married and now we live rather nicely on two professional incomes. And we generally don't have the problems that most young married couples have because we have more than enought money to live nicely. just think before you leap that's all.

  • dont listen to this a****** above me.

    it is not stupid. love is a very powerful feeling and will make you do crazy things. love is an amazing thing, go with what your heart tells you.

  • Yes, it is stupid. Do not marry until you are 25 at least.

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