Weird teenager.

I'm a teenage girl who really adores older men, especially those who are apparently "unattractive" and I also seriously like beer bellies. They seem so much more cuddly. I've never been in a relationship because I just don't find any of my peers attractive. Apparently I'm "broken" but I just think of it as having an off-track sense of attraction. I'm becoming a point of teasing over it. It kinda sucks but I can't help it.

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  • Don't worry, you're among many. Most older men are just normal people with normal desires, not the creeps that our fellow young'ns make them out to be. As long as you are a teenager it is probably best to relax and wait a few years until you are of legal age, but after that there is nothing wrong with sharing a bed with an older man. However, make sure you take the right precautions when that time comes, and don't let him take you anywhere completely alone until you completely trust him. As for being teased by your friends, that will stop when they mature a bit. Just ignore them, and if they won't stop, then confront them privately and tell them that you want them to. If they don't then they wouldn't be very worthy to keep as a friend, right? Best of luck, and be safe.

  • You are not "broken" and not "off-track", as you seem to think. It's not all that uncommon for young girls to be attracted to older men, only that very few of them openly admit it or act on their feelings. Also, not all men who prefer younger women and teenaged girls are perverts or dirty old men as they are perceived to be. Good luck to you as you explore your sexuality. I wish you well.

  • Such a nice post, I don't think you are broken at all, there is no shame in finding older men attractive, we are more experienced, more thoughtful & caring, weather it is a platonic or sexual relationship you are looking for, then I think you'll find a older man would sooth your troubles. It's sad though that you find your peers less appealing, I hope you are able to work something out on that front.
    best wishes to you, from a older man with a beer belly :)

  • I, too, fit the description of "older man with a beer belly". Chances are, you don't have a father in your life, and what you're actually seeking is a father-figure. And subconsciously, that means "older, unattractive guy" to you. It's a phase. You will grow out of it.

  • Well I am what you desire and it is nice to hear that someone finds men like me appealing. I am sure many pervy old guys would like to contact you. I am not looking for that because I am old enouh to be your dad, it would be wierd and it would not last. I wish you well in dating and life. i don't think there is anything wrong with you so don't worry about it.

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