Am i wrong to let this happen ?

the answers to your questions are "yes" and "yes". youre a fool and youre a wimp and this is not going to end well for you. shes going to embarrass you so bad that you wont recover from it. and if you dont ** his ** when she tells you to then shes going to tell everybody that you did it anyway. your life is toast.

Thanks for commenting on my confession i agree that i'm a wimp bec ause i believe i am,but whether i'm a fool or not is you opinion and you're entitled to that, i probably am a foolfor letting this happen but when you love a woman so much like i love her then it's very hard for me to not let it happen but i thank you for your thoughts on this subject, but it does turn me on.

Dump her. I've seen this play out so many times. the lady usually 95% of the time end up with the other guy cause he's bigger and better. If you can show her you're the Boss and Abuse her (during **) then maybe she'll be yours but the only reason she keeps coming back to ya is because you have a good salary and is putting a roof over her head, + you're feeding her with food. if your salary is ** and such and barely have a roof over your head, then she'll most definitely leave you for him. + once you get married, you must have her stop this. And how do you know it's just this one guy on the weekend, what if it's like a bunch of other guys she's also been with during the weekend. A submissive man is only good when both partners are faithful but in this situation; MAN UP! AND TAKE CONTROL FOR ONCE GOSH -_- The main reason she goes and sees him is not cause he has a bigger ** than yours, it's because he's a man and not a submissive wimp.If you can show her how much of a man you are then she'll be flying back into your arms.

I couldnt dump her i love her and yes i do put a roof over her head but she does contribute and she is good to me as well, i believe her when she told me its only this guy as i dont have any reason to disbelieve her, but yes you are probably right that i am a wimp but i think its because i feel inferior having a little ** compared to his, i dont blame her letting him ** her with that big ** of his, she's told me he can ** her for a long time and he gives her great ** as well and when he shoots inside her it seems to her like he's never going to stop cuming, she told me he can get hard again very quickly.

What will happen when she leaves you for him then??

Dude no worries, im small in the ** department also but i know how to use it so the ladies love me :D

I don't know yet buddy as I think I'm gonna tell them both to ** OFF...and I'm glad you can please the ladies :-)

dude you need to find somebody whose not a **

She is not a ** so please retract your last comment.

Dude she is totally a ** by anybody's definition, you need to wake the ** up.

so what are you gonna do when this guy with the huge ** -- the one she can't get off of -- decides he wants your wife full-time and she says yes (which you already know she will say to him)? you're gonna be ** out of luck.

She's not my wife yet but i'm going to ask her to marry me and hopefully she will say yes' on our wedding night i want him to be the only one who ** her and i want him to ** her just before we take our marriage vows so i know his sperm is swimming around inside her and it's also leaking out her ** and dribbling down her legs,after we are married i think i would like him to move in with us permenantly so he can ** her every night in our marital bed and any time he wants to ** her,hopefully i will get to watch him ** her in our bed and when i'm not watching i will get to listen to him ** her in our bed from the other room and i can ** to them **.

Three little letters are going to change your point of view on your wife's infidelity once they enter your life, and they will do that soon: S-T-D.

Were not married yet as she's only my girlfriend just now but i'm going to ask her to marry me and hopefully she will say yes,and if he had any kind of STD i think i would have known by now as he's been ** her for a while,ive asked her not to let me ** her as she probably couldnt feel me inside her anyway after being ** with his big ** for a while but she does ** my ** and lets me ** in her mouth, i ** very quicly as well, sometimes she swallows my ** and sometimes she spits it out, she masturbates me as well and lets me ** over her ** or her face and sometimes on her **, i lick her ** before she masturbates me and i play with her ** as well she usually ** with me doing that to her, but when she masturbates me or ** my ** i always think on him ** her with his big ** and her sucking his big **, she's shown me photos she took on her phone of her sucking his big ** and him ** in her mouth and i must say it puts my little ** to shame so i dont blame her one little bit,i'm quite happy for him to continue to ** her as it gives her so much pleasure and she alsways comes home to me with a big smile on her face after hes been ** her all weekend.

