How to stay friends with him if he rejects me?

I met him two years ago in med school. We became friends almost instantly. He's one of the best people I know. For the last two years, we've been hanging out, doing all these different things together. I love that he's my friend. But, I also fell in love with him. I thought at first that he liked me too, but he never said anything, and neither did I. Lately, my feelings for him are becoming more and more intense. I'm really afraid to say anything, because it might be too late. Even if he felt anything for me then, now it's probably gone. And I am, on the other hand, going crazy. I'm pretty sure that if I tell him now, he'll say that he doesn't see me in that way anymore. But, that's ok. I would be at peace. What I'm really scared of, is that he would stop talking to me, and just drift away. I don't care much about my ego, but to see him disappear from my life, it would be heartbreaking. So how do I do it? How do I confess and keep my sanity, but also keep his friendship if he rejects me? Please give me some advice..

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  • Why do you still want to be friends with him? I don't want to be friends with my ex girlfriend anymore.

  • Just tell him if you really need to. Don't make a big deal out of it and you'll stay friends

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