2 bad marriages makes me sick of women
How can a loving handsome guy , well educated making good money have such bad luck ? I do admit my first marriage was largely because of her beauty and body .
She was gorgeous , a tall blond , a mixture of Italian and French blood with a body good enough to make any woman jealous. But sometimes a woman can simply be too beautiful and every man that comes along will hit on her , soon she will be tempted enough and there goes the marriage .
In my case I was an officer in the military away on training never knowing her words were all lies in our last year of marriage . She had found a lover and could not resist the temptation of his looks charm and body . I was across the nation and so far away , it was so easy to lie to me . It hurt horribly when she finally admitted her affair .
I got out of the military and moved to Texas and found a great job and met another beautiful woman . She was a bit younger and had a little boy , I actually fell in love with her son before I did her . No one else had ever loved her son like I did . She had gotten pregnant and had her son out of Wedlock and she was struggling just to survive. She was taking some classes in Houston and I just happen to set by her in class . Dark skinned and dark eyes , her feminine beauty caught my eye. I asked her for a date and she accepted .
One thing after the other developed , mostly a great friendship and red hot passion . Her little boy was so precious , and now he had a male figure in his life to love him , we became best friends . We got married after about a year of dating and it appeared to be a beautiful experience for a long time . She was content , she had a handsome husband to love her and her son , I provided well with my job, and she did not have to work . She wanted more children and we had twins , a beautiful little girl and boy blessed our lives .
For about 6 years things were beautiful with my little family . Her oldest son adored me and I took him everywhere and did everything together , having a blast all over Texas. My dark skinned wife started her own business, a line of children's clothing , they sold big and appeared on the Oprah Winfrey Show on TV. My wife was a famous woman making money with her beautiful design of little girls dresses and outfits .
Then one night I overheard a conversation she was having with someone , she said it was a customer , but the conversation appeared to have a sexual tone . I questioned her because after my first wife cheated on me I highly suspect all women of cheating . I took her cell phone and downloaded 90 days of phone records , those records never go away , though most people think they do .
In 6 weeks she had sent over 7,000 messages to one of her lovers . I was devastated , but kept my cool , I knew needed more proof . I began researching using training I learned in the military and discovered her private email sites with messages to her lovers . I then put a voice activated Tape recorder under the seat of her Car and recorded her conversations with her lovers . Those conversations made me sick to my stomach , she was having sexual affairs with other men .
I questioned her and she denied everything , but I kept the evidence a secret . I then began calling her close friends, 3 of them openly admitted my wife has had lovers. Finally I told her what her friends told me , She grabbed the Tap recorder smashing it on the floor and then called the Police claiming I raped her , naturally it was all a lie . The cops came out and did nothing , my oldest son took up for me in front of the cops saying his mother was not telling the truth . The cops left with no charges filed.
I continued to press her for the truth , she refused to tell me and I continued to investigate . For sure I identified at least 2 lovers she had been steadily s******* for a long time .
Devastated it was time for me to leave her dark skinned ass . A second woman had cheated on me even after I took her in and married her and became a father to her child . I pushed her to go back with her stupid mother whom was so dysfunctional , she had no choice . She was determined to take me to court to get wife support , but Texas law prevented that and she got nothing . I do have to pay child support , but only for my two children .
She never allows me to see the two children except under extremely inconvenient times or under stress , with no support her clothing business went dead and she makes no money . She is basically miserable with no money and 3 children to raise , yet she refuses to allow me a normal relationship with my precious children .
I will never get married again after 2 women cheated on me . I have an excellent job and well educated and all women say I am very handsome, now I go through women like they are dirt and s**** all of them , and will never ask any for marriage .