I hate my girlfriend
I hate my girlfriend. I met her online 4 years ago this winter. I moved a thousand miles away from my family and started a new life with her. I now am going to college and have a great job all thanks to her being there for me. Here comes the down side... she is a complete total f****** life drain. She ruins everything. She has put huge strain on my health, my friendships with great people I have met since moving, my hobbies, and especially my financial situation. She refusing to get a job but always promises that she will be the cook and housekeeper. Then when I get home she gives me a list of s*** to help her clean. We recently lost our apartment because she is too lazy to get a license and go find a job. I even offered to buy her a car if she got a license and she turned it down. Now we are staying with friends of mine and all she does everyday is find things to b**** about my friend about. I point out to everybody that she is taking things in a completely wrong way but she still doesn't get it. She waits until I'm busy doing s*** and starts a fight. She makes me completely miserable but I can't be the a****** that drops her out on the street. I can't bring myself to do it and I don't know why. She abuses me mentally and emotionally and occasionally even physically and I cannot stand her. How am I supposed to deal with this?