Love

Im a 20 yr old guy , i was in relation with a girl for three years and we were sexually active , everything was so perfect and one day she suddenly called up and said i dont like you i hate u and i wna breakup with you ! It wasnt the frst time she did it so i was also very angry at her so i said ok lets get seperated , then after one day she realised what she had done and cried everytime we talked but it was impossible for me to get those feelings back ! Since then i coudnt love any girl , its been 1 year after my breakup even now i find it hard to love any girl , after my breakup i got into bodybuilding and made a good physiqe and girls are getting crazy over this abs thing but i dont get feeling to even like any girl :( i need help please can someone suggest ??
Ps sory long story
Pss please do reply ot took too much courage to recall evrything and write it here :(

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  • If theres somebody calling me on, shes the one.

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  • You don't get over a broken heart immediately. It's a loss, you have to grieve. Getting to that point where you're over her and ready to date seriously does take time. And the first commenter offered some very good advice. The amount of time it takes is different for everyone. Maybe speaking with friends or a therapist would be helpful. Relationships teach us about ourselves and about other people and how we connect. Relationships aren't always easy, they are work but they're worth it. Sometimes it's good to reflect back to see your part in it. Not to say that you did anything wrong. But it takes two..You guys were teens, it's very possible that your gf at the time just wasn't capable to tell you what she really needed from you. And being a teen boy, you may not have been able to offer it to her. It's okay, you're older, wiser and in a different place. You will find love again. Keep working out, stay busy and even do some casual dating. Have fun. Eventually, you'll find you're ready for something more serious.

  • Thankyou so much for your help ??

  • It can take a long time to get over a huge disappointment like that. I have been there. It took about a year and a half to two years before I got over it. I finally met the right woman and I have been married to her for years now. Time is a great healer. Working out was one of the best things you could do to feel and look better. In time, you will be able to love again. Many people go through what you are going through. It's a common reaction and time is a common healer of it. There may be other things you can do. For example, there are books about getting over the loss of a love that have many helpful tips to heal a broken heart. Take care and know things will improve for you.

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