I think I may have fallen for my wife's friend (who is also married). Without getting too much into detail, we have been flirting and have gotten close (non-sexual) over the past 1.5 years. The other day, I emailed her a 'hypothetical' situation where a friend I know has feelings for a married woman, etc. etc. It wasn't blatantly obvious that I was referring to our situation but she should have got the hint. Anyways, she emailed me a pretty long email about how she was the other woman when she got married and the dangers, etc. of what happens, all stuff I didn't know about her before. I replied with a very thoughtful, gushy email about how I'm glad she trusted me, etc. and I honestly thought this would push our relationship into another direction. Her response to my gushy email was very short two sentence email along the lines of "don't feel bad, my life isn't so bad!" I was taken back and basically have come to the conclusion that she doesn't wan't to pursue anything. In a way, I am a little heartbroken and don't know what to do now.