Am i wrong to let this happen ?

No not at all I let my wife's lover live with us only rule he has is to be naked at all times & ** me & my wife I love his salty nector

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i wish my small ** husband was supportive of me like you are supportive of your wife. he cant choose to have a big ** but could choose to support me this way he just doesnt choose to so i have to go to other men in secret to get what my body needs. i wish he was like you.

I am in exactly the same position this woman is in, and I feel exactly like she does. I love my husband but there's no way he can satisfy me because his ** is just too small, so I cheat with other men. One of them is my husband's best friend and he was best man at our wedding.

Hi an update on this, I've met my fiances lover not long ago he's a bit younger than me and my fiance with a good physique and quite handsome, he shook my hand and thanked me for being ok for him ** her, I told him that she's shown me the photos of her sucking his ** and the one of his ** oozing from her lovely mouth, he told me he was glad that I've seen them and liked them, he says he's so excited that he's going to ** her just before we take our marriage vows and on our wedding night to consumate our marriage, he showed me his ** flacid and hard and I can see why she loves him ** her, I showed him my ** as well flacid and hard ...he never said anything but I can only imagine what he was thinking maybe he felt sorry for me I really don't know, he said he can gaurantee that he will get her pregnant hopefully before or after we are married, I've never saw such a big a smile on my fiances face, she kissed me passionately in front of him the she kissed him passionately as well, she, said to him I was a great guy and he agreed as well, she isn't off birth control yet and we haven't set a date for the wedding yet either, its up to her and him when she does come off birth control but I hope its soon, I really want her pregnant with his baby, they went off hand in hand to his place for a ** fest for the weekend, I'm so happy and they are too.

My girlfriend came back from her weekend with her lover ...she said he ** her all weekend as usual and her ** sore and she's full of his ** and her ** are soaking with their juices so she's just been freshly ** by him before she left ....she wanted me to see it and smell it before she showered ...she told me he's excited about her getting married to me and he's definetely going to ** her silly on our wedding night in our marital bed ...I have to admit that I masturbated in front of her and she let me ** on her **, I reaaly can't wait for this all to happen.

Imy wife's lover can ** qts of ** I never turn down a big hot load of his love nector I prefer second s

You need to have her start teaching you how to ** his ** so you can taste her ** and her ** after he's ** her with it. You are going to LOVE doing that, I promise!!!!

I don't know about that as I consider that to be homosexual or maybe bisexual ...I'm totally heterasexual but I suppose f she really wanted me to do it that I probably would but I think under protest, some women love to ** a mans ** some let them ** in their mouths and some women swallow and some spit it out , I've tasted his ** in her mouth after she's sucked it and his ** tastes salty , but I don't know about me sucking it as I think that would be me submitting totally to him, I suppose I already have.

im just like those Other girls. i need something a lot bigger inside me then im getting from my BOyfriend at home and i need it so bad that it makes me want to cheat like all the time. i wish my boyfriend would do for me what your doing For your girlfriend. you really cant imagine how bad i need it bigger and bigger and bigger.

Same here. I need something huge in me and I am so not getting it at home.

my bf's ** is a joke. so i cheat every time i have a chance. i cant help it i have to do it.

I ** other men to get what I need but I could never tell my boyfriend.

Hi its good that you ** other men and I take it that you like men with big ** ** you, do you let them ** you ** and do you let them ** in you ? Are you on birth control ? Because if you're not then there would be a good chance that one of them could get you pregnant then you would need to tell your boyfriend, unless you made him think it was his that is, and I think if most women are honest that they prefer being ** by a guy with a big ** rather than a small or average size one, I hope that you continue ** other men to get what you need as I take it that you're not getting satisfied by your boyfriend.

I understand how you feel as I think my ** is a joke as its a small one and I don't blame you for cheating most women love being ** by a guy with a big ** I think and obviously you do, so I would say please continue cheating you need those big ** inside you ** you.

Hi please go out and find a guy with a huge ** to ** you with it if you're not getting it at home, a woman needs to be ** on a regular basis to make her satisfied and to be happy, you're just being honest that you need to be ** by a guy with a huge ** if most women are honest they need a guy with a huge ** to be inside them ** them, my girlfriend sent me pictures on my phone of her on her knees sucking her lovers big ** and one when he came in her mouth and one when he came on her face and her **, his ** very impressive and really puts my little ** to shame and I don't blame my girlfriend having him ** her with it, she even phoned me to let me listen when he was ** her she was going wildand he told me your girlfriends a great **, I was masturbating listening to them and I came in my hand and some of it even fell on the floor, when she's at his place for the weekend I ** all the time imagining what he's doing to her and how hard he's ** her, she told me she loves to ** his big ** before se takes his ** in her mouth and ** him off.

