Recent graduate musings

I commented earlier about having to be in love to be willing to have a sexual relationship. That did not mean I don't find certain other men hot and fantasize about them (actually, if was with that person alone I'd be very tempted if the attraction was mutual, but wedding vows are sacred...I'm talking about if I was not in a committed relationship at that time) So am I being a hypocrite saying I demand monogamy? I don't know what that means....Not sure that made sense.

Just be true for yourself