What would you do?

When you are alone and you're longing to sleep with someone and there is someone who let you know she needs physical intimacy too!
But there is a age difference..
how old is too old?
does it really matter?
how many years apart is too many?

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  • If you BOTH feel an attraction, and are consenting adults there is no age rule.

  • Im a 17 year old girl and I'm in a relationship with a 36 year old man, most people think that the age gap is too much whilst I'm still young but I like it and he likes it too. His family and friends are brilliant with it, they've accepted me as one of their own and I've never felt so at home than when I'm around him and in his life.
    I don't feel like he is a father figure or anything, never felt like that with him, I love him as my boyfriend.
    The thing is though that when I'm 40, he will be 56 so that isn't weird or anything. I'm not wasting my life on him, I'm living it the way I want to, simple as :)
    I've looked into other people in age-gap relationships and they feel very similar to me and it made me feel so much better after looking into it. Maybe you should do the same :)

  • If its mainly about s** than there is no age limits other than legal age restrictions. In fact intergenerational s** ie >20 years age difference can be exciting. However, for an ongoing relationship more than just s**, the rules outlined below are stretching it. For example, a 27 yo woman will likely have different interest eg music, going out dancing, politics, etc than a 40 yo man.

  • I've heard the rule is half your age plus 7 years. So if you're 20 you can sleep with a (10 + 7) 17 year old, if you're 30 you can sleep with a (15 + 7) 22 year old, if you're 40 you can sleep with a (20 + 7) 27 year old, ect.

  • Am 48 n my kids mom is 29. This past January I slept with another 29 year old and a 25 year old.I have slept with many women older than I. So long as they over 18 and sane, am all in

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