Hi I think that you are just being honest and I agree with you that you need to be ** by a guy with a big ** and I take it that your boyfriend has a little ** like me, a woman needs a guy with a big ** to ** her as you obviously can't feel your boyfriends little one , a woman needs to be satisfied sexually I understand that and I don't blame you girls for feeling like that, so why not cheat if you aren't getting it from your boyfriend at home, find another guy with a big ** to ** you and you will be satisfied with his big ** inside you ** you, if I were your boyfriend I would let you do it , I think a lot of men with little ** fantasize about another guy with a big ** to ** their girlfriend or wife, I have to admit though that I didn't until my girlfriend admitted to it, I was shocked at first but to be honest it really turned me on imagining him ** her with his big ** and now that we are getting married its an even bigger turn on for me, I want him to ** her just before we take our wedding vows both of us knowing that his sperm is swimming around inside her , and as you've maybe read that I want him to ** her all night long n our marital bed on our wedding night while I sleep in another room, I so much want him to make my beautiful new wife pregnant with his baby and if she's showing then all the better as that will blow my mind knowing its her lovers and not mine, I want her to tell her friends and everyone else that its his and not mine, it may seem crazy to a lot of people that I want this to happen but its the way I feel and as long as she is happy that will make me happy too, I love her so very much that it hurts.

Hey,
Thanks for the confession. It's very interesting.
The only thing that I'm a little concerned about is: YOU

Meaning, "How about you?" Do YOU get to ** another hot, attractive woman who is really ** for you, one day?

What I'd recommend, at least, just so you know and it's in the clear with your significant other is: FIND OUT IF YOU ARE ALSO ALLOWED TO HAVE ANOTHER PARTNER TO have ** with.

I'd hate for you to be the (EXCELLENT) giving one in the relationship, who let's his girl ** the guy who really does it for her, and THEN find out that you aren't allowed to ** any other good looking ** that walks by....

I mean, it's only fair, and I really feel that you should have the same grazing/roaming rights as your fiance does...

Take care!

Hi thanks for your concern but its something we've never discussed , I suppose I've never thought about that as the situation were both in is that she gets all the ** she wants from her lover and I haven't even considered ** another woman , as you have read I have a small ** and I don't know if I could satisfy another woman even if I wanted to, I love my fiance and all I'm concerned about is her happiness, although I get an incredible sexual rush out of all this, she is to me just simply wonderful and beautiful and I'm very fortunate that I've got her and she's going to be my gorgeous wife and I couldn't be more happy and neither could she, but I thank you for your comments ...you take care as well !

This is going to end badly. Very badly. You should get out now, before you allow this selfish little girl to ruin your life and create a permanent scar.

I don't think so and she's not a selfish little girl ...I want this and she does as well so we're both happy and that's all that matters.

I was actually trying to be kind. What she really is is a trashy egocentric **. If she gave a ** about YOU, she'd never "agree" to all the perversions you've described. But she doesn't give a ** about you. She only gives a ** about what you can do for her. You're entire connection to this girl will always be about her. That's not a relationship: it's personal servitude. And they outlawed it around 150 years ago. You may have read about that.

I disagree with you completely i'm not her servant and she's not a self centred person at all,i get pleasure out of her happiness and we do have a loving relationship, you may think that she's a trashy ** but i can assure you that is something she is not but you are entitled to your opinion like everyone else, but please don't forget that it's not for us to judge as not one single person on this planet is perfect that i'm afraid is impossible.

fake as plastic turds.

Are you ? Maybe you should confess about that. ...but that's one thing this is not my friend this isbreal.

Is real that should be I'm too fast a typer

A couple of nights ago I sat my girlfriend down and had a very deep talk with her regarding our situation, I explained to her my thoughts and desires about her and her lover and asked her what she wanted out of this relationship with myself and her lover, we spoke at length about it all and I asked her to marry me and her answer was an emphatic YES, I am over the moon that she is going to become my beautiful wife I'm so very very happy that this is going to become reality for the both of us and I can't wait, we have set out ground rules that she can ** her lover anytime she wants and he wants, she's also agreed for him to ** her on our wedding day and she has spoken to him and he has readily agreed to do it , she was shocked and taken aback when I told her that i would even love him to make her pregnant but she's not sure about that as she's doesn't know if she's ready yet to become a mother but she has told me she will talk it over with her lover and I've told her that I would be more than happy if they had a child, I've also spoken to her about him ** her all night on our wedding bed and I will sleep in another room which will be booked in his name but I will be sleeping there while he ** my new bride all night, I've also suggested to her that we have him come with us on our honeymoon p, please pardon the pun lol...so he can ** her all our honeymoon in our bed, she told me she would love that and she thinks he will definetely be up for that ....I will keep you all updated on developments ...I'm so excited :-)

CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I think you two are going to make a wonderful couple. Please let us all know about the preparations, the wedding, the wedding night, the honeymoon and everything else you guys get up to! Thank you!

she totally needs to be pregnant with the other man's child at your wedding. that would be just the sexiest thing ever and it would be a delicious memory to hold for the rest of your lives. i dont know whether or not you would want to tell anybody about the pregnancy not being for you but if at least you and she know it would be wonderful. i mean she would need to be obviously pregnant (like 6-8 months) so then you would just need to decide whether or not to tell people that the baby isnt yours. either way its hot and either way a pregnant woman in a wedding gown is super **. i know because i was one almost 9 years ago! good luck!!!!

That other guy needs to be your best man at the wedding. I mean he already is HER best man, so he should be yours, too. But in any event, he HAS to be IN THE WEDDING, and you know I'm right.

I am sooooooooooo excited for you!!!!

I never thought about that and thanks for the suggestion I will put it to her to ask him, I'm sure he would, god I'm so hard now just thinking about that he being my best man , my new wife pregnant with his child , him still ** her , me not consumating the marriage and he will, him ** her all the time on our honeymoon in our bed, god it gets better and better for me, I would also love it when we went to our room after the ceremony for him to come in for her to getnon hernknees in front of him take out his big ** and ** it for him to ** in her mouth and say to me this is the ** that made your wife pregnant , now that wouldbe mind blowing for me :-)

Thanks for your kind wishes and I think when we do get married and she is maybe 6 months pregnant with his baby then that would be just wonderful seeing her in her wedding dress pregnant and his child growing inside her, if we did decide to tell people that the baby wasn't mine then I can just imagine the look on their faces with them knowing its another guys and I'm marrying her and he's ** her ...but little would they know that he'd still be ** her with my full support and encouragement...and I agree it would bebso very super ** to see her like that :-)

even if you dont tell the people at your wedding or other people you know that her baby was fathered by the other guy you totally totaly totally totally need to be sure that all of her bridesmaids know that her boyfriend is the father and that hes still making love with her so that when their standing up there with her they will all be creaming and dripping at the thought of their pregnant friend getting knocked up by one man and marrying another but not ever giving up the first man because hes got such a gigantic one. and you alredy know what will hapen dont you? some of her bridesmaids will go out and do the same thing! do you see what kind of beauty and sensuality and love your starting with this mariage??? i really think its a wonderful thing and i think you should be proud of yourself and of your fiancé and of her fabulous boyfriend! you guys are like explorers!! i love this!!!!

I will thanks we havent set a date or anything yet as its very early days but we will be discussing it over the next few days and I will let you all know what's happening ....I can't wait o be honest with you as I'm so excited I could just burst lol.

My husband doesn't fill me up, with either his meat or his cream. So I wish he would let me go find a man who could do both. Hotwifing should be the law and it should be in every couple's wedding vows!!!

I agree with you there ane I hope he does let you go and find another man that's bigger to ** you really good and shoot loads of his ** in you.

God that is exactly what I want and need but hubby would never allow it. But I do think about it all the time because I just ache and hurt and cry for having a real man with a real ** inside me. One who will insist that I never go without his cream flowing through me. There is a teacher at our kids school who I think has a ** like that. I don't know whether or not he is hung that way but I imagine he is and I fantasize about having him mount me, sometimes right in front of all the other parents and the students and even my husband.

I hope it becomes a reality for you as I think you would love that teachers big hard ** inside you if he is hung that is, I'm sure you would love him shooting his load of ** in you filling your ** up ...why don't you flirt with him and test him out you never know he might be up for it , he might like the thought of ** a married woman and you could always make excuses to your husband and you would need to be very discreet so I hope it comes true for you to have another mans ** in you, happy **.

For this man I would definately make excuses to my husband so I could go get with this man. And I would be completly discreet so that my husband and this mans wife would never know anything about what we were doing together. There's a parents night at the schooll just before Thanksgiving and my husband will be out of town that night so maybe I'll follow your suggestion and flirt with my teacher/dream and see where it goes. God I loved the way you said about him filling me up with his load and so maybe that will happen that night. God I want his ** so bad!!!!!