I doubt that you know who she's ** beside this one guy, or that she can be trusted to be completely honest about any of that. But I know for sure that you don't know who this other guy is ** beside your girlfriend. So, the fact that you haven't contracted any STDs yet -- THAT YOU KNOW OF -- doesn't mean you don't already have one or won't ever get one. You're being naïve about what sort of diseases are out there and how easily and quickly they can get to you. The larger problem, of course, is that the risk you're taking could cost you your life. This ** is a **, and even if she doesn't kill you, she's going to make you sorry that you decided to knowingly marry a **. She's going to break your heart.

Thank you I think I will need to think long and hard about this as you are probably right that I don't know for sure that he's the only guy she's ** and as far as the std is concerned you are right about that as well that I don't know if I have one or not as they can lie dormant for a while and can get passed on by oral ** as well ...its just that the thought of all this turns me on so much and its difficult to remedy that so maybe I should seek professional help which I think I will do as soon as I can ..I will also go to get checked out for any std's so to put my mind at rest on that one ...a few people on here have commented that she'sa ** but she doesn'tseem that way to me ..I suppose its different when you love someone and are tunnell visioned ...I think I have been really naive about all of this and thanks for your advice and observations.

right now this all seems like fun and games to you but eventually your going to get tired of her adultery and your going to want her to just be a wife and she either wont be able to do that or she will just refuse to stop ** around with guys who have bigger ** than you and then its not going to be fun anymore because your going to be a laughingstock if you arent already one.

I dont think i will ever get tired of her adultery as you say, were not married yet but i'm going to ask her, hopefully she will say yes and he can continue ** her in our marital bed i hope.

If you think you can live with the humiliation of being married to a woman who everybody knows is a **, and who a lot of men will be using as one, then go for it.

I think i can when we are married i want him to continue ** her in our marital bed i hope.

Marry her, go to work (so she won't have to), pay the bills, and let her play around -- all day, every day. You are soooooooooo lucky.

Yes i think i am very lucky to have such a wonderful girlfriend like her...i already earn a good salary so thats not a problem doing that, and every day sounds great.

THREE OR FOUR TIMES A NIGHT??!???? Bro, she's never gonna give that ** up.

No she's not and i dont blame her.

i dont blame her either. if i had a man giving me that kind of action and with a ** that huge i would be all over him all the time and my husband could go without!

You should make her bring her big-dicked boyfriend along on the honeymoon, so that the whole experience is as good as it can be for her: get him a room separate from yours so you can see her walk down the hall to him, knowing that she's about to get something better and ** than you just gave her. Or better yet, let her consummate your marriage ONLY with the other guy in your marital bed. I wish my husband was as open-minded as you are, because that way I wouldn't have to sneak around like I do. And our wedding would have been much more fun than it was (my boyfriend did me during the reception, but it was really quick and nobody knew except one of my bridesmaids).

I'm going to ask her to marry me and hopefully she will say yes and hopefully he will have ** her a short while before we take our marriage vows so i know his sperm is swimming around inside her ** and leaking out of it,i would love it if he was the one to consumate our marriage in our marital bed,i think i would love it after we were married that he moved in with us and he gets to ** her in our marital bed every night and any time he wants' and hopefully i will get to watch him ** her seeing his big ** pounding her would be wonderful for me, and when i'm not watching them i get to listen to him ** her from the spare room while i ** to him ** her.

You must really love this girl.

jeez dude thats a hot piece you got there. marry it for sure.

Yes she is a hot piece as you say and i'm going to ask her to marry me and hopefully she will say yes then he can ** her anytime he wants and i hope its in our marital bed,hope she makes me sleep in the spare room so i can hear him ** the life out of her and maybe even get to watch sometimes,i think i would also love it if he moved in with us permenantly and he could sleep with her in our marital bed all the time and i could sleep in the spare room...god ive just came writing this.

God, I've came just READING it!! TWICE!!!!!!!!

Sounds like your girlfriend is a very nasty **.........and it sounds like you're a very lucky guy. Put a ring on it.

Yes i am a very lucky guy to have her she's the love of my life but she isnt a nasty ** ....i would never call her that and i dont want anyone else to call her that either ...so if you could please retract your last comment,

Being a nasty ** is a good thing, and she is both nasty and a **, and I love what she's doing. God, yes, the girl is filthy and that's why you love her, and it's why all of us out here love her, too: we wish we were you! I'd give anything to have a girlfriend who was this nasty all the time.

