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I messed everything up.
I officially started dating a guy yesterday. We've been hanging out for about 1.5 months. The thing is that throughout this time I have had a crush on his roommate. His roommate always seemed to flirt with me but after a while I just assumed that's how he naturally was and he wasn't really meaning anything by it. Tonight I find out he likes me and I would much rather be with him but I feel like I need to give me and this current guy a decent shot. The roommate is telling me to forget about it, but I think that's because he's worried about what my boyfriend would do to him.
And to top everything off after I realized the mistake I made with who I'm with I decided I wanted to mess things up even more so I made out with a guy at a party last night. I'm being self destructive because I'm ** about my decisions. I want to be with the roommate but that's nearly impossible now and it's killing me.
No offence but I hate it when girls do that; you don't like your current situation so you go and make out with some random dude. Doesn't make any sense, and to me it just smacks of attention seeking.
Get your act together, and seriously think about who you could be most happy with. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. So you're with a guy but his mate likes you and you like him. So what? If you like him more than the hiu you're seeing then don't stay with him just to keep him happy. In the long run that will hurt him more. Believe me, I know.
So just be honest with them and yourself.