Before you completely give up on someone you love, and who seems like she might very well be a one-in-a-million or once-in-a-lifetime kind of girl, you need to do two things. First, sit down and have a long, honest talk about what both of you want in YOUR relationship, before discussing anything about outside interests or extramarital sexuality (yes: tell her you want to marry her). If you need to, or if you think it would be beneficial, go see a couples counselor together and talk about the arrangement. Establish ground rules about who and how often she can play, and rules about safe ** and full disclosure. See if you can live with what she wants, and if she can live with what you want (face the truth: you want her sexual freedom and near-promiscuity as much as she does!!), and do it with the idea that the rules will always be the rules. It's possible that her only interest will be this one other guy, and that she just wants to continue to have unrestricted access to him, like she has now and like you fully support. You love that now, and so there's reason to think you'd continue to love her going to him -- or bringing him home -- for the extracurriculars she wants and for the **-size and **-frequency she doesn't get at home with you. And then second, the two of you need to seriously look into something called "Hotwifing", which is precisely the arrangement that you guys have now, and which would fit beautifully into your marriage, if you marry her. There are several hotwifing sites out there, and the more reputable ones will give you both continuing guidance about polyamorous relationships where the wife is the ONLY free agent: hotwifing describes your situation exactly, and if it has worked for so many, many other couples, there is no reason to think it can't work for you two. I would just HATE to see you break it off with this girl when her desires and your desires seem to be so PERFECTLY matched. I offer this just as food for thought. Best wishes!

i agree with this person totaly. there are so many alternative lifestyles out there so who is to say that this cant work for you and your girlfriend? she gets all the ** she needs and wants. and you get to be the supportive loving partner that you are. do NOT let these moralists tell you who you can and cant love!!!!!!!!

I also agree with yourself and the other person so I'm going to persue everything he has said , I love her I want her to be happy and for me to be happy also, if she enjoys this other guy ** her then that's great and it makes me happy too, I want her to be my wife and I will be her loving husband and this other guy can ** her anytime he likes even in our marital bed.

Thank you for your advice and I really appreciate it as I'm in a quandary about what to do, I had thought about seeking advice about this from a professional as it doesn't seem normal to be like this but I have taken everyones comments and thoughts and advice about my situation, I suppose I am a wimp and I don't blame my girlfriend letting a big cocked guy to ** her, I have never heard of hotwifing in my life before but you describe it so well and it seems to be the lifestyle we are leading just now, I agree we have to talk at length about this and get some ground rules set out that suits us both, yes I would love her to be my wife as I do truly love her and want her to be happy , you mentioned if she kept to this one guy but it wouldn't matter to me how many guys she let ** her as long as she loves me and always comes back home to meand I honestly would be happy if this other guy got her pregnant and she had his baby as I would take care of both her and the child, this may seem strange to a lot of people but it really does turn me on knowing that this other guy is ** her and I don't get to ..just give and get oral ** and ** to the thought of them **, I think I'm going to ask her to marry me and discuss all this with her so I thank you very much for your help and comments ...best wishes to you also.

I'm soooooo glad that you're reconsidering and are willing to work on your relationship with this girl who seems so perfect for you. I love your idea of having the other guy impregnate her -- even to the point of her being pregnant with his child AT THE WEDDING!!! -- and the way you describe how much you love her, and how much you want her happiness, makes me sure that you and she will work this out and that it will make for a wonderful marriage and family. You're going to love being her husband, and you're going to love eating his ** out of her when she comes home to you after he's finished with her and worn her out, even during her pregnancy, and on the night of the wedding. Good luck to you, my friend!!

ok so what are you going to do when your friends or your work colleagues or your parents see your wife out in public with this guy and shes hanging on him and making out with him and slipping her hands down inside his pants to get at that gigantic ** that she wants and needs so so so bad? arent you going to be humiliated so bad that you want to die???

If you read my comment to the previous person then you will see what I'm gonna do ...I think now that you're right.

I can't imagine how or why you would want to be married to somebody who only cares about herself, and who doesn't give a ** about you beyond what bills you can pay for her AND FOR HER ** PARTNER (that's correct, spud, you're gonna be paying HIS bills, too, they just haven't told you yet). So, yeah, you really ARE a fool, and that's not an opinion: it's a fact. You are so totally going to get exactly what you deserve. And she's going to get a free ride for as long as you can afford to pay the freight. Good luck, moron.

I'm going to seek professional help on this s I think I'm being really naive about all of this and I think I'm going to have to MAN UP and tell them both to GO ** THEMSELVES ..if you pardon the pun ..and I'm not a moron as you put it I'm actually a very nice guy ..maybe just too nice.