Long relationship going south

I'm a senior in high school and i've been with my girlfriend since freshman year. We were getting along until we kept fighting because she became annoyed with every little thing that happens(getting lost while driving, sliding while raining, etc.). As a solution she started to pretty much start avoiding and hanging out with her best friend(a girl) nonstop and not really having anytime for me unless i basically begged her to hang with me and was always cut down. Like we were suppose to hang out for 5 hours then it ended up being 2 or 3. I told her how I felt but I still don't think she understands that she is still doing it. IDK what to do I feel like telling her again would lead to another fight which would just drive us further so I try giving her space. I feel like any more space I might end up letting one of her guy friends get too close to her but maybe i'm just being jealous but who knows. Any suggestions on how to get through to her that she is ignoring me a lot?

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  • You two need to have a long and realistic talk about your future together. Her short temper could be related to a number of things. She could be stressed or something else is going on that you're not privy to. It sounds like she's feeling smothered or tied down by this relationship and maybe needing her own freedom. You guys are young. Figuring out who you are as an individual is really important when you're in high school and even college. Maybe she does want to see other guys. I know that's not easy to hear, but it's honest. Even for you, it would be healthy to date other girls. What you should do. Don't dance around the subject you just have to ask her point blank..does she want to make this relationship work or to break it off. If she wants to make it work, then figure out how much time you both can spend with one another. And it's important you each have friends outside of this relationship.

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