I'm an attractive, educated 28 year old

I'm an attractive, educated 28 year old woman with a giant sexual appetite AND repetoire, in the nursing field, very patient and understanding and quite frankly, an excellent cook.

why does my partner of five years treat me like the dullest, most boring, most unappealing person on this earth? Why was I so stupid to think he was different?

are all men so easily distractable? so shallow? Is it true that men don't think about ANYTHING other than the immediate moment and the newest, shiniest thing?

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  • Maybe hes not interested anymore r he could b having problems n the c*** dept

  • Dont put up with this get a man who wil appreciate u

  • again can i f*** you ? i love p****, now thats what i call going to work !!
    Shiny as in you aren't anymore...to him. But before you get all mad at me or him get a little mad at yourself...and maybe God. My wife is older than you but the rest is surprisingly accurate. I assume your partner (get married) is about your age, and s** sometimes takes a backseat to life for him now more than you because you are so self sufficient. Don't ask to talk about it, just take the initiative. There is nothing more sexy when my wife demands I stop whatever I am doing and let her go down on me. If he turns down a bj there might be something else wrong. Not to be too crude, the bj is just a primer for what she really wants and damnit she gets it. Its hard to stay mad when * Sometimes she wakes in the middle of the night...that is weird but really cool. I'm in like this dream state and I have no idea who is doing these wonderful things to me at first but then I know and I am like..wtf woman I was sleeping but since I am now in a frenzy with you your not going back to sleep just yet. If you go for a new guy you might find yourself in the same boat 5 years from now after the shininess wears off as it will again with him. It might be worth the jump now for another shiny moment before you too settle down with someone for the long haul. 6 years from where you are now I finally got married. If he is otherwise a good friend and partner you could do worse. We always think we can do better.

  • Shiny as in you aren't anymore...to him. But before you get all mad at me or him get a little mad at yourself...and maybe God.

    My wife is older than you but the rest is surprisingly accurate. I assume your partner (get married) is about your age, and s** sometimes takes a backseat to life for him now more than you because you are so self sufficient. Don't ask to talk about it, just take the initiative. There is nothing more sexy when my wife demands I stop whatever I am doing and let her go down on me. If he turns down a bj there might be something else wrong. Not to be too crude, the bj is just a primer for what she really wants and damnit she gets it. Its hard to stay mad when * Sometimes she wakes in the middle of the night...that is weird but really cool. I'm in like this dream state and I have no idea who is doing these wonderful things to me at first but then I know and I am like..wtf woman I was sleeping but since I am now in a frenzy with you your not going back to sleep just yet.

    If you go for a new guy you might find yourself in the same boat 5 years from now after the shininess wears off as it will again with him. It might be worth the jump now for another shiny moment before you too settle down with someone for the long haul. 6 years from where you are now I finally got married. If he is otherwise a good friend and partner you could do worse. We always think we can do better.

  • -if hes willing.

  • Well sometimes guys think that its a competition to whos right and whos wrong. Tell him that that doesnt matter to you if u havent yet. Maybe go see a couple's counselor or something.

  • hey, confessor here..

    I don't know what to do. I try to talk to him, and he gets into a defensive mode no matter how I try to approach this. From that point on, he's already decided that it's me saying "i'm right and you're wrong" and he hears NOTHING.

    or worse, he just doesn't care and I'm a big frickin' idiot for trusting someone.

  • Everyone can get bored with relationships, especially when you've been together for several years. My advice: talk to him about it, and find some ways to spice things up for him, and help you guys get closer.

  • I dont know what youre talking abou ooooh shiny

  • How old is the husband?

  • Yep, we men are like a crow. The next shiny object is our next desire and the immediate moment is our priority. I also have a pretty sound theory as to why we treat our 'hottest piece of ass' girlfriends/wives differnet after we have been together for a while...if interested.

  • again can i f*** you ?
    i love p****, now thats what i call going to work !!

  • Poster, I hear ya. I'm the hottest piece of ass in 3 states and my boyfriend would rather work on his website. WHAT

    THE

    F***?!

  • Can i f*** you ?

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