my best friend is annoying the crap out

my best friend is annoying the crap out of me, she copies EVERYTHING i do. but when i do i get annoyed with my friend i feel like i shouldn't be but i can't help it, we would be at the mall, i would get a shirt i really liked, and she would by the SAME one in a different color, then i wanted these earing so i was going to the counter to pay for them and then she comes over with the same ones, so i put mine back and didn't get them :[, then i bought converse, my favorite shoes ever, and she bought them too, like not even a different color or design either, the SAME ones like a week after i bought mine, and she copies all of the slang words i use and what bands i like and i will say something funny or do something funny and she will repeat the same thing to other people and take all the credit for it. i just can't help but be annoyed with her. is this normal? does this happen to you?

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  • Yes this used to happen with me when i was younger, its a compliment really.
    Don't get annoyed, its really only material things.

  • ^lol^

  • my best friend is annoying the crap out of me, she copies EVERYTHING i do. but when i do i get annoyed with my friend i feel like i shouldn't be but i can't help it, we would be at the mall, i would get a shirt i really liked, and she would by the SAME one in a different color, then i wanted these earing so i was going to the counter to pay for them and then she comes over with the same ones, so i put mine back and didn't get them :[, then i bought converse, my favorite shoes ever, and she bought them too, like not even a different color or design either, the SAME ones like a week after i bought mine, and she copies all of the slang words i use and what bands i like and i will say something funny or do something funny and she will repeat the same thing to other people and take all the credit for it. i just can't help but be annoyed with her. is this normal? does this happen to you?

  • It sounds like she's really insecure in who she is. She'd rather be you than herself. This CAN get out of hand and it's not out of the question to get annoyed. After all, you want a FRIEND not a PARROT that repeats everything you say and do. If she has no sense of self asking her why she does what she does will likely result in her not having a real answer. People like this rarely know what to think unless someone tells them. Even if you have a real great sense of style, she still needs to be a little bit more of her own person. Maybe she needs a self esteem boost. If you can think of a way to help her with that, maybe it will get her on the right track. But self esteem boosts come from DOING not just telling her 'she's nice' or that her hair looks great. She needs to get involved in some type of activity that will show her just how capable a person she is. Then maybe she won't look to others to define who she is.

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