No you aren't wrong or a fool to allow this to happen. Not at all. Your girlfriend just so happens to be one of those women who can't be satisfied by one man, and that's not a bad thing, it's a good thing, and you should allow it and enjoy it. She obviously keeps coming back to you when the other guys are done with her, so that tells you that you are at the top of her list. She needs lots of ** to be pleased, and she needs lots of relationships to be excited and aroused, and that all works to your favor, because you love her and you want her to be happy, and you are the principal means by which she accomplishes that happiness. You are her foundation and you give her the means and the wherewithal to go out and look for these other men that she needs -- be sure not to overlook that: these are men THAT SHE NEEDS -- in order to be fulfilled and happy. You are contributing to the happiness of a young girl you love, and that's a wonderful and important thing. And by all means you should marry her, and as soon as possible, before she gets away and goes to someone else: that would be a crippling blow and you might never recover from it. Just be sure that you are confident that she'll always come home to you after the other men are finished with her or have worn her completely out. Being there for her after she's been railed or wrecked or even abused by another man or group of men makes you the most important man in her life, and isn't that what you ultimately want and need? As for the wedding you mentioned, yes, it seems certain that she'll walk down the aisle and into your arms with the sexual juices of another man or other men swirling around inside her body and on her skin and in her hair and on her breath, but be honest: would you want it any other way? Would you want HER any other way? This is a beautiful, beautiful relationship you have with this girl, and you should enjoy it. Marry her. Don't wait another day, or another minute.

I'm going to ask her to marry me and hopefully she will say yes.

Tell her you want to to be present during one of these ** session weekends. ask her how she would feel about having a three-way with both of you. it sounds to me like you have a very open an honest relationship and if she is telling you all the details and calling your phone so you can listen i dont think she would be surprised that you would want to be there. the only thing to be mindful of is since you have been playing a submissive role, then if the three of you do get together that will be your expected role. just go with it.

Hopefully that will happen that i get to watch but i'm going to ask her to marry me first and i hope that she will say yes,shes shown me photos that she took on her phone of her sucking his big ** and him ** in her mouth, if and when we get married i want him to ** and ** in her a short while before we take our marriage vows knowing that he's ** her and his ** would be oozing out her ** maybe running down her legs but her ** would probably be soaking with his sperm and most of his sperm would be swimming around inside of her,on our wedding night i want him to consumate our marriage in our marital bed and hopefully i would get to watch him ** my new wife all night i hope, i would like him to move in with us as well and he can ** her all the time in our marital bed, maybe i would get to watch or maybe i would listen to him ** her while i'm in the other room masturbating, ive also thought what if she was pregnant with his child while we were taking our marriage vow...now that would be absolutely thrilling for me to know my new wife was carrying another mans child,i want this to happen and i'm going to try my best to make it happen, she's on birth control just now but if she stopped taking it then he would probably make her pregnant, i can imagine watching her belly grow with his child knowing it wasnt mine,i'm quite happy for him to keep ** her as it gives her so much pleasure and she always comes home to me with a big smile on her face after he's ** her all weekend.

Yes you are. But get your wife to ** him at your home and be their servant and lick her ** when he's ** her ** his **

I don't know if they would do that but the thought of it excites me and there's no way I would ** his ** ...I'm not gay ffs.

Doesn't matter. You gotta watch them together and see how much she loves this guy and his **, and you gotta ** his cream out of her ** (and **), and lick her ** juice off his rod. You're going to love sucking that ** after it's been in your wife. Let her tell you what to do, but you gotta know she's gonna want to see you ** the **. And you gotta know you're gonna do exactly that.

She has let him ** her anally something ive never done to her and she's never suggested to me, and no wonder she's let him, she told me it was painfulthe first time he put his ** head in her but after he got it all in her and started ** her she said it was heaven.

You gotta have her bring him over to your place one weekend and watch him do her **. Then, as soon as he pulls out of her **, you gotta go to work sucking her ** juice off that giant ** he's got and that he keeps shoving into her body........and let him ** in your mouth. You gotta be a slave for both of them.