Losing respect for myself

I was feeling down in the dumps and for some reason I thought if someone told me I was beautiful it would help me. I started talking to this guy on the internet and I sent him a bikini poster. He threatened to post the picture on Instagram and tag me in it if I didn't send him a nude. So finally, I thought I had tricked him to delete it but he didn't... He posted it, tagged me, and gave my kik and picture to girls saying I was lesbian. I then told him I'd have him arrested for child p********** and he finally deleted it. Now, I've began to hate myself and am scared the picture might come back to haunt me..... I don't know what to do anymore.

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  • What's done is done, you can't go back. But you can protect yourself in the future. Agree with the below comment. Let it go and learn from this. Change or delete your kik address, should you get too many unwanted messages. If he threatens again, there are laws that can get that guy in a lot of trouble for cyber bullying, and and posting illegal images with your contact info. For the future, love and respect yourself. You will have down days, it's just part of life. Call a friend, you just never know who you're dealing with on the internet. And know that as much as you want for some random guy to tell you you're beautiful or that he loves you, not all attention is good attention. Make it a rule to never send pics again, not even to someone you're in a committed relationship with. When those relationships fail, the pictures can be used as weapons. So just be safe.

  • Calm down it was just a bikini pic, plenty of those going around that no one would be able to tell the difference between the two. You would have had a problem if you had sent a nude. Change your number if you don't want people kikking you and if any of your friends find the pic just say some stalker has been watching you and took the pic without you knowing. No one needs to know your business and if they get pushy tell them to f*** off. Honestly look on the bright side, now you know that you are beautiful otherwise he wouldn't have gone to the effort to get a nude pic. Like I said relax about the pic, bikini's are nothing to fuss about. Hope that helps and good luck.

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