I'm sick of my siblings. Even growing up my 2 sisters had each other, and my brother had his best friend. I'm now in my 30's and I'm not close to any of them. anything my brother does he is praised for. he got married, a house, a dog, and now a kid. If I get a job, or promotion, its never spoken about, but anything regarding my brother? goes for DAYS of congratulating.
My 2 sisters are best friends. If I even remotely try and hang out with them, they cancel plans, or make plans and leave me in the dust. and say "I forgot" they never listen to any of my advice, or ask how my life, job, or even my day is going. I make efforts with them, and they still shut me out.
I feel like they treat me the same way they treat my father. who left over 7 years ago. I never did anything but love, listen and accept everything they had to say. but once I offer my advice they roll their eyes and walk away. since the age of 18 I've lived in 6 different cities, and they never visited me. but once my brother got a house, everyone is over all the time. When my brother got a dog, they always offered to dog sit. they play fetch, walk and love on his dog. but when my dog is around, they push it away and say "Ew". they never offer to walk my dog, and when i ask them to watch her so i can go on vacation, they're "busy". when I got my own apartment, none of them have even bothered to come see it, or ever ask how I'm doing here.
I moved home after a breakup. They didn't ask if I was okay. didn't even acknowledge it.
I plan to move to a different state in about a year. I haven't told anyone, I don't think they will miss me. they haven't in the past. why would they now? The only "sibling" that actually cares about me, isn't even my blood sibling. I will miss her when I move.