I got married 8 years ago and it was a big mistake. I can hardly stand to listen to her every morning complaining and using profane language even about her Mom.
There is a younger woman at Church I am 51 and she is 30. I respected her a lot she went to school after her divorce and with two young girls has a professional career.
Several times when she had problems I will help her whether it was a comforting word a hug or a little money.
This last Sunday after several weeks of not coming to church she shows up with a successful attorney. Not only that but one that is 4 or 5 years older than me. Always considered her a friend before I saw her with him. How I wish I could express my feelings for her and act on them.