I miss my ex still...

I broke up with my ex 3 years ago because I thought i wasn't good enough to be with her. I have very bad self confidence issues. She is incredibly pretty. She can walk into a bar and I know every single guy there will look at her. She was way out of my league and I broke up with her before she could leave me for someone better. I miss her so much even after 3 years. I still think about her every single day. I want it to just stop and go away.

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  • It's time to put the past in the past and time for you start really living your life and to put yourself first. Everyone is insecure about something. She obviously thought you were pretty amazing and that was why she dated you. She wasn't thinking about who was looking at her in a bar, she was probably more concerned with what you thought. But it's time to stop wasting time and start building your confidence. Negative thoughts break us down to the point that we believe that we're not good enough. And it's not true. There is a girl out there who would be so happy to be with you and you with her. Start with little steps to build yourself up. For every negative thought, tell yourself 3 things that you like about yourself and what your good at etc. I would say, don't live with regret and call her up and see what she's up to. Maybe she's single. The only thing is, you cannot let these old feelings creep back in. You have to know that you are good enough for anyone